What are you looking for?

       If you don't like climbing a mountain then you SHOULDN'T JOIN a mountain climbing club.

      If you don't like SINGING then don't SING at the KARAOKE party but you can still go and enjoy hearing your FRIENDS SING.

      If you don't like dancing then don't dance but you can ENJOY the music while it is playing. 

      If you want to RELAX then RELAX and AVOID things that STRESS YOU OUT.

      When you are feeling STRESSED OUT just STOP and RELAX while you are THINKING about times when you FELT RELAXED.

       When a negative thought pops up in your mind just STOP and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind then ENJOY the positive message that pops up next.

      When I am having a rough day I STOP and THINK about something POSITIVE that HAPPENED that day that makes me SMILE.

      If you look for what UPSET YOU today then that is WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

      But if you look for WHAT MADE YOU HAPPY today then that is WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

      If you LOOK FOR TROUBLE then that is WHAT YOU WILL FIND.

      WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

      

      

Searching for it doesn't mean that it will be EASY

        You can WORK HARD to ACHIEVE it but sometimes your HARD WORK doesn't EARN WHAT you were WORKING SO HARD to ACHIEVE.

       That doesn't mean that you DIDN'T WORK HARD ENOUGH it just means that even though you WORKED SO HARD it just wasn't meant to happen. 

      Every NEW THING that we ENJOY today may have taken many FAILED ATTEMPTS TO ACHIEVE but LUCKILY whoever was doing it kept DOING IT until they SUCCEEDED.

       What we LEARN through OUR MISTAKES we tried doing in the past were NECESSARY to LEARN HOW TO DO IT CORRECTLY to ACHIEVE THE GOAL we had planned.

       Do you know HOW MANY TIMES that someone had almost finished it but yet THEY STOPPED because they DIDN'T REALIZE that with a  SMALL ADJUSTMENT....they would have SUCCEEDED?

      MANY....MANY TIMES so DON'T STOP just ADJUST and then before you know it...BOOM IT WILL BE DONE.

       When you wanted to RIDE A BIKE you knew that you would FALL many times before you would be able to RIDE LIKE THE WIND.

      When you CHOOSE TO DO IT then ACCEPT that you are CHOOSING to KEEP GOING until YOU FINISH IT.

      If YOU WANT IT then DO WHATEVER it TAKES and DO IT as MANY TIMES that it TAKES because THAT IS WHAT IT WILL TAKE to GET 'R DONE.

      

In order to HELP OTHERS then FIRST YOU HAVE TO HELP YOURSELF so that YOU CAN

        Not everything has an INSTRUCTION BOOK so all you can do is STOP....and THINK ABOUT IT before you DECIDE what to do.

        If YOU DO IT WITHOUT THINKING you just might REGRET MAKING A DECISION WITHOUT STOPPING TO THINK. 

       The other day I almost said YES I WILL but LUCKILY I THOUGHT ABOUT IT and REALIZED that I am glad I THOUGHT ABOUT IT and DECIDED it WOULDN'T be best for me.

       Had I NOT THOUGHT ABOUT IT I would have been in TROUBLE because it DEFINITELY was something I DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO DO.

        YOU have to UNDERSTAND that SAYING NO when someone ASK YOU is OKAY, then they will FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO CAN HELP THEM.

        I USED to always say YES because I WANTED TO HELP OTHERS but I REALIZED that there was TIMES when I JUST NEEDED TO PUT MYSELF FIRST.

       It WASN'T because I was LAZY OR SELFISH it was because in order to BE ABLE TO HELP OTHERS that I HAD TO FIRST TAKE CARE OF MYSELF so that I COULD HELP OTHERS WHEN THEY REALLY NEEDED ME.

        When you OVERWHELM YOURSELF with TOO MUCH TO DO then YOU WEAR YOURSELF OUT and then even in an EMERGENCY you will be TOO TIRED TO HELP ANYONE.

      HELPING OTHERS when YOU CAN is a GOOD FEELING but IF YOU CAN'T HELP..... then it's OKAY to say I WISH I COULD but UNFORTUNATELY I AM UNABLE TO.

       Your friends and family will still LOVE YOU because THEY KNOW that IF YOU COULD YOU WOULD.

        So like the FLIGHT ATTENDANT says TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF and put on YOUR OXYGEN MASK FIRST so that YOU CAN THEN HAVE ENOUGH OXYGEN so then YOU CAN HELP THOSE AROUND YOU.

        Always REMEMBER that in order to HELP OTHERS that YOU have to be HEALTHY ENOUGH to HELP THEM.

       

Who GETS HURT when you GET ANGRY at someone WHO HURT YOU?

         What THEY DID absolutely HURTS but when YOU GET ANGRY it HURTS YOU HARDER because ANGER HURTS YOU.

        When YOU GET HURT those THAT HURT YOU usually LEAVES YOU HURTING and within a SECOND THEY HAVE NO MEMORY of HURTING YOU.

        Have you ever CONSTANTLY REPEATING THE MOMENT YOU WERE HURT again and again in YOUR MIND?

       And EVERYTIME YOU RELIVED that MOMENT.... DID IT HURT YOU EVERY TIME YOU RELIVED IT?

        Do YOU THINK that RELIVING IT WILL EVER TAKE AWAY YOUR PAINFUL FEELINGS?

       Well IT WON'T!

       And RELIVING IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN IS YOU CHOOSING to KEEP HURTING YOURSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN. 

       YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST but YOU CAN DEFINITELY CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS and THINK OF POSITIVE THINGS that will MAKE YOU FEEL POSITIVE TODAY. 

       WE ALL HAVE SOMEONE that WE COULD BLAME but THE TRUTH IS that WHAT HAPPENED ONCE HAPPENED but it is UP TO US to NOT EVER CHOOSE to RELIVE IT EVER AGAIN.

      So JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND SO YOU NEVER HAVE TO RELIVE IT EVER AGAIN.

       If YOU WANT to have PEACE OF MIND then YOU have to JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 

         

Our EXPERIENCES are part of Our EXPERIENCES

        There will be many things that we WILL FACE throughout OUR LIFE and WHAT WE LEARN from them is part of WHAT WE LEARN.

       WHAT YOU LEARN as you LEARN NEW THINGS to reach the GOALS you set is WHAT YOU LEARNED AS YOU GREW.

       Once YOU REACH THE GOAL that you had set then.....you start to wander WHAT ELSE might be a NEW GOAL that YOU COULD DO.

       TOO MANY people when they REACH THEIR GOAL then they FEEL LOST because HAVING A GOAL keeps YOU MOTIVATED to REACH THAT GOAL.

       STAYING BUSY ON working on YOUR GOALS is LIVING LIFE ONE GOAL AT A TIME.

       And if YOU REALIZE that at times ALTHOUGH YOU TRIED there are just SOME GOALS YOU WEREN'T MEANT to ACCOMPLISH then PICK ANOTHER GOAL.

         Our GOALS CHANGE as WE GROW and your LIFE'S JOURNEY is full of GOOD DAYS as well as BAD DAYS that are ALL PART OF YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY. 

     The BEST PARTS OF LIFE is ALL THE THINGS both THE GOOD AND THE BAD that YOU DID ALONG THE WAY.

       ENJOY YOUR LIFE while YOU ARE LIVING IT. 

       

       

When you want to make a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE then....

      You obviously CAN'T fix everyone's problems but YOU CAN make sure that you never make things HARDER for ANYONE. 

      You CAN'T make the negative things that happened to you go away but YOU CAN learn from them then..... JUST FLUSH IT so it CAN'T HURT YOU AGAIN. 

      You may NOT be able to CHANGE THINGS that happened already but YOU CAN CHANGE HOW YOU THINK TODAY so that you CAN ENJOY TODAY.

      YOU may NOT have FELT APPRECIATED by someone who SHOULD'VE APPRECIATED YOU but YOU CAN and YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE YOURSELF and ENJOY YOURSELF TODAY.

        YOU may have NOT ALWAYS FELT LOVE like YOU SHOULD OF but YOU CAN LEARN to LOVE YOURSELF.

        YOU HAVE A CHOICE HOW YOU FEEL TODAY despite of the negativity that YOU have had to face.

      DON'T let YOUR PAST PREVENT YOU from ENJOYING YOURSELF TODAY because TODAY it is PURELY UP TO YOU and YOU DESERVE to CHOOSE TO ENJOY YOURSELF.

     YESTERDAY is already gone and TOMORROW may never come but TODAY IS YOURS TO ENJOY SO ENJOY IT.

DECIDE so that YOU KNOW

       BEFORE YOU DECIDE how to get ANYWHERE you will have to DECIDE WHERE YOU WANT TO GO.

        If it is something that is IN THE NORTH then you OBVIOUSLY KNOW that you WON'T GET THERE if you GO to the SOUTH.

        If YOU DONT LIKE SEAFOOD then when you go OUT TO EAT then DON'T ORDER YOURSELF ANY SEAFOOD to EAT.

      If YOU have an IMPORTANT DECISION TO MAKE then STOP... and THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU DECIDE. 

       YOUR DECISIONS that YOU MAKE is YOUR DECISION so CHOOSE WISELY because it is UP TO YOU.

       

ENJOY the CHANGES because LIFE is full of CHANGES

       What you find important to do today may not be something that you will always find important to you.

      I have spent days doing something that I have been doing for years then...out of the blue....I suddenly just didn't want to do it anymore. 

      What you liked when you were young doesn't mean as much to you when you get older.

     There is nothing wrong with CHANGING WHAT YOU LIKE.... IT is just part of GROWING UP and doing what you like is NATURAL CHANGES.

       When I tried to FIGURE OUT WHY I NO LONGER liked it there was no answer to be found I just GREW and things NATURALLY CHANGED. 

      YOU can't get TOO COMFORTABLE in LIFE because LIFE is ALWAYS CHANGING. 

       And as YOU ADJUST to the CHANGES then YOU will GET COMFORTABLE and YOU will begin to ENJOY the CHANGES.

      

Maybe it isn't what you planned at least.....

        You may have PLANNED a grill out with your family and friends yet out of the blue....It starts pouring down rain.

       Although it wasn't what you had PLANNED at least you bought some awesome food that you can prepare for everyone, it's just everyone will be ENJOYING IT indoors instead of outdoors. 

       You may have PLANNED to get together with your friends but suddenly one by one many friends decides they can't come.

      And although it changes things you will still ENJOY the time you get to spend with those that do come.

       When things in your life are different then you had PLANNED just GO WITH THE FLOW and ENJOY WHAT YOU CAN.

       LIFE is LIFE and things happen in YOUR LIFE and that is JUST LIFE.

       YOUR CHOICE is whether you CHOOSE TO ENJOY IT OR NOT.

       When things are not WORKING OUT LIKE YOU PLANNED then......JUST FLUSH IT and ENJOY YOUR LIFE AS YOU ARE LIVING IT.

       We all ONLY have ONE LIFE to LIVE and it is UP TO YOU whether YOU ENJOY IT OR NOT and even on A BAD DAY then YOU CAN FLUSH AWAY A BAD DAY and ENJOY EVERY MOMENT YOU CAN.

Get PAST IT so YOU CAN GET PAST IT

      If you keep it FRESH ON YOUR MIND then OBVIOUSLY it will BE FRESH ON YOUR MIND. 

      So if you want to GET MOVING again then you need to JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so YOU CAN GET MOVING.

     Have you ever met someone who CONSTANTLY keeps REPEATING the incident that HURT THEM?

     And even after you GET THEM to TALK about something else they AGAIN START REPEATING THE SAME STORY and IT AFFECTS them and it is AGAIN FRESH ON THEIR MIND.

      After TIME AND TIME AGAIN they are DETERMINED to KEEP IT FRESH ON THEIR MIND.

      So WHAT CAN YOU DO?

     UNFORTUNATELY the THOUGHTS THEY CHOOSE to THINK ABOUT is ONLY UP TO THEM.

     So you just GIVE THEM A HUG and then WALKWAY and FIND PEACE OF MIND FOR YOURSELF and MOVE ON.

       You can LEAD someone to the WATER but they will DIE OF THIRST unless they DECIDE THEY ARE GOING TO TAKE A DRINK.

You CHOOSE by WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO THINK ABOUT

      When you wake up each morning what is the first thing that you THINK ABOUT?

      Do you IMMEDIATELY THINK that you are LUCKY THAT YOU WOKE UP TODAY?

      If the MOMENT YOU WAKE UP you are THANKFUL then YOU WILL START OFF your day with a SMILE.

      If the MOMENT YOU WAKE UP you IMMEDIATELY THINK NEGATIVELY about WHAT YOU WISH YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO then YOU START YOUR DAY OFF NEGATIVELY. 

      And since YOUR THOUGHTS will DETERMINE exactly HOW YOU WILL FEEL EACH DAY then CHOOSE WISELY.

       EVERY MORNING when YOU WAKE UP....JUST STOP and BE THANKFUL that YOU LUCKILY WOKE UP TODAY. 

      ACCEPT the CHALLENGES that COME YOUR WAY EACH DAY and ALWAYS THINK BEFORE YOU REACT.

     Because at the END OF THE DAY YOU WILL BE PROUD OF YOURSELF for THINKING and ACTING APPROPRIATELY. 

      If a NEGATIVE THOUGHT pops up in your mind then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind before it EVER has a CHANCE to AFFECT YOU NEGATIVELY. 

      UNFORTUNATELY...We all have NEGATIVE THOUGHTS that try to GRAB OUR ATTENTION so if YOU THINK ABOUT IT then INSTANTLY that THOUGHT brings an AVALANCHE TO TRAP YOU.

      So when a NEGATIVE THOUGHT POPS UP.....JUST FLUSH IT so it DOESN'T have a NEGATIVE EFFECT ON YOU. 

      When our ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS in our mind has a POSITIVE THOUGHT THAT POPS UP then JUST GRAB IT and YOU WILL HAVE A POSITIVE DAY.

      ONLY YOU CHOOSE what YOU WILL THINK ABOUT and YOU will UNDERSTAND that WHAT YOU will SEE IN LIFE is BASED ON HOW YOU LOOK AT THINGS.

Are you going to BRING IT with you?

      Sometimes during your Life's Journey you know that there will be times when you NEED TO TAKE A BREAK and.....well you NEED TO TAKE A BREAK.

      You know the NEGATIVE THOUGHTS that you are trying TO GET AWAY FROM.... make sure you DON'T TAKE IT WITH YOU.

      If you GET AWAY to RELAX then you NEED to ACCEPT WHAT HAPPENED then..... JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind and RELAX.

      Just remember that sometimes in Life THINGS HAPPEN as PART OF YOUR JOURNEY and it was meant to HAPPEN so YOU COULD LEARN AS YOU GREW.

     It's hard to IMAGINE BEING THANKFUL for a NEGATIVE PROBLEMS but ONE DAY you will LOOK BACK and BE THANKFUL. 

     YOU WILL REALIZE that had it NOT HAPPENED then YOU WOULDN'T have BECOME THE BEST YOU THAT YOU ARE TODAY.

     WHO YOU ARE is WHO YOU CHOSE TO BE despite the JOURNEYS you had to face along the way.

If it DIDN'T HAPPEN then...

       We make our PLANS that we want to ACCOMPLISH by what WE THINK WE KNOW about it.

      The other day a friend and I spent WEEKS MAKING PLANS so that we COULD ENJOY a fun day out.

      We sat TOGETHER and took the INFORMATION that WE BOTH HAD about WHERE we were going and WE TOOK QUITE A WHILE to PLAN a great outing.

      We both had spent WEEKS GATHERING everything that was ON OUR LIST.

       Then FINALLY IT WAS TIME TO GO and WE KNEW that we had EVERYTHING WE PLANNED for the OUTING.

        Then WHEN WE GET THERE... let's just say WE PLANNED A TRIP TOGETHER but APPARENTLY WE HAD NO IDEA about WHERE WE WERE ACTUALLY going to spend the day at.

      BUT INSTEAD OF what WE THOUGHT we ACTUALLY DIDN'T HAVE WHAT WE NEEDED for our OUTONG.

       LUCKILY WE LOVE EACH OTHER and therefore all WE COULD DO WAS LAUGH about IT and ENJOY OUR TIME TOGETHER.

       Sometimes WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES and EVERYTIME WE DO WE can JUST LAUGH ABOUT IT and JUST FLUSH IT and MOVE ON to ENJOY OUR DAY.

      To ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE takes FLUSHING AWAY A BAD DAY. 🫪

Even those that have always been against it suddenly......

       When you are GUESSING that DOESN'T MAKE IT A FACT.... it's just YOUR GUESS.

       So if you want to make an INFORMED DECISION then GET ALL THE FACTS so that YOU WILL BE INFORMED. 

       Because without the FACTS all you are doing is MAKING AN UNINFORMED DECISION.

      I had BELIEVED something AS A FACT then found out YEARS LATER that what I THOUGHT WAS A FACT was actually TOTALLY DIFFERENT than the TRUTH.

      If YOU BELIEVE that it is TRUE than TO YOU IT'S TRUE even if it REALLY ISN'T TRUE AT ALL. 

      THE TRUTH MAY HURT but if YOU KNOW THE TRUTH then YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT as long as YOU GET THE FACTS.

      Telling someone AN HONEST NO will hurt them LESS because then THEY WILL KNOW TO ASK SOMEONE ELSE.

       BEFORE YOU FORM YOUR OPINION just GET ALL THE FACTS so that YOU DON'T STRESS about the DECISION YOU WILL MAKE. 

DON'T JUDGE ANYONE TOO HARSHLY.....because

       If you judge anyone TOO HARSHLY then you will make things HARDER FOR THEM.

      If you judge yourself TOO HARSHLY then you will make yourself TOO STRESSED to TRY IT AGAIN so that YOU CAN DO IT BETTER.

      If you JUDGE your FRIENDS TOO HARSHLY then you might make them CHOOSE TO IGNORE YOU because they DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED SO HARSHLY.

      When you want TO TEACH someone the BEST WAY TO DO IT then YOU SHOULD POLITELY EXPLAIN the REASONS WHY something SHOULD BE DONE DIFFERENTLY so THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. 

      But if YOU JUDGE THEM TOO HARSHLY then THEY WON'T LEARN ANYTHING except that the WAY YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IS UNCOMFORTABLE. 

       You may not UNDERSTAND just HOW HARSHLY YOUR JUDGEMENTS CAN BE so TAKE A MOMENT TO THINK BEFORE YOU SAY IT so that YOU ARE NOT SAYING ANYTHING TO YOURSELF OR ANYONE that is TOO PAINFUL TO HEAR.

Every time it comes.....ADJUST

      You may be running behind but as long as you are getting everything done then it is done on time.

      Obstacles happen throughout your LIFES JOURNEY but those are just Obstacles that you will move around. 

     When you begin to doubt yourself just remember all the Obstacles that you dealt with throughout your life that you dealt with already. 

      Adjusting is part of GROWING and when you LEARN TO GROW WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED then you will proudly stand firmly grounded.

Be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE and THEY CAN BE THEIR BEST SELF TOO

       Let's START OFF by saying that it is IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY so TAKE THAT THOUGHT and JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND.

      You just make sure that YOU ARE HAPPY with EVERY THOUGHT, EVERY WORD, EVERY ACTION, and EVERY INTERACTION that YOU MAKE that YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF.

      If YOU KEEP CHANGING to PLEASE ANYONE then YOU WILL NEVER BE THE TRUE YOU.

      Because YOU WILL NEVER GROW TO BE THE BEST YOU that YOU ARE.

      With all the ANGER and FAKENESS from those AROUND YOU and THROUGHOUT THE SOCIAL MEDIA..... I HOPE YOU CAN SEE that YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO REMAIN TRUE TO YOURSELF.

       If YOU HAVE SET BOUNDARIES then remember to NEVER CROSS YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES... PERIOD.

       Remember that WHO YOU CHOOSE to ASSOCIATE WITH is YOU CHOOSING the TYPES of CROWD YOU ARE COMFORTABLE AROUND. 

       And if YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE AROUND people WHO HAVE A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE then FIND NEW FRIENDS WHO POSITIVELY INSPIRES YOU. 

      If I DIDN'T CHOOSE to go to the store EARLIER IN THE MORNING then I WOULD BE CHOOSING to go in the AFTERNOON WHEN THEY ARE PACKED WITH PEOPLE. 

      There are BILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD and yet there is ONLY ONE YOU and as long as YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF then YOU ARE AWESOME.

      

If you THINK it is TRUE then is it really TRUE?

      If you tell yourself that YOU CAN'T DO IT then the TRUTH is that YOU WON'T DO IT because YOU WILL NEVER TRY TO DO IT.

     After you CONVINCE YOURSELF that it is TOO HARD FOR YOU then YOU ALREADY CONVINCED YOURSELF so YOU WON'T EVER TRY IT.

      You may be AFRAID OF HEIGHTS yet if YOU TRY DOING some things that are DONE THAT ARE HIGH then YOU MAY ENJOY DOING THEM.

      If you want to ENJOY YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY then it means that there may be times that you need to TRY THINGS even if YOU THINK IT IS TOO HARD.

     There are MANY THINGS that YOU WILL FINALLY TRY that then YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU DON'T LIKE DOING THEM.

     But TRYING IT GIVES YOU THE TRUTH about whether YOU CAN OR YOU CAN'T DO IT.

      And the TRUTH MAKES YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO KNOW THE WHOLE TRUTH not a FALSE GUESS.

     DON'T GUESS just TRY IT so YOU WILL KNOW then forever YOU CAN KNOW THE TRUTH.

Having troubles means.....

      No matter how hard you plan something you have to ACCEPT that things don't always go as you had planned.

       But you can regroup and make things work out differently but first you have to STOP being ANGRY about how things have changed.

       Because until YOUR ANGER IS GONE then YOU CAN'T REGROUP because you are TOO ANGRY to THINK about how to ACCEPT IT so you can ENJOY IT DIFFERENTLY.

       I had to ACCEPT that we can still have FUN we have to JUST FLUSH IT out of our mind so we can PLAN a new ADVENTURE. 

      But when you can FEEL THE ANGER SO DEEP INSIDE YOU then....STOP THINKING ABOUT IT UNTIL YOUR ANGER IS GONE.

     If the ANGER is GONE then USE YOUR IMAGINATION and MAKE A NEW PLAN that YOU KNOW WILL BE JUST AS MUCH FUN TO DO.

      ANGER UNFORTUNATELY makes you ANGRY TO BE AROUND so ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT and EVERYONE will FORGET ABOUT IT and ENJOY YOUR NEW PLANS TOGETHER. 

Better to be SAFE not SORRY

      I really wanted it but at that price I would FEEL BAD about paying that much so.....I will CHOOSE to wait until it is ON SALE to buy it. 

     I wanted the kids to have FUN DOING IT but I decided that there was TOO MANY CHANCES that it would be DANGEROUS so....I  found something FUN that they could do. 

     I can UNDERSTAND how much FUN RIDING a ELECTRIC BIKE could be but going SO FAST for a young person is DANGEROUS so.....I decided buying a COOL BIKE for them was SAFER. 

     Some people can SEE THE FUN but it doesn't STOP THEM from doing it even after you tell them HOW DANGEROUS it COULD BE. 

      Sometimes my GRANDCHILDREN think I am always WORRIED about the DANGER WITHOUT SEEING THE FUN PART OF ANYTHING. 

      But what they DON'T KNOW is being OLD ENOUGH to have SEEN THE DANGERS happening during the DECADES it kinda makes you REALIZE that although it ISN'T ALWAYS DANGEROUS there is sometimes where it was DANGEROUS OCCASIONALLY. 

      Just take a MOMENT to LOOK AT THE POSSIBLE DANGERS before you CHOOSE TO DO IT because it is better to be SAFE NOT SORRY.

     But while you are doing it ENJOY IT because YOU GOT TO ALSO ENJOY YOUR LIFE WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT. 

     There are MANY THINGS that I did when I was YOUNG and I HAD FUN but my BODY STILL REMEMBERS a few times when I GOT HURT and I DECIDED that I WOULD NEVER DO THOSE THINGS A SECOND TIME.

      NO MATTER how many times someone tells you that YOU SHOULDN'T DO IT you MAY NOT UNDERSTAND what they MEANT UNTIL YOU WERE DOING IT and YOU SUDDENLY UNDERSTOOD what THEY MEANT.

    LIFE is like a ROLLERCOASTER and a ROLLERCOASTER may be FUN they are ALSO A LITTLE SCARY. 🎢

      

Don't STRESS over IT..... JUST FLUSH IT

      Sometimes when you are cooking dinner and one of the things you were trying to cook wasn't edible just DON'T STRESS about it because the rest of the food you cooked tasted awesome.

     Sometimes during your exciting weekend there may be a couple things that were not as exciting as you thought it would be but DON'T STRESS about it the rest of your weekend had plenty of HAPPY TIMES.

     You may have worked hard to get everything that you needed but DON'T STRESS if you forgot something because it is going to be a great time because of everything else you did get.

     Not everyone will ENJOY EVERY MOMENT of it but everyone will ENJOY MANY MOMENTS of it.

     There are many things in your LIFE'S JOURNEY that DON'T HAPPEN like you PLANNED but DON'T STRESS about the negative things because OVER ALL you have had an AMAZING LIFE'S JOURNEY. 

     When you catch the FLU you feel sick but DON'T STRESS about it because eventually you will RECOVER FROM THE FLU.

      You may be upset at the COST OF YOUR CAR REPAIR but DON'T STRESS about it because you should be THANKFUL that you will have a car to drive because some people DON'T. 

     Recently I was feeling STRESSED about being STRESSED over stupid things so I STOPPED and ACCEPTED IT then I decided to JUST FLUSH IT out of my mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 

      If you want PEACE OF MIND then you have to FIND IT by LEARNING how to JUST FLUSH IT  so you DON'T HAVE TO STRESS about it.

     

Have you ever found things that you forgot about?

       Have you RECENTLY LOOKED at what you have in your "JUNK DRAWER" in a ROOM in your house?

      I have realized that I seem to have a "JUNK DRAWER" in EVERY ROOM.

      Do you know how many "JUNK DRAWERS" that you have?

      Every "JUNK DRAWER" even if they were stuffed in a "JUNK BOX" that I went through were full of MEMORIES and some of it was just JUNK.

     I have learned that going through your "JUNK DRAWERS" was something that is actually FUN TO DO every now and again.

    And although DUSTING ALL YOUR "JUNK SHELVES" you have throughout your house is NOT FUN but by DUSTING IT sure gets YOU ANOTHER CHANCE to ENJOY THE MEMORIES of when you got it.

     And ENJOYING all those HAPPY MEMORIES if YOU LOOK AT THEM is why ANYTIME YOU WANT TO REMEMBER IT just START DUSTING IT.

    

   

     

Before you REACT take a minute to THINK BEFORE YOU REACT

      When something happens that makes you FEEL NEGATIVELY then YOU KNOW that your FIRST THOUGHT WILL BE NEGATIVE.

     So if you REACT IMMEDIATELY then YOU KNOW that if YOU RESPOND NEGATIVELY that things will END NEGATIVELY.

     So in THAT MOMENT just STOP and THINK about what YOUR ACTIONS WILL BRING.

     And YOU WILL SEE that YOUR FIRST REACTION was LEADING TO ANGER and ANYTHING DONE OUT OF ANGER will BRING YOU A NEGATIVE OUTCOME.

     But when YOU STOP AND THINK it through then YOU WILL FIGURE OUT what TO DO to have the BEST OUTCOME POSSIBLE despite the circumstances.

     Remember that YOU CAN..... if YOU STOP and TAKE A MINUTE TO THINK BEFORE YOU REACT. 

CHOOSE to do what MAKES YOU HAPPY

     Have you ever found yourself doing something that you DON'T have to do that you DID JUST BECAUSE you HAD ALWAYS DONE IT?

     Well then maybe you should STOP DOING IT because we only have one life to live and we need to STOP WASTING a moment of it.

     It is hard to STOP sometimes because you know that if you DON'T DO IT then it will STOP BEING DONE.

     So take a moment and DECIDE how you will feel if it STOPPED HAPPENING.

    If YOU REALIZE that YOU DO IT FOR YOURSELF because YOU WANT IT TO HAPPEN then KEEP DOING IT.

     But if YOU REALIZE that by NOT DOING IT that it would give YOU EXTRA TIME to do something else that YOU ARE EXCITED about then STOP DOING IT.

     If YOU LIKE DOING IT then as long as YOU CAN KEEP DOING IT and HAVE FUN DOING IT.

    It is UP TO YOU to CHOOSE TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO and if YOU NO LONGER WANT TO then ITS UP TO YOU to STOP DOING IT.

    

It's a 250 YEAR CELEBRATION for USA but EVERY COUNTRY should CELEBRATE THEIR COUNTRY TOO

       It wasn't easy to become OUR OWN COUNTRY but the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA is something SPECIAL TO CELEBRATE.

     EVERY COUNTRY has millions of people that work hard to keep their COUNTRY SAFE and STRIVE to be a PROSPEROUS COUNTRY TO PROUDLY LIVE IN.

     EVERY PERSON IN YOUR COUNTRY has to WORK HARD INDIVIDUALLY to STAND LOUD AND PROUD.

     If you WANT PEACE in YOUR COUNTRY you have to FIND YOUR PEACE OF MIND to SHARE IT so PEACE OF MIND will SPREAD HUMANITY in YOUR COUNTRY. 

      There will always be ISSUES that EVERY COUNTRY will have to FACE but HOW YOU DEAL WITH and REACT to the ISSUES is WHAT DETERMINES THE OUTCOME.

      Just when EVERYTHING IS WORKING out then BAMMMM.... something HAPPENS.

     Then TOGETHER YOU WORK HARD and TOGETHER YOU FIX IT and you CELEBRATE.

     But TOMORROW the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA will CELEBRATE 250 YEARS of becoming the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.

     And I KNOW that ALL AMERICANS will be CELEBRATING and I HOPE that EVERY COUNTRY will be CELEBRATING THEIR OWN COUNTRIES because WE ALL LOVE OUR COUNTRIES.

     WE ALL DESERVE TO BE COMFORTABLE and FEEL SAFE NO MATTER WHAT COUNTRY WE LIVE IN.

      TEACH YOUR CHILDREN TO LOVE THEIR COUNTRY and to SPREAD HUMANITY to SPREAD KINDNESS FROM ONE COUNTRY TO ANOTHER. 

     WORLD PEACE IS POSSIBLE by BRINGING PEACE OF MIND to ONE PERSON AT A TIME.

    So LEARN HOW to take all the NEGATIVITY IN THE WORLD and JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 🌻 

    

     

We are all DIFFERENT and our DIFFERENCES are what makes us all UNIQUELY DIFFERENT

      If you get burnt from the stove you quickly LEARN not to TOUCH IT again because it hurts you if you TOUCH IT. 

      If you TRIED to do it but you REALIZE that it is just something that you CAN'T DO then ACCEPT that you CAN'T but at least you TRIED.

      If you KNOW when enough is enough then ACCEPT IT and MOVE ON and do something else. 

      I have seen people get so UPSET that they COULDN'T do what their friends did that they IGNORED the fact that everyone DOESN'T do EXACTLY the same thing. 

       We each are GOOD at some things but NO ONE is GOOD AT EVERYTHING so you do what you are GOOD at and they will do what they are GOOD AT.

      If we were all the same then none of us would do anything differently and that DOESN'T seem like we would ever have any chance of doing anything differently. 

     I like LEARNING NEW THINGS even if I choose not to do it I can still ENJOY hearing about new exciting things that other people were doing. 

      We are all UNIQUELY DIFFERENT and that is what makes a UNIQUELY DIFFERENT WORLD that we all GET TO ENJOY LIFE in our OWN UNIQUE WAY.

Have you ever made a list then.....

      How many times have you made a LIST then you get to the store and REALIZE that you FORGOT TO BRING THE LIST?

      Have you ever spent a long time making your LIST but after you shop and get home you REALIZE that YOU FORGOT to write the MOST IMPORTANT PART?

     It is hard to REMEMBER EVERYTHING on your LIST which is why you write a LIST but sometimes you have to REALIZE that you need to CHECK YOUR LIST TWICE.

      I had been gathering everything to have fun with my grandkids PAINTING ROCKS and as I start gathering stuff guess what I forgot?

      I FORGOT THE ROCKS. 

      So now I have to GET SOME ROCKS so WE can ENJOY painting ROCKS.

       What was the last thing that YOU FORGOT?

       I have had many PLANNED FAMILY DINNERS that SUDDENLY CHANGED when I REALIZE that I had FORGOTTEN ONE OF MY INGREDIENTS OFF MY LIST TO BUY.

      Sometimes you just got to GO WITH THE FLOW on your LIFE'S JOURNEY because LIFE is full of TWISTS AND TURNS. 

       

      

     

When you WANT TO KNOW then.....

       If you WANT TO KNOW then you have to do what you got TO DO and LOOK FOR THE ANSWER to KNOW.

      If you WANT TO ENJOY something then you have to ENJOY IT whenever you can ENJOY IT.

      You WON'T GET everything that you DREAM OF but if you WANT ANY OF YOUR DREAMS to COME TRUE then YOU WILL HAVE TO HAVE DREAMS.

       You WON'T APPRECIATE what you DO HAVE unless you LOOK AT what you have and BE THANKFUL that you have it.

      When I WANT TO CRAFT something I WANT to ENJOY IT so I HAVE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT the CRAFT so that I CAN GET ALL THE SUPPLIES to BE ABLE TO DO IT.

       You CAN DO MANY THINGS during your LIFE'S JOURNEY but if YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO DO IT then TO DO IT CORRECTLY then you have to FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO IT CORRECTLY.

       I thought PAINTING ON ROCKS would be PAINT AND GO but after WATCHING the GO ROCK GO ROCK PAINTING on Social media I REALIZED that I NEEDED CERTAIN TYPES OF PAINT.

      Which EXPLAINS WHY the ROCK I PAINTED that I left outside was RUINED AFTER IT GOT WET with the RAIN.

      LOOKING UP WHAT YOU NEED will HELP YOU HAVE WHAT YOU NEED to DO IT.

      

      

You can still ENJOY IT but....

     If you STARVE yourself to lose weight but then after you lose it you go back to eating the same way then you gain more weight then you were before because you were so STARVING.

     If you are SAVING MONEY then remember  that you can still spend a little cash for something but you CAN'T SPEND MORE than you NORMALLY HAVE BEEN.

     When your house GETS FULL of things you have bought over your life's journey then you KNOW that you CANT KEEP BUYING things even if you LIKE THEM because you have NO WHERE TO PUT IT.

    When you REALIZE that the CHOICES YOU MAKE are YOUR CHOICE ALONE then just make sure that you ENJOY A LITTLE and STICK TO YOUR STANDARDS to STAY ON TRACK.

     Sometimes you just have to CHANGE what you USED TO DO so that THINGS CAN POSITIVELY CHANGE like YOU WANT THEM TO. 

     You can ENJOY IT if you WOULD APPRECIATE ENJOYING WHATEVER YOU DO HAVE.

     Even if your glass is half full it can still QUENCH YOUR THIRST if YOU TAKE A DRINK.

     

LEARNING takes DOING something so you can LEARN something

     If you never TRY to DO IT then you WON'T KNOW if you CAN DO IT.

     So if you want to at least KNOW if you CAN DO IT then TRY IT so that YOU WILL KNOW if you CAN DO IT. 

     If you always wanted to LEARN SOMETHING you CAN'T SAY that you WOULD but you just CAN'T with total HONESTY if you NEVER TRIED TO DO IT.

     If you want to KNOW if you are GOOD AT COOKING then you HAVE TO COOK before you will KNOW if YOU CAN COOK GOOD FOOD.

     And even when you THINK that you are PAST THE TIME TO DO IT just remember that it is ONLY TOO LATE IF YOU DON'T DO IT.

     You LEARN what you ACTUALLY TAKE THE TIME TO DO and whatever you choose TO DO IS UP TO YOU.

     If you WON'T TRY IT then ADMIT that YOU DON'T WANT TO and choose to DO WHAT is IMPORTANT TO YOU.

     Lots of people may try to get you to DO WHAT THEY DO but LET THEM BE THEM and YOU BE YOU. 

      But you REALIZE that LEARNING what is IMPORTANT TO YOU is YOU LEARNING what YOU NEED TO LEARN to be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE.

     

     

PICK A HABIT YOU WANT then ENJOY DOING IT

       If you WANT GOOD HABITS then PICK a GOOD HABIT that YOU WANT and START DOING IT WHENEVER YOU CAN.

       Every day you will have things you ENJOYED DOING but unfortunately you WON'T ENJOY EVERY MOMENT.

      At the END OF EVERY DAY take a moment to LIST THREE POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT THAT DAY that HAPPENED. 

      Then YOU WILL KNOW that at THE END OF EACH DAY there will be THREE POSITIVE THINGS that WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD about TODAY. 

      Those around you WILL NOTICE how much more PEACEFUL YOU ARE when you FIND A HABIT that BRINGS YOU PEACE OF MIND.

      And MAKE YOUR HABITS be ONLY WHAT YOU DECIDE no matter WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS would MAKE YOU HAPPY.

      EVERY PERSONAL HABIT that YOU HAVE during your LIFE'S JOURNEY will BRING YOU PEACE OF MIND whenever YOU DO IT.

     And the MORE GOOD HABITS YOU have well......the MORE HAPPIER YOU WILL BE.

      

     

It feels good when you are RIGHT but.....

       It FEELS good to be RIGHT but sometimes the RIGHT THING to do to have PEACE is to KNOW that you WERE RIGHT but KNOW That sometimes FIGHTING to PROVE that you WERE RIGHT is WRONG.

       THE Common PEACEFULNESS that you are FEELING because you WERE RIGHT could CAUSE EVERYONE UNHAPPINESS if you argue when you try to PROVE YOU WERE RIGHT. 

      All that REALLY MATTERS is that LUCKILY YOU WERE RIGHT and EVERYTHING TURNED OUT ALL RIGHT.

      Just TELL YOURSELF that YOU WERE RIGHT and if THEY took the time to see how things TURNED OUT then they would KNOW IT TOO.....HAHAHA 

       If you WON'T BE HAPPY unless YOU get CREDIT for EVERYTIME that you WERE RIGHT then ACCEPT that YOU WON'T BE HAPPY because.....  

      Most of the time YOU WONT GET CREDIT even though YOU WERE RIGHT, that's just life.

      But YOU KNOW and no matter if ANYONE ELSE NOTICES OR NOT....YOU WERE RIGHT and YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OF YOURSELF for BEING RIGHT.

      

      

What are you waiting for?

      Do you think the PERFECT OPPORTUNITY is just going to drop in your LAP one day?

      Do you think the dream of things suddenly being TOTALLY PERFECT without YOU having to put in the HARD WORK is going TO JUST HAPPEN?

     BE HONEST with YOURSELF in life so you will HONESTLY KNOW that YOUR LIFES JOURNEY is DECIDED by the CHOICES YOU MAKE.

     If you WANT something to be YOUR REALITY then ASK YOURSELF what it WILL TAKE FROM YOU to HAVE IT.

     There will be SACRIFICES that you will HAVE TO MAKE and no matter what ANYONE ELSE TELLS you just STICK TO YOUR CHOICES.

     Because NO ONE but YOU KNOWS WHAT YOU WANT for YOURSELF and NO ONE BUT YOU CARES about how YOUR CHOICES IN LIFE CHOOSES YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY.

     Always remember that YOU MUST take care of YOURSELF because the truth is YOU MUST be able to take care of YOURSELF.

     

     

CHANGE the THOUGHT so things CAN CHANGE

      If you are watching your television and you DON'T like what's on that channel then WHAT DO YOU DO?

      You pick up the television remote and you CHANGE THE CHANNEL and you KEEP CHANGING until you FIND something you LIKE on a DIFFERENT CHANNEL then WATCH IT.

      If you are on a SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNEL and things POP UP that you DON'T LIKE then SWIPE IT until you FIND something on that you want to WATCH.

     The MORE TIMES that you KEEP CHANGING the television CHANNEL the MORE SHOWS that you will START going to MORE OFTEN because you ENJOYED THEM.

     The MORE TIMES that you KEEP SWIPING AWAY the NEGATIVE THINGS that POP UP and FIND POSITIVE ones the MORE TIMES the POSITIVE ones will POP UP on your FYP.

     You CAN FIND things you ENJOY WATCHING on your television if YOU LOOK FOR THEM.

     You CAN be INSPIRED by things on SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS if you SWIPE UNTIL YOU FIND SOMETHING INSPIRING TO WATCH.

      And if you WISH YOU SPENT MORE TIMES with those you LOVE then MAKE TIME TO SPEND TIME WITH THEM....JUST DO IT.

     TECHNOLOGY does what it wants but YOU DECIDE WHAT TYPES OF TECHNOLOGY THAT YOU CHOOSE TO USE.....the rest you JUST FLUSH IT.... and ONLY CHOOSE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. 

       

Thinking you remember then you realize you Forgot

       I know that I USED TO DO IT and I loved doing it but suddenly after years of not doing it I apparently forgot how to.

       It seems like if you did it often for years that any time you decide to do it again you COULD.

      But I am looking at the game I had played and it was a nice set of quality of game of it that my husband had bought me yet....

       Although it was made very beautifully and it looks exactly like the game me and my friends played for hours of fun yet I have NO IDEA HOW TO PLAY IT.

      It reminds me of the saying...

IF YOU DON'T USE IT you WILL LOSE IT.

     I know many people who by school rules they had to take a different language class in order to graduate but yet they don't remember any of that language today.

     Why if they got A'S in the class could they not remember?

     Well it's because they never said that language ever again and....If you DON'T USE IT then you LOSE IT and they LOST IT.

      My husband recently started studying Spanish and he enjoys going out to eat at a Mexican restaurant just to keep up with constantly repeatedly keeping up with hearing and talking to USE IT.

      Even though he hadn't learned all of the Spanish language totally he still enjoys trying.

     Is there anything that YOU STOPPED DOING that YOU SUDDENLY FORGOT how TO DO?

    Remember that if YOU DON'T USE IT then YOU WILL LOSE IT.

      

      

     

      

What happened may have happened but it DOESN'T DEFINE YOU

       If you keep THINKING about what HAPPENED it keeps it FRESH ON YOUR MIND.

      And whatever you have FRESH ON YOUR MIND TODAY even if it HAPPENED YEARS AGO will decide YOUR FEELINGS TODAY.

      So if something HAPPENED that has HURT YOU then REMEMBER that you will at the time FEEL HURT EVERYTIME that you have it FRESH ON YOUR MIND.

      You may not have had any WAY TO STOP IT FROM HAPPENING the first time but TODAY you can LEARN what you NEED TO then...

      .....take that PAINFUL EXPERIENCE and JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND so it CAN'T HURT YOU TODAY.

      And it may CONTINUE to try to GRAB YOUR  ATTENTION over and over again but REMEMBER.....

     .....the SECOND it POPS UP IN YOUR MIND then.....IMMEDIATELY....JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so it CAN'T KEEP HURTING YOU. 

     Things HAPPEN during your LIFES JOURNEY and sometimes you have GOOD DAYS and sometimes you have a BAD DAY....THAT'S JUST LIFE.

     Our minds have an ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS and WE GET TO CHOOSE which THOUGHTS WE CHOOSE TO THINK ABOUT.....

    .... and WE CHOOSE which THOUGHTS we FLUSH IMMEDIATELY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT THEM AT ALL!  🚽 JUST FLUSH IT 😳 

     

     

     

  

Make what counts truly important and enjoy it

     When you were a toddler you couldn't wait to ride a bike like your older siblings as you speeded along with them on your cool bike with training wheels.

     Although you had excitement about one day being old enough one day and be riding a bike like theirs you still had a blast riding the bike you did have.

     You might dream about what you plan to do one day then as you get older and experience life that you may actually decide that you no longer want to do it anymore.

     Because the truth is that you really won't know what you truly want to do until you actually learn enough to truly know.

      Acting too soon can keep you from seeing what you would have seen if you looked for a while before you decided or.....

    ....You could move too slow by looking too hard that by the time you figure it out you missed out.

      Your life's journey will be full of lessons and experiences that you will learn from as you grow. 

       But if something is really important to you then no matter how hard it is to get..... you will do it because it is important to you. 

      But learn how to not waste a moment of your time, money or energy on anyone or anything if it is not important to you.

      Because it would be a waste of your precious time that can and should only be used for what is important to you or someone you love.

      To enjoy life you have to enjoy it while you are living it on both the good days and the bad days.

      

     

LIFE is LIFE so ADJUST as you GO

      If you ASSUME that your LIFE'S JOURNEY will always be HOLLY JOLLY all the time you will be DISAPPOINTED.

     Because REAL LIVES have REAL PROBLEMS no matter WHO YOU ARE nor how HARD YOU WORKED....LIFE is just YOUR JOURNEY.

     And THEN YOU REALIZE that the ONLY WAY TO ENJOY LIFE is to ENJOY IT WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT.

     We all ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE to LIVE and if you LEARN how to ACCEPT and BE THANKFUL  for the LIFE you have been given you will ADJUST AS YOU GO.

    Like the plaque on my wall says...

I asked God for all things that I might ENJOY LIFE. He gave me LIFE that I might ENJOY all things.

    If you want PEACE OF MIND then LEARN how to take the NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES on your  LIFE'S  JOURNEY and LEARN what you NEED TO then...

     .....JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN.

ACCEPTING IT doesn't mean that.....

     Just because you ACCEPT what has happened doesn't mean that you AGREE with what has happened.

     It just means that LIFE IS LIFE and the ROLLERCOASTER OF LIFE is full of UPS and DOWNS as well as TWISTS and TURNS.

     Which is why the church sign I saw taught me to ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT out of my mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN.

     The church sign said....

     It's okay to sit on your pity-potty every now and again just be sure and FLUSH when you are done.

      Because no matter what you do LIFE is full of CHALLENGES that you will have to FACE because that is LIFE.

      Some people FACE MORE PROBLEMS than others do but that is just LIFE and we all have to ADJUST to ENJOY LIFE while we are LIVING IT.

     WASTING your LIFE COMPLAINING about all the CHALLENGES that you have FACED just keeps it FRESH ON OUR MIND.

     So take the PAINFUL EXPERIENCES you are FACING and LEARN WHAT YOU NEED TO from them then....JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

    Because for you to HAVE PEACE OF MIND you have to JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 

     

Getting REAL with YOURSELF means....

    If you are HONEST with YOURSELF then you will HONESTLY KNOW what is THE TRUTH so you will KNOW WHAT IS REAL.

     If you PRETEND that something NEGATIVE that is HAPPENING ISN'T REAL then you could GET HURT by WHAT IS HAPPENING.

     BEING HONEST MAY HURT but you will KNOW so that you can PLAN to have the BEST OUTCOME DESPITE what is HAPPENING.

     When you are YOUNG you ASSUME that everything is just FUN but the OLDER you get you REALIZE that LIFE is HARDER than YOU THOUGHT.

     When you KNOW WHAT YOU GOT then you can USE WHAT YOU GOT to GET THROUGH the ROLLERCOASTER OF LIFE.

     Because whether you WANT TO KNOW IT OR NOT you have to GO WITH THE FLOW and BEND LIKE A PRETZEL to ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT.

     As long as YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF then YOU WILL FIND a way to MAKE IT WORK. 

    

     

Just because you THINK YOU SHOULD is.....

      What YOU DECIDE is based on more than ONE THING because YOUR DECISION is based on YOUR ENTIRE LIFES EXPERIENCES. 

      Just because you GREW UP in the SAME TOWN as someone it doesn't mean that YOU BOTH GREW UP THE SAME. 

      Just remember that if you keep CHANGING to PLEASE OTHERS before YOU know it YOU will FORGET YOURSELF. 

      And at the end of the day YOU want to be PROUD of WHAT YOU DID TODAY. 

      FOLLOWING what YOU KNOW is RIGHT DESPITE what anyone else says means at the end of the day YOU will be PROUD that YOU DID what was RIGHT.

      Remember that CHOOSING to follow the WORN OUT path may mean that it is WORN OUT because.....

     ...... IT lead to a DEAD END and everyone traveled twice across it to GO a DIFFERENT DIRECTION. 

       At the end of the day will YOU be PROUD of everything YOU DID and SAID TODAY?

Being HAPPY takes FINDING things that you are THANKFUL FOR

      If you are WAITING TO BE HAPPY after you REACHED what you THOUGHT would MAKE YOU HAPPY then....

      How will you FEEL if you WORK REALLY HARD but you DIDN'T GET EVERYTHING that you DREAMED OF for YOUR HARD WORK?

      There will be LOTS OF WORK that it will take to REACH ANYTHING but even if you DON'T REACH IT then.....

     Then you SHOULD have many HAPPY THOUGHTS about everything that YOU DID DO to TRY to GET IT because YOU WORKED HARD. 

      YOUR PRIDE is based on YOUR CHOICES about DOING WHAT IS NECESSARY not on ONLY IF YOU WON OR NOT.

      Doing the RIGHT THING doesn't mean you will ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU WANT it means that you SHOULD BE PROUD OF YOURSELF for DOING THE RIGHT THING.

      YOUR PERCEPTION of WHO YOU ARE is based on whether YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF for EVERYTHING YOU CHOOSE TO DO. 

      At the END OF THE DAY will you be PROUD of everything YOU DID AND SAID TODAY?

      

       

      

All you can do is LISTEN even when you REALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND

     Just because you have no way to actually take care of the circumstances they are facing you can HELP them by LISTENING.

     They may only need a MOMENT to LISTEN TO THEMSELVES as they TELL you their circumstances to be able to UNDERSTAND HOW THEY CAN FIX IT.

     They were just OVERWHELMED by the circumstances that they were facing and COULDN'T THINK CLEARLY enough to FIGURE IT OUT.

     But as they TOLD you they began to ACCEPT the circumstances and then they could JUST FLUSH IT out of their mind and then THEY FIGURED IT OUT.

     They just needed to SAY IT to be able to JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND would have ROOM to GET IN.

    Take the TIME TO LISTEN to them so they can be able to JUST FLUSH IT and THINK CLEARLY and they will FIGURE IT OUT on THEIR OWN.

Of course I excitedly waited to see who would WIN SURVIVORS TONIGHT but....

     Every New Season of Shows I ENJOY WATCHING comes on and I spend ALL WEEK EVERY WEEK of the Season predicting the OUTCOME.

      There was a time when the SURVIVORS Show started that I had no interest in WATCHING..... then.....I GOT HOOKED on WATCHING it EVERY Season.

      At first I  saw a bunch of people WHO LIED ON EVERY SHOW. 

      I DIDN'T see why someone WHO LIED TO EVERYONE would possibly DESERVE A MILLION DOLLARS FOR BEING A GOOD LIAR.

      I DIDN'T see why those that were GOOD AT CHALLENGES would DESERVE A MILLION DOLLARS instead of the ALWAYS HONEST PLAYER.

     It TOOK ME FIVE SEASONS before when SURVIVORS WAS ON everyone knew to LEAVE ME ALONE so I COULD WATCH EVERY MINUTE OF IT.

     And I mean EVERY MINUTE OF IT because OUT OF THE BLUE a SIMPLE CONVERSATION can happen QUIETLY 🤫  And it CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING.

      TONIGHT is the Finale of SURVIVORS 50 which was FULL OF ONLY PAST PLAYERS THROUGHOUT the different seasons.

      They let famous people and fans come up with UNIQUE IDEAS that would AFFECT the ENTIRE RULES and it has been an AWESOME 50TH SHOW to ENJOY WATCHING. 

      There are MANY PLAYERS THAT I LOVED that have already had their TORCH SNUFFED but to ALL OF THEM I want to say THANK YOU FOR PLAYING AGAIN FOR US ALL.

     I DON'T  KNOW THEM but they have BROUGHT ME MANY YEARS of FUN AWAY FROM MY REGULAR LIFE.

      And sometimes they BROUGHT ME PEACE OF MIND at a time when I was SURROUNDED BY CHAOS and when I was WATCHING THEM the CHAOS WENT AWAY.

     You ALL DIDN'T WIN SURVIVORS when YOU PLAYED but YOU ALL BROUGHT MILLIONS OF PEOPLE PEACE OF MIND EVERY TIME YOU SHOWED UP ON OUR TELEVISIONS.

     And although it AINT A MILLION DOLLARS....it is MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF SMILES you BROUGHT TO US ALL. 

     THANK YOU ALL and I will see you TONIGHT AT 8:00 TO SEE WHO WON SURVIVORS 50.🤔

      

     

     

I BELIEVE that eventually we know what we want so....CHOOSE WISELY

      You LEARN AS YOU GO through Life but at some point you get older and REALIZE that you have to DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT so that you can WORK YOUR WAY TO GET THERE.

      When you are a young adult you LOOK FORWARD to being ABLE to TRY MANY THINGS and you don't STRESS ABOUT IT you just ENJOY DOING something different.

      When you get a little older you have LEARNED a few things by now so you CONSIDER the GOOD PARTS and the BAD PARTS before you DECIDE if you should do it.

      Once you become a PARENT you have to really THINK about not only the GOOD and BAD PARTS but is it WORTH THE MONEY on a tighter budget.

      Then when you become a Grandparent you ALWAYS CHOOSE what your GRANDKIDS would ENJOY DOING because making your GRANDKIDS HAPPY makes YOU HAPPY.

      You get to CHOOSE but how OLD you are seems to AFFECT YOUR WAY OF THINKING.

      You get to CHOOSE so THINK BEFORE YOU DECIDE because once YOU DO IT then you will have to pay the CONSEQUENCES for WHAT YOU CHOSE TO DO.

      

     

Did you GET MOVING or CONSTANTLY KEEP SCROLLING?

       When I was young CHILDREN WENT OUTSIDE and PLAYED but today they SIT IN THEIR ROOMS ALONE and SCROLL ON THE INTERNET. 

      When I was young EVERY FAMILY MEMBER waited for the WEEKEND NEWSPAPER because EVERYONE LIKED ONE PART OR ANOTHER PART of it.

      But NOWADAYS we are EACH LOST ON OUR PHONES ALONE CLICKING from one thing to another and WHO KNOWS WHAT POPS UP trying to GRAB ANYONE'S ATTENTION.

      I BELIEVE that people KNOW THEY NEED HUMAN TIMES because the INTERNET can KEEP US LOST and WE FORGET TO GROW AS A HUMAN.

     INSTEAD of SCROLLING THROUGH CYBERSPACE I THINK that EVERYONE will eventually MAKE PLANS to MEET UP with a real HUMAN BEING to ENJOY BEING HUMAN with them.

     I THINK SOON.... GOOD OLD BOARD GAMES with OTHER HUMANS will BE COMMON AGAIN.

      INSTEAD of GETTING A TEXT to SAY HELLO SOON.... they will MEET UP IN PERSON to SAY HELLO.

     What do YOU MISS MOST about the GOOD OLD DAYS BEFORE THE INTERNET CAME?

     What BOARD GAME WOULD YOU WANT TO PLAY if someone WOULD PLAY WITH YOU?

     

     

       

The DISTRACTION from the WIND can DISTRACT YOU

      As we were heading outside to leave to do errands I was GREETED BY THE WIND and it GAVE me an INSTANT WAKE UP FEELING.

     And that was definitely a nice start to getting MOTIVATED to get my errands done today.

     I always make a LIST starting from everything that MUST GET DONE being DONE FIRST.

     Too many times if you DONT DO IT FIRST then something always happens that CHANGES WHAT YOU CAN DO at any moment.

    And if you DO WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT FIRST then no matter what happens you at least GOT DONE what was MOST IMPORTANT.

     What YOU DO is UP TO YOU so if YOU CHOOSE TO NOT DO IT then ADMIT that YOU CHOSE NOT TO DO IT FIRST so that is WHY IT ISNT DONE. 

     Your FIRST CHOICE should be WHAT YOU MAKE SURE YOU DO FIRST.

     What do you need DONE FIRST?

     

Usually I get MORE EMAILS just WASTING SPACE then.....

     As I was going through a couple of days of emails that I had ignored I found a FREE COUPLE OF MINUTES of FUN.

     Years ago I had signed up for an ESTATE SALE website that sends you MOSTLY LOCAL ESTATE SALES and a few OUT OF STATE ONES every week.

      I used to LOOK at a FEW but I had not been going to buy more stuff anymore because my house was full.

     But OUT OF THE BLUE I decided to hit the button to SEE pictures of things that were going to be on sale. 

     I used to always go to FLEA MARKETS and it would FEEL like a FAMILY REUNION as I saw objects that REMINDED ME about CHILDHOOD MEMORIES. 

    And as I sat COMFORTABLY in my home I could ENJOY so MANY MEMORIES as the pictures brought up many OLD DAYS. 

     NOW when a email from an ESTATE SALE that I am NOT GOING to POPS UP I don't SEE IT AS ANYTHING but FUN I CAN ENJOY whenever I want to read it. 

     I even get to ENJOY the OUT OF STATE ONES too because I LEARNED that just LOOKING IS FUN.

    WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT that even SOME UNWANTED EMAILS can BE FUN.

    LIFE truly is based on HOW YOU LOOK AT IT.

What are YOU LOOKING FOR?

       You might THINK that everyone KNOWS but the TRUTH is EVERYONE DOESN'T KNOW EVERYTHING.

      If you AREN'T TAUGHT about it then HOW WILL YOU KNOW anything about it?

     If you GET YOUR OPINION based purely on ONE PERSON'S OPINION then do you THINK you KNOW enough about it to HAVE AN OPINION about it?

     Just at least UNDERSTAND that SEEING ONLY ONE SIDE of ANYTHING means that there is a WHOLE OTHER SIDE that you HAVEN'T SEEN. 

     My friend and I were at the SAME PLACE and later when she was DESCRIBING to another friend of ours about what we saw I was SHOCKED.

     Because I SAW IT with her and what I saw was TOTALLY DIFFERENT.

     TEN people can SEE the SAME THING and they EACH CAN SEE SOMETHING DIFFERENT.

     NO ONE was LYING they EACH SAW WHAT THEY SAW because that is WHAT THEY LOOKED AT.

     Did YOU KNOW that WHAT YOU LOOK FOR IS WHAT YOU WILL FIND? 

     If YOU LOOK for something NEGATIVE about today then YOU WILL FIND IT and FEEL NEGATIVE about today.

     If YOU LOOK for something POSITIVE about today then YOU WILL FIND IT and FEEL POSITIVELY about what HAPPENED TODAY.

     I FELT WONDERFUL when my son and I had both been together and WE HAD A REALLY BAD DAY but then HE REMINDED ME that at least we got your phone fixed. 

     HE KNEW that even on a BAD DAY there can be something POSITIVE THAT ALSO HAPPENED TODAY.

     So EVERYTIME YOU FEEL like you had a BAD DAY just STOP.... and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind then LOOK and FIND SOMETHING POSITIVE that HAPPENED today and SMILE. 😀

     

     

     

Just because YOU CAN does not mean that YOU SHOULD

      Sometimes you want something but you REALIZE it is TOO EXPENSIVE so you LEARN TO DO WITHOUT IT. 

     Sometimes you wish you COULD DO IT but you REALIZE that there are TOO MANY things that COULD GO WRONG so you CHOOSE NOT TO DO IT.

      Sometimes it is ON SALE at a great price but you REALIZE that YOU DON'T NEED it so YOU DONT WASTE MONEY buying something YOU DON'T NEED.

      WHAT YOU DO is UP TO YOU so you have NO ONE but YOURSELF to BLAME IF YOU DO IT.

     HOW YOU TREAT someone is UP TO YOU so make sure YOU TREAT THEM like YOU WOULD WANT to be TREATED.

     If you want to SPREAD KINDNESS then BE KIND so KINDNESS will SPREAD.

     If you want to ENCOURAGE someone then YOU MUST SAY something or DO Something  that can be ENCOURAGING TO THEM.

      EVERYTHING YOU DO and EVERYTHING YOU SAY is UP TO YOU and SAYING NOTHING is a CHOICE YOU MAKE.

     So CHOOSE CAREFULLY so you can BE PROUD of YOUR CHOICES.

     

Spring decor brings on a PEACEFUL MOMENT

     As the Flowers were blooming on my front yard I excitedly got ready to go shopping to find some trinkets to DECORATE with.

     I always find something special every year but I spend a long time in the three aisles just to ENJOY all of the DECORATIONS.

    Like I told the cashier as I was leaving I sure had a nice outing just ENJOYING LOOKING at what they had to offer. 

      And it was there to ENJOY FOR FREE just to MAKE YOU SMILE but I always find something special to take home to ENJOY at my house.

      Making YOUR HOME FEEL SPECIAL to YOU MAKES YOU SMILE and FEEL BETTER so don't let ANYONE but YOU PICK YOUR DECORATIONS. 

    When someone SEES YOUR HOUSE they will SEE YOU ALL THROUGH IT because of HOW YOU DECORATED IT. 

It was ROUGH but we can LAUGH about it......NOW

      It DEFINITELY was NOT FUNNY when it was HAPPENING but NOW we CAN LAUGH about it because AFTER the FACT it SOUNDS FUNNY.

      When you get SOAKED by the RAIN you WON'T BE LAUGHING about BEING WET but every time you TALK ABOUT how it HAPPENED NOW it sure MAKES YOU LAUGH.

       A ROLLERCOASTER makes you SCREAM but a lot of people LOVE RIDING ROLLERCOASTERS  even though they KNOW it will be SCARY.

       After they get back SAFE from the ROLLERCOASTER RIDE the EXCITEMENT and LAUGHTER on their face as they TALK about the RIDE you can't HEAR about how SCARED they were.

       A lot of STRUGGLES we will all have to FACE throughout life will BE HARD WORK but WE WILL BE PROUD of HOW HARD WE WORKED TO GET IT.

       The TRUTH is that LIFE is full of CHALLENGES and to GET what YOU WANT will take YOU WORKING HARD TO HAVE IT, 

       Have you ever HEARD someone COMPLAIN about what they DONT HAVE yet THEY DO NOTHING TO TRY TO GET IT?

      Well if you do then LISTEN to BE KIND but let them FIGURE OUT ON THEIR OWN that they NEED TO GET UP and DO THE WORK NECESSARY.  

      BECAUSE if they NEED IT then THEY NEED TO GET UP and GET R' DONE.

       

When you want a reason to SMILE just....

      Just WAKING UP EACH DAY is a REASON TO SMILE TODAY.

      As long as everyone you LOVE is ALIVE to ENJOY TIME WITH that is a REASON TO SMILE TODAY.

      You won't always get everything that you DREAM of but as long as you have everything you NEED then that is a REASON TO SMILE TODAY.

      When my friend had a car wreck she was very UPSET about it but then she REALIZED that even though her car was DAMAGED she was SAFE and that MADE HER SMILE.

      The TEAM didn't win the CHAMPIONSHIP  but they had WORKED HARD to be there so they were PROUD and that MADE THEM SMILE.

     If you WERE PROUD OF WHAT YOU DO HAVE then you WOULD SMILE TODAY.

     Your HAPPINESS is based SOLELY on your OPINION of WHAT is the MOST IMPORTANT THINGS you DO HAVE TO MAKE YOU SMILE TODAY.

     If YOU LOOK for HAPPINESS YOU WILL FIND IT and YOU WILL SMILE EVERY DAY. 

    Just ASK YOURSELF WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

     

You can DECIDE YOUR THOUGHTS

      Our mind has an ENDLESS STREAM of THOUGHTS that YOU CHOOSE whether YOU DECIDE TO THINK OF IT OR NOT.

     If you ONLY LOOK FOR THOUGHTS that ANGER you then THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL FIND and OBVIOUSLY YOU WILL BE ANGERED.

     If you FLUSH AWAY the NEGATIVE THOUGHTS that POP-UP then YOU WONT HAVE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS on your mind.

     If you LOOK FOR POSITIVE THOUGHTS then  YOU will FIND THEM and will have a POSITIVE ATTITUDE. 

     When YOU FEEL UPSET then THINK OF SOMETHING POSITIVE then you will have a POSITIVE OUTLOOK.

     There are MANY PEOPLE who WE ADMIRE because they have had a lot of UNCOMFORTABLE THINGS that have HAPPENED IN THEIR LIFE but THEY ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO THINK POSITIVELY.

     When you are THINKING NEGATIVELY then WHAT DO YOU DO?

     The next time you are FEELING UNHAPPY just STOP...  AND THINK of something that WILL MAKE YOU SMILE.

     When you are going through a NEGATIVE SITUATION then STOP..... and FOCUS on what is the best thing for YOU TO DO OR SAY that will give you the BEST OUTCOME POSSIBLE. 

     When a NEGATIVE THOUGHT POPS-UP in your mind then WHAT WILL YOU DO?

     Because it is ONLY UP TO YOU to CHOOSE THE THOUGHTS YOU THINK ABOUT IN YOUR MIND.

     So CHOOSE CAREFULLY which THOUGHTS YOU LEAVE FRESH ON YOUR MIND.

     SOCIAL MEDIA is A CHOICE whether you WATCH POSITIVE STORIES OR NEGATIVE STORIES?

     SO PAY ATTENTION to WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO WATCH ON SOCIAL MEDIA because IT IS ONLY UP TO YOU.

     

WHAT YOU want WILL Take HARD WORK TO GET... Thats JUST LIFE

      You may HOPE FOR IT but are you willing to do whatever it will take to get it?

      You may TREASURE IT but will you be willing to do whatever it takes to have it to TREASURE IT?

     You may WISH YOU COULD but will you do what it will TAKE to be ABLE TO DO IT?

     If you WANT ANYTHING in LIFE you will have to DO THE HARD WORK it will take if YOU WANT TO HAVE IT.

     I have heard many people that are MIDDLE-AGED say that it ISN'T THEIR FAULT it is THEIR PARENTS FAULT.

     Now at MIDDLE-AGED and living ON YOUR OWN do you really THINK that it is THEIR PARENTS FAULT STILL TODAY?

     They COULD CHANGE IF THEY CHOSE to be ACCOUNTABLE for THEIR BEHAVIOR since they became an adult?

     BUT Blaming THEMSELVES means they have NO ONE BUT THEMSELVES TO BLAME.

     When you LEARN THAT YOUR LIFE is BASED ON YOUR WAY OF THINKING then YOU WILL LEARN that YOU CAN CHANGE ANYTHING if you PUT IN THE WORK to CHANGE IT.

      THINK about WHAT YOU WANT and ACCEPT that it will TAKE WORK and then....DO THE WORK.

 

     

CHANGING means YOU HAVE TO CHANGE

       Constantly talking about what HAPPENED ALREADY again and again is WASTING what COULD HAPPEN if you TOOK YOUR TIME to MAKE something special HAPPEN TODAY.

       KEEPING everything that HAPPENED YESTERDAY FRESH ON YOUR MIND will PREVENT YOU from having ROOM IN YOUR MIND to ACCOMPLISH what you want to HAPPEN TODAY.

      If you KEEP REMINDING yourself about things that HURT YOU then you will CONSTANTLY FEEL THE PAIN and it will KEEP HURTING YOU everytime YOU RELIVE IT.

       To GET PAST IT then you have to LEARN what you need and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN.

      When you DECLUTTER YOUR HOUSE you GET RID of the stuff you don't need so you can enjoy a CLUTTERFREE HOME.

      And to THINK CLEARLY then you need to take all the NEGATIVE THOUGHTS IN YOUR MIND and JUST FLUSH IT so you CAN have ROOM TO THINK CLEARLY.

      Your THOUGHTS are your REALITY and if you want PEACE OF MIND then take all the NEGATIVITY and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 🌻

Perhaps you might LEARN something if you TRY TO LEARN something

      When you MEET someone that you ADMIRE then you have to DECIDE if you SHOULD ASK THEM an IMPORTANT QUESTION that you hope they WOULD KNOW. 

      UNFORTUNATELY even though they MIGHT KNOW you might DECIDE to let them RELAX and find the answer a different way because they are there to RELAX.

      When you REALIZE WHAT YOU WANT then you have to take the time to FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.

      UNFORTUNATELY even though YOU WANT IT you just might FIND OUT that it may be something that you REALIZE is something that YOU CAN'T ACCOMPLISH. 

      We DREAM of many things throughout our lifetime but NOT EVERY DREAM is something that we CAN MAKE COME TRUE.

      But WITHOUT ANY DREAMS at all then YOU WON'T HAVE ANY DREAMS COME TRUE IF YOU NEVER DREAMED OF ANYTHING. 

       At different STAGES of your LIFE you might LEARN that what you THOUGHT that YOU WANTED isn't IMPORTANT TO YOU ANYMORE. 

      LEARN to ENJOY LEARNING something THAT IS NEW because LIFE IS ALWAYS CHANGING and YOU HAVE TO LEARN AS YOU GO. 

      NOT EVERYONE likes CHANGES but WHEN THINGS CHANGE then you have NO CHOICE but to CHANGE to KEEP UP. 

      And ANYTHING YOU DONT HAVE TO CHANGE THEN.... DON'T CHANGE IT UNLESS YOU DECIDE TO CHANGE 

     

If you WANT TO KNOW then LOOK ALL AROUND so you really KNOW

     When I am CONSIDERING something I first LOOK UP ALL THE FACTS that I can find so I can LEARN before I DECIDE.

     After I LOOK it up then I LOOK at it from EVERY ANGLE because if you only consider TEN PERCENT of it then you know that there is NINETY PERCENT that you NEED TO SEE before you DECIDE. 

     Because it would be like if you ONLY PUT ONE TIRE ON YOUR CAR you COULDN'T DRIVE because YOU NEED FOUR TIRES to be ABLE TO DRIVE.

     If you ONLY put on ONE SHOE then without a doubt WALKING WILL BE UNCOMFORTABLE so you need to FIND BOTH OF YOUR SHOES.

     ANYONE can GUESS but if they have NO IDEA then you are WASTING YOUR TIME because they CAN'T TELL YOU if they DON'T KNOW.

      You CAN'T DO IT and just say it is something other PEOPLE DO because just because other PEOPLE ARE DOING IT doesn't mean that it is the right thing for you to do.

      Before YOU DECIDE then STOP and LEARN WHAT YOU NEED TO before YOU DECIDE then NO MATTER HOW THINGS TURN OUT then YOU KNOW YOU DID THE BEST THAT YOU COULD. 

     At the end of the day will you be able to say that you are PROUD of the DECISIONS that YOU MADE TODAY?

     Every CHOICE YOU MAKE MATTERS so CHOOSE WISELY...... And remember that even making NO CHOICE IS A DECISION that YOU MADE.

    

Quit EXPECTING everything so you can FINALLY ENJOY what YOU DO HAVE

       If you WON'T BE HAPPY unless YOU HAVE EVERYTHING then you will NEVER BE HAPPY because you will NEVER HAVE EVERYTHING. 

      If you EXPECT to GET EVERYTHING that you ever DREAMED OF then you WON'T ENJOY what YOU LUCKILY DO HAVE because YOU WILL BE DISCOURAGED because you will NEVER GET EVERYTHING.

      Even RICH PEOPLE thought that having MONEY would MAKE THEM HAPPY but even SURROUNDED BY ALL THEIR STUFF they MAY STILL FEEL ALONE.

       Could you IMAGINE HOW YOU WOULD FEEL if you COULD BE PROUD of WHAT YOU DO HAVE?

      YOU COULD if you would take the TIME TO NOTICE WHAT YOU DO HAVE.

      Could you IMAGINE HOW LUCKY you are to HAVE EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEEDED?

      Well YOU CAN if YOU QUIT THINKING about what YOU DON'T HAVE then YOU WOULD be able to NOTICE WHAT YOU DO HAVE. 

      When you REALIZE that YOU ARE LUCKY to HAVE WHAT YOU NEED then YOU WILL REALIZE JUST HOW LUCKY YOU ARE for WHAT YOU DO HAVE. 

       The NEXT TIME that YOU GET UPSET about WHAT YOU DONT HAVE then STOP...... because NO ONE WILL EVER GET EVERYTHING that THEY EVER HOPED THEY WOULD because THAT'S JUST LIFE.

        YOUR GLASS might only be HALF FULL but it WILL QUENCH YOUR THIRST but if you REFUSE TO TAKE A DRINK then you will DIE OF THIRST SURROUNDED BY THE WATER YOU DO HAVE.

       So WHEN YOU ARE THIRSTY then TAKE A DRINK! 🥛

Things YOU LIKE TODAY may be things that.....

       The OLDER YOU GET the things that used to be WORTH the effort are things that YOU DON'T WANT TO WORK FOR now because THINGS HAVE CHANGED.

       The WISER YOU GET the more you REALIZE that the things YOU NEED are different because THINGS HAVE CHANGED.

       The more CREATIVE YOU GET the LESS YOU WILL NEED because YOU CAN FIGURE IT OUT because YOUR CREATIVITY means what you NEED NOW HAS CHANGED.

       When THINGS CHANGE then everything CHANGES at least a little because THINGS HAVE CHANGED. 

       When PEOPLE GROW then AS THEY GROW then THINGS CHANGE because THEY HAVE GROWN. 

       When you get OLDER then you often SEE people less often because just like your world HAS CHANGED their world has also CHANGED. 

       Which is WHY when YOU GET TOGETHER WITH EACH OTHER then ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT YOU HAVE TOGETHER because YOUR TIME TOGETHER IS RARE AND PRICELESS. ❤️ 

       

       

      

      

How many children and dogs are DISTRACTED because they are LOOKING FOR JESSICA?

       If you know WHY children and dogs are DISTRACTED because they are LOOKING FOR JESSICA then i know you are LAUGHING right now.

      As I am SCROLLING through tiktok the MINUTE a video about getting a SCREAMING child or a BARKING dog DISTRACTED to get them QUIET..... someone starts HOLLERING FOR JESSICA.

       And without a doubt the SCREAMING child OR BARKING dog SUDDENLY STOPS the MINUTE they start HOLLERING FOR JESSICA.

      They LOOK at the PERSON HOLLERING then they LOOK where that person is LOOKING AT is LOOKING and they are so INSTANTLY DISTRACTED and QUIETLY CALM.

     And throughout your life if you are FRUSTRATED about anything just REMEMBER TO DISTRACT YOURSELF and you will STOP BEING FRUSTRATED. 

     Our MINDS have an ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS running through it and if ANY THOUGHT MAKES YOU FEEL NEGATIVELY then..... 

     GET DISTRACTED by something else and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

    PEACE OF MIND is JUST A JESSICA AWAY!

LIMIT IT not FAIL because you EXPECTED TOO MUCH

    Every YEARLY Doctor visit INCLUDES a ONCE A YEAR BLOODWORK that your Doctor will examine.

     My sugar was high a couple of years ago so everytime it is TIME for my YEARLY Doctors appointment I CUT BACK on my sugar. 

     This year I started watching my sugar all year long preparing for my Doctors appointment. 

     When you NEED to SAVE MONEY you don't go WITHOUT STUFF you just LIMIT STUFF so you can SAVE SOME MONEY even it is LIMITED.

     When you first TRY to ride a bicycle you have to REALIZE that you WILL have a FEW WRECKS before you can actually LEARN how to ride it WITHOUT WRECKING.

     EVERYTIME someone STARTS a NEW BUSINESS THEY have to ACCEPT that because THEY are NEW to DOING IT then THEY will have to LEARN from the CHAOS that THEY will face ALONG THE WAY.

     Because YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY is made up of YOUR LIFES JOURNEYS as YOU LEARN IT ALONG YOUR JOURNEY. 

     Even OUR MISTAKES WERE NECESSARY because they were PART OF THE PLAN to get you where you NEEDED TO BE.

     

    

     

Being sn ADULT is HARD AT TIMES but luckily we are also KIDS AT HEART!

       Even when you REALIZE that what you need to do will BE HARDER than you thought but if IT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU then no matter HOW HARD it is.... IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO DO.

       Even if to ACCOMPLISH IT there may be THINGS YOU WILL LOSE ALONG the way just remember if IT IS IMPORTANT for you to HAVE then WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO LOSE.... IT IS OBVIOUSLY NECESSARY.

        Part of GROWING UP means that some things YOU CAN'T DO ANYMORE because YOU ARE A GROWN UP NOW.

        But......the KID INSIDE YOU is STILL INSIDE of YOU just the ADULT IN YOU WILL have to DECIDE and let you KNOW when IT'S OKAY TO let the KID IN YOU COME OUT.

        HOPEFULLY one day YOU WILL BECOME A GRANDPARENT then after you get your WORK DONE then you can ENJOY PLAYING with your GRANDKIDS by LETTING THE KID IN YOU COME OUT TO PLAY WITH THEM anytime you see them.

       Whenever I go to the store to buy my GRANDCHILDREN ANY GIFTS I let THE KID IN ME DECIDE what would BE FUN to KNOW what FUN THINGS to PICK THEM.

         Being an ADULT definitely MAKES YOU have to DECIDE what YOU HAVE TO DO but it also ALLOWS YOU TO CHOOSE when IT'S TIME TO LET THE KID IN YOU come out TO PLAY.

        Just because YOU ARE OLD DOESN'T MEAN that there ISN'T A KID INSIDE OF YOU ALSO.

        

      

      

     

Can you DO something or SAY something that CAN MAKE SOMEONE SMILE EACH DAY?

      If you EVER want to MAKE a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to anyone then you will have to DO SOMETHING or SAY SOMETHING POSITIVE to MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to anyone. 

      If you want to INSPIRE someone then BE INSPIRATIONAL so your ACTIONS WILL INSPIRE someone.

      If you want to ENCOURAGE someone then you need to LET THEM HEAR YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS so it CAN ENCOURAGE THEM. 

      If you OPEN THE DOOR so someone can walk through it then WITHOUT A DOUBT it WILL MAKE BOTH OF YOU SMILE.

      If you SAY SORRY when you are at a store as you accidentally cross the lines at the same time as another customer it WILL MAKE YOU BOTH SMILE as you both then can HAPPILY just continue through the store.

     EVERY DAY make sure at the END OF THE DAY to REMIND YOURSELF that PEACE ON EARTH is possible by bringing PEACE OF MIND to ONE PERSON AT A TIME. 

      KINDNESS MATTERS so BE KIND to EVERYONE YOU MEET so the WORLD will be a KINDER PLACE for us all to live. 

     At the end of the day will you be able to say that you made someone SMILE TODAY?

You will need to LEARN as you LEARN TO DO IT

        Life is definitely like a ROLLERCOASTER and there will be UPS and DOWNS as well as MESSES along the way.

        When you are doing something and you see that you MESSED IT UP then you definitely NEED TO STOP.....then FIND THE DIRECTIONS ON HOW TO DO IT so you CAN FIX IT.

        When you REALIZE that you are GOING THE WRONG DIRECTION then TURN AROUND and GET BACK ON TRACK.

        When you MAKE a MISTAKE during your lifetime then ADMIT that you MADE A MISTAKE and LEARN what you NEED TO then DO IT CORRECTLY. 

        There will be many CHALLENGES during your life's journey and well..... sometimes those CHALLENGES will be harder than you would have thought.

         But you CAN LEARN AS YOU GO and your EXPERIENCE as you CLIMB IT will ACTUALLY be YOUR HAPPIEST MOMENTS of YOUR LIFE.

       HARD WORK means you are a HARD WORKER and THAT MAKES YOU AWESOME. 

        

        

Every INTERACTION that YOU have is UP TO YOU

      When you walk in a busy doctor's office what KIND OF VIBES are YOU SHARING to the room?

     Remember that EVERYONE is there ONLY because THEY ARE SICK TOO so BE KIND and PATIENT WITH THEM. 

       When you COME HOME after a busy day at work what KIND OF VIBES are YOU SHARING when you GET HOME?

      Remember that YOUR FAMILY and PETS have been EXCITEDLY WAITING for you to come home from work. 

      When you are FRUSTRATED BY TRAFFIC when you do get where you are going DON'T bring in the FRUSTRATION WITH YOU.

     WHATEVER has happened has already happened.

     So ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN then ENJOY DOING whatever you are DOING in THE MOMENT YOU ARE IN NOW.

    Yesterday is already gone and tomorrow is not guaranteed but.... TODAY IS YOURS TO ENJOY. 

     

      

Sometimes the CHANGE may HELP you FIND YOURSELF

        You may NOT WANT THINGS TO CHANGE but during your LIFE'S JOURNEY there will be MANY CHANGES.

     You Need to ALWAYS BE THANKFUL for WHAT YOU DO HAVE as well as ACCEPTING YOUR CHALLENGES and ADJUST to ENJOY YOUR LIFE while YOU ARE LIVING IT.

       Always REMIND YOURSELF that WE ALL ONLY HAVE the TIME WE HAVE and therefore WE NEED TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT WE HAVE.

      When I LOOK BACK at all THE ADJUSTMENTS that I have made over the PAST FEW DECADES I NO LONGER really FEEL AT ALL LIKE THE OLD ME.

     But the TRUTH IS there are some CHANGES WE REALIZE LATER that WHAT WE THOUGHT WOULD HAPPEN ACTUALLY DIDNT HAPPEN the way WE THOUGHT IT WOULD.

     So IF THINGS HAVE TO CHANGE then FORGET WHAT USED TO WORK because IT WON'T WORK ANYMORE. 

     SO JUST ADJUST because the SOONER YOU ACCEPT THE CHANGE then THE SOONER YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO DO IT THE NEW WAY.

     Sometimes a CHANGE CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING and as long as YOU ADJUST AS YOU GO YOU CAN ENJOY WHATEVER THE CHANGE IS.

      To BE COMFORTABLE IN THE SKIN YOU ARE IN then YOU HAVE TO BE COMFORTABLE WITH WHAT YOU DO IN THE SKIN YOU ARE IN.

     

     

     

      

       

     

      

      

Are they LISTENING TO LEARN?

      A person might NOT BE ACTUALLY HONEST when they just WANT TO MAKE YOU SMILE.

      But there are TIMES when YOU SHOULD BE HONEST even if that HONESTY can be PAINFUL to them.

      When PEOPLE are young you DON'T NEED TO TELL them everything because SOME THINGS THEY SHOULDN'T KNOW.

     When YOU KNOW that YOU SHOULD BE HONEST with SOMEONE then MAKE SURE that YOU GIVE THEM AN HONEST ANSWER.

      When YOU KNOW that it is something that THEY SHOULDN'T KNOW then YOU SHOULDN'T TELL THEM.

      YOU WON'T ALWAYS make the RIGHT DECISION on YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY but AS LONG AS YOU DO what YOU THINK IS BEST then YOU DID YOUR BEST.

      YOU WOULD THINK that the OLDER YOU GET the MORE YOU WOULD KNOW TO SHARE with OTHERS but YOU KNOW MOST OF THE TIME....

     .....PEOPLE DON'T LISTEN AND LEARN they seem to WANT TO DO IT SO THEY CAN LEARN.

      But when they GET OLDER they WILL SEE just LIKE YOU HAVE LEARNED..... just HOW HARD IT IS to KNOW but NO ONE LEARNS FROM what YOU KNOW.

     LEARNING FROM OTHERS means YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF because YOU LEARNED FROM SOMEONE ELSE'S MISTAKES.

      

      

     

What are you THINKING ABOUT?

       I was very busy and somehow repeatedly a THOUGHT ABOUT NOTHING was GRABBING ALL OF MY ATTENTION. 

      I needed to FOCUS on WHAT I WAS DOING yet that THOUGHT ABOUT NOTHING was keeping MY MIND SO FULL that I COULDN'T FOCUS.

      I decided to STOP and take a QUICK BREAK then later I will GET FOCUSED AGAIN and GET WHAT I WANTED TO DO DONE.

      So I went to the bathroom then I got a drink and then as I TRIED TO GET FOCUSED that SAME THOUGHT POPPED UP FRONT AND CENTER in my mind and UNFORTUNATELY it was ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT.

      Then OUT OF THE BLUE..... that NEVER ENDING THOUGHT made me REALIZE that UNTIL I ACCOMPLISHED THAT TASK it was SUGGESTING then I WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE to DO IT OTHERWISE. 

      Now if I WOULD HAVE REALIZED THAT the FIRST TIME THAT THOUGHT POPPED UP IN MY MIND then I COULD HAVE SAVED A LOT OF WASTED TIME.

      Sometimes WHEN THOUGHTS POP UP IN YOUR MIND they are THOUGHTS THAT POP UP because THEY WERE MEANT TO HELP YOU.

      And sometimes it is just THOUGHTS THAT ARE DISTRACTING YOU from FOCUSING and you have to FIGURE OUT if those are the THOUGHTS that you have to IGNORE SO YOU CAN FOCUS.

     

The MINUTE that YOU GO into DEFENSE MODE is the MINUTE YOU CAN NO LONGER HEAR ANYMORE

      We don't always get THE FACTS because we go into DEFENSIVE MODE then WE CAN NO LONGER LISTEN TO GET THE FACTS.

      We all know that when WE BELIEVE IT IS TRUE then NO MATTER WHAT THE FACTS are if IT'S TRUE TO YOU then WHETHER IT IS TRUE OR NOT to you IT'S YOUR TRUTH.

      WHY? Because when we GO INTO DEFENSE MODE the DEFENSIVE REACTIONS WE MAKE are based on WHAT WE BELIEVE.

     And WHEN you are in DEFENSIVE MODE it means that NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS YOU CAN NO LONGER HEAR THEM. 

     So BEFORE YOU REACT.... just STOP ✋️ Because ONCE YOU REACT then..... 

     WE ALL HAVE CIRCUMSTANCES that we will have to face throughout our LIFE'S JOURNEY.

    But REMEMBER..... HOW YOU REACT to the CIRCUMSTANCES that YOU must face WILL ALWAYS DETERMINE THE OUTCOME so THINK BEFORE YOU REACT.

     

     

SPREAD HUMANITY SO HUMANITY WILL SPREAD

       Well I BELIEVE HUMANITY IS NEEDED and I am sure that EVERY HUMAN BEING no matter where they live is HOPEFUL because HUMANITY IS NECESSARY THERE TOO.

       SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION IS SLOWLY  DRAWING EVERYONE INTO BECOMING LESS HUMAN. 

        ASK EVERYONE from THE YOUNG ALL THE WAY TO those that are OLD they WILL ALL TELL YOU that HUMANS GOT LOST IN CYBERSPACE. 

      And a CYBERSPACE HUG is JUST A POKE and they NEED A REAL HUG TO BENEFIT FROM A REAL HUMAN HUG. 

      But to GET A REAL HUG then WE GOT TO GET TOGETHER so WE CAN GET ONE.

      INSTEAD of THINKING THAT IT IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME to HANGOUT let me tell you that to BE HUMAN YOU NEED TO BE TOGETHER WITH OTHER HUMANS.

       And the SILLY CONVERSATIONS that YOU HAVE WITH EACH OTHER will be the MEMORIES YOU WILL TREASURE that YOU WILL FEEL ON YOUR HUMANSIDE.

      SPREAD HUMANITY SO HUMANITY WILL SPREAD. 😃

      

I had FORGOTTEN then.....

      You may have been EXCITED about it yet....  TIME FLIES BY and sometimes.... YOU FORGET IT AGAIN.

      Have you ever REPEATEDLY FORGOT the same thing MORE THAN ONCE?

      I had HOPED to have EXTRA TIME but when you FORGET you end up having LESS TIME then you had HOPED FOR.

      LUCKILY I had MOST EVERYTHING READY so I was able to GET STARTED the MOMENT I REMEMBERED IT.

      And ALTHOUGH MORE TIME would have been better I ended up having PLENTY OF TIME TO ENJOY IT so I am HAPPY.

      SO when you MAKE PLANS then get as much done AHEAD of TIME so no matter what TIME you have the rest can be ready in a MOMENT OF TIME.

       Things don't have to BE PERFECT to ENJOY THEM. You just have to PLAN WELL and ENJOY EVERY MOMENT that YOU GET.

As you get OLDER you make a CHOICE to LISTEN MORE and SAY LESS

      Throughout your life you were EXCITED to SHARE ALL YOUR THOUGHTS and FUTURE PLANS.

     The OLDER you get you REALIZE that to LISTEN to OTHER PEOPLES THOUGHTS and PLANS is IMPORTANT so THEY CAN SHARE IT WITH SONEONE.

      You have SPENT DECADES TALKING ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS and you DON'T MAKE as MANY PLANS because YOU DID MOST OF THEM Throughout the last few decades.

      Just because YOU KNOW that putting TOO MANY MILES ON YOUR CAR makes it LAST A LOT LESS LONGER you just DON'T SUGGEST that to people younger to DRIVE LESS just for THAT REASON.

     Why? Because RUNNING AROUND TOO MUCH was IMPORTANT TO YOU TOO when you were YOUNGER.

     And now that you are OLDER YOU KNOW how HAPPY THOSE DAYS WERE and YOU TREASURE THOSE WILDER YOUNG TIMES.

      OF COURSE you just LISTEN as YOU THINK OF THOSE WILD TIMES YOU HAD and YOU DON'T TELL THEM WHAT YOU DID... YOU JUST LISTEN AND SMILE as YOU ENJOY YOUR MEMORIES FROM YOUR YOUNGER DAYS.

     KEEP YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES because WHEN YOU GET OLDER YOU WILL TREASURE THEM and you will be THANKFUL that they are YOUR SECRET MEMORIES that are BEST TO KEEP TO YOURSELF. 🥳

Don't forget that once YOU SAY IT then it is IN FACT WHAT YOU SAID

       When you get ANGRY then you should STOP TALKING and THINK BEFORE YOU SAY ONE WORD.

       Because ONCE YOU SAY IT OUTLOUD it is PERMANENTLY HEARD..... even if you WISH YOU HAD NOT SAID IT.

       Even when you FEEL LIKE you WANT to ANGRILY TELL THEM how WHAT THEY DID HAD HURT YOU.

      TRUST ME that YOUR ANGRY WORDS would have ONLY MADE THINGS HARDER FOR YOU. 

      If you STOP AND THINK about what you WANTED TO SAY you will REALIZE that YOU ARE GLAD YOU DIDN'T SAY IT. 

     Now HOW IT MADE YOU FEEL may make you CHANGE what you WILL OR WONT DO in the FUTURE.

      But for now just BE CAREFUL about what YOU CHOOSE TO SAY OUTLOUD.

      BEING KIND TO YOURSELF is the BEST THING YOU CAN DO IN ANY TYPE OF CIRCUMSTANCES that you HAVE TO DEAL with.

      At the end of the day the ONLY THING THAT MATTERS is if YOU ARE PROUD of HOW YOU HANDLED the CIRCUMSTANCES that YOU HAD TO FACE.

     

     

Will YOU be HAPPY FOR YOURSELF if YOU COULD BE HONEST about BEING YOURSELF?

      Your family and your friends may be good at SKATING and you MIGHT WANT TO SKATE but the TRUTH IS that YOU TRIED IT BUT YOU REALIZED THAT YOU CAN'T SKATE. 

     Your friends DONT ALWAYS CHOOSE TO DO EVERYTHING that YOU LIKE but there are many other things that YOU DO LIKE DOING WITH THEM.

    DO you like scary RIDES at an AMUSEMENT PARK?

     If YOU DON'T THEN it is BEST to TELL YOUR FRIENDS that YOU will HOLD ON TO THEIR PHONES while THEY RIDE that ROLLERCOASTER WITHOUT YOU.

      If your friends like scary ROLLERCOASTERS that DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO RIDE A ROLLERCOASTER because YOU KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE riding on a ROLLERCOASTER. 

      I had a friend that FELT SO MUCH PRESSURE about SAYING NO I AM AFRAID OF ROLLERCOASTERS that SHE MISSED GOING TO THE PARK WITH THEM.

     There was MANY THING'S besides ROLLERCOASTERS that SHE COULD HAVE ENJOYED WITH HER FRIENDS, if she would have went.

       If YOU KEEP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE to PLEASE OTHERS then YOU WILL FORGET WHO YOU TRULY ARE. 

      If YOU KEEP DISTANCE because YOU HIDE YOURSELF FROM OTHERS then YOU WILL HAVE A LONELY LIFE because WE ARE ALL UNIQUE and YOUR UNIQUENESS is WHY THEY LIKE YOU. 

     We all ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE and WE NEED TO BE OURSELVES AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WE HAVE and IF YOU HATE ROLLERCOASTERS than DON'T RIDE ONE.

     

     

A TEAMMATE is an IMPORTANT PART OF THE TEAM

      When you BUILD A HOUSE you NEED MORE THEN an ARCHITECT that DRAWS A PICTURE of exactly the size of every wall.

       HOW MANY TYPES OF BUSINESSES do you THINK IT WOULD TAKE to completely BUILD A HOUSE?

      When you BUILD A BUSINESS it will TAKE more than you DECIDING WHAT BUSINESS you want to INVEST YOUR TIME AND MONEY INTO.

       TAKE THE TIME to LEARN EVERYTHING that you WILL NEED to MAKE THE BUSINESS that you want to SUCCEED if you WANT TO have A CHANCE TO SUCCEED. 

       But ONCE you CHOOSE THE STANDARDS THAT YOU WILL LIVE BY DURING YOUR BUSINESS or YOUR PERSONAL LIFE then STICK TO YOUR STANDARDS NO MATTER WHAT ANY TEAMMATE MAY SAY.

       BECAUSE at THE END OF THE DAY the ONLY THING THAT MATTERS PERSONALLY OR PROFESSIONALLY is whether YOU ARE PROUD OF EVERYTHING THAT YOU CHOSE TO DO OR NOT TO DO EACH DAY.

      In LIFE whenever it TAKES A TEAM to GET IT DONE then remember that EVEN A BOSS HAS TO BE A GOOD TEAMMATE for the TEAM TO SUCCEED.  

      And if ONE DAY YOU REALIZE that YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN DO SOMETHING because it takes only ONE TEAMMATE ALONE then ACCEPT IT AND GET UP AND GET 'R DONE.

      

       

        

      

Having A CHANCE is AT LEAST A CHANCE

      Lots of PEOPLE TRY even WHEN everyone KNOWS that there will be ONLY ONE WINNER.

      Lots of PEOPLE MIGHT THINK ABOUT IT yet they DON'T REACT ON IT.

      But EVENTUALLY SOMEONE ELSE DOES REACT QUICKLY and THEY ACCOMPLISH IT and ARE SUCCESSFUL AT DOING IT.

     The TRUTH IS that OPPORTUNITIES YOU MISS OUT ON ARE NEVER LOST they are JUST TAKEN BY SOMEONE ELSE. 

    SOME PEOPLE ASK WHY something HAPPENS...

     SOME PEOPLE ASK HOW something COULD HAVE HAPPENED....

      SOME PEOPLE MAKE THINGS HAPPEN....

      WHICH ONE ARE YOU?

      IF YOU GOT A CHANCE THEN TAKE IT because IF YOU DON'T then YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET IT.

     

JUST BECAUSE means....ADJUST AS NECESSARY.

      You may NOT LIKE THE ANSWER but whether YOU LIKE IT OR NOT it STILL MEANS it is STILL THE TRUTHFUL ANSWER. 

      Which MEANS YOU HAVE TO ADJUST so YOU CAN ACCEPT THE ANSWER and JUST DO IT. 

      When the ROAD YOU ARE ON IS UNDER CONSTRUCTION then whether YOU LIKE IT OR NOT the journey YOU ARE ON WILL TAKE LONGER TO DRIVE ON.

     So YOU HAVE TO ADJUST and LEAVE EARLIER so YOU WILL HAVE TIME for a LONGER RIDE because YOU KNOW CONSTRUCTION MEANS LONGER RIDES.

     PRICES ARE HIGHER so it MEANS YOU HAVE TO ADJUST and SHOP SMARTER and STOCK UP when things GO ON SALE.

     JUST BECAUSE things CHANGE MEANS....YOU HAVE TO ADJUST so YOU CAN KEEP UP with all the CHANGES whether YOU WANTED ANYTHING TO CHANGE OR NOT.

     LIFE IS FULL OF CHANGES but to ENJOY LIFE YOU HAVE TO GO WITH THE FLOW ON YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY and ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF IT.

     REMEMBER that YOU CAN'T GET TOO COMFORTABLE IN LIFE because LIFE IS ALWAYS CHANGING so ADJUST AS YOU GO.