Things YOU LIKE TODAY may be things that.....

       The OLDER YOU GET the things that used to be WORTH the effort are things that YOU DON'T WANT TO WORK FOR now because THINGS HAVE CHANGED.

       The WISER YOU GET the more you REALIZE that the things YOU NEED are different because THINGS HAVE CHANGED.

       The more CREATIVE YOU GET the LESS YOU WILL NEED because YOU CAN FIGURE IT OUT because YOUR CREATIVITY means what you NEED NOW HAS CHANGED.

       When THINGS CHANGE then everything CHANGES at least a little because THINGS HAVE CHANGED. 

       When PEOPLE GROW then AS THEY GROW then THINGS CHANGE because THEY HAVE GROWN. 

       When you get OLDER then you often SEE people less often because just like your world HAS CHANGED their world has also CHANGED. 

       Which is WHY when YOU GET TOGETHER WITH EACH OTHER then ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT YOU HAVE TOGETHER because YOUR TIME TOGETHER IS RARE AND PRICELESS. ❤️ 

       

       

      

      

How many children and dogs are DISTRACTED because they are LOOKING FOR JESSICA?

       If you know WHY children and dogs are DISTRACTED because they are LOOKING FOR JESSICA then i know you are LAUGHING right now.

      As I am SCROLLING through tiktok the MINUTE a video about getting a SCREAMING child or a BARKING dog DISTRACTED to get them QUIET..... someone starts HOLLERING FOR JESSICA.

       And without a doubt the SCREAMING child OR BARKING dog SUDDENLY STOPS the MINUTE they start HOLLERING FOR JESSICA.

      They LOOK at the PERSON HOLLERING then they LOOK where that person is LOOKING AT is LOOKING and they are so INSTANTLY DISTRACTED and QUIETLY CALM.

     And throughout your life if you are FRUSTRATED about anything just REMEMBER TO DISTRACT YOURSELF and you will STOP BEING FRUSTRATED. 

     Our MINDS have an ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS running through it and if ANY THOUGHT MAKES YOU FEEL NEGATIVELY then..... 

     GET DISTRACTED by something else and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

    PEACE OF MIND is JUST A JESSICA AWAY!

LIMIT IT not FAIL because you EXPECTED TOO MUCH

    Every YEARLY Doctor visit INCLUDES a ONCE A YEAR BLOODWORK that your Doctor will examine.

     My sugar was high a couple of years ago so everytime it is TIME for my YEARLY Doctors appointment I CUT BACK on my sugar. 

     This year I started watching my sugar all year long preparing for my Doctors appointment. 

     When you NEED to SAVE MONEY you don't go WITHOUT STUFF you just LIMIT STUFF so you can SAVE SOME MONEY even it is LIMITED.

     When you first TRY to ride a bicycle you have to REALIZE that you WILL have a FEW WRECKS before you can actually LEARN how to ride it WITHOUT WRECKING.

     EVERYTIME someone STARTS a NEW BUSINESS THEY have to ACCEPT that because THEY are NEW to DOING IT then THEY will have to LEARN from the CHAOS that THEY will face ALONG THE WAY.

     Because YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY is made up of YOUR LIFES JOURNEYS as YOU LEARN IT ALONG YOUR JOURNEY. 

     Even OUR MISTAKES WERE NECESSARY because they were PART OF THE PLAN to get you where you NEEDED TO BE.

     

    

     

Being sn ADULT is HARD AT TIMES but luckily we are also KIDS AT HEART!

       Even when you REALIZE that what you need to do will BE HARDER than you thought but if IT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU then no matter HOW HARD it is.... IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO DO.

       Even if to ACCOMPLISH IT there may be THINGS YOU WILL LOSE ALONG the way just remember if IT IS IMPORTANT for you to HAVE then WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO LOSE.... IT IS OBVIOUSLY NECESSARY.

        Part of GROWING UP means that some things YOU CAN'T DO ANYMORE because YOU ARE A GROWN UP NOW.

        But......the KID INSIDE YOU is STILL INSIDE of YOU just the ADULT IN YOU WILL have to DECIDE and let you KNOW when IT'S OKAY TO let the KID IN YOU COME OUT.

        HOPEFULLY one day YOU WILL BECOME A GRANDPARENT then after you get your WORK DONE then you can ENJOY PLAYING with your GRANDKIDS by LETTING THE KID IN YOU COME OUT TO PLAY WITH THEM anytime you see them.

       Whenever I go to the store to buy my GRANDCHILDREN ANY GIFTS I let THE KID IN ME DECIDE what would BE FUN to KNOW what FUN THINGS to PICK THEM.

         Being an ADULT definitely MAKES YOU have to DECIDE what YOU HAVE TO DO but it also ALLOWS YOU TO CHOOSE when IT'S TIME TO LET THE KID IN YOU come out TO PLAY.

        Just because YOU ARE OLD DOESN'T MEAN that there ISN'T A KID INSIDE OF YOU ALSO.

        

      

      

     

Can you DO something or SAY something that CAN MAKE SOMEONE SMILE EACH DAY?

      If you EVER want to MAKE a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to anyone then you will have to DO SOMETHING or SAY SOMETHING POSITIVE to MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to anyone. 

      If you want to INSPIRE someone then BE INSPIRATIONAL so your ACTIONS WILL INSPIRE someone.

      If you want to ENCOURAGE someone then you need to LET THEM HEAR YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS so it CAN ENCOURAGE THEM. 

      If you OPEN THE DOOR so someone can walk through it then WITHOUT A DOUBT it WILL MAKE BOTH OF YOU SMILE.

      If you SAY SORRY when you are at a store as you accidentally cross the lines at the same time as another customer it WILL MAKE YOU BOTH SMILE as you both then can HAPPILY just continue through the store.

     EVERY DAY make sure at the END OF THE DAY to REMIND YOURSELF that PEACE ON EARTH is possible by bringing PEACE OF MIND to ONE PERSON AT A TIME. 

      KINDNESS MATTERS so BE KIND to EVERYONE YOU MEET so the WORLD will be a KINDER PLACE for us all to live. 

     At the end of the day will you be able to say that you made someone SMILE TODAY?

You will need to LEARN as you LEARN TO DO IT

        Life is definitely like a ROLLERCOASTER and there will be UPS and DOWNS as well as MESSES along the way.

        When you are doing something and you see that you MESSED IT UP then you definitely NEED TO STOP.....then FIND THE DIRECTIONS ON HOW TO DO IT so you CAN FIX IT.

        When you REALIZE that you are GOING THE WRONG DIRECTION then TURN AROUND and GET BACK ON TRACK.

        When you MAKE a MISTAKE during your lifetime then ADMIT that you MADE A MISTAKE and LEARN what you NEED TO then DO IT CORRECTLY. 

        There will be many CHALLENGES during your life's journey and well..... sometimes those CHALLENGES will be harder than you would have thought.

         But you CAN LEARN AS YOU GO and your EXPERIENCE as you CLIMB IT will ACTUALLY be YOUR HAPPIEST MOMENTS of YOUR LIFE.

       HARD WORK means you are a HARD WORKER and THAT MAKES YOU AWESOME. 

        

        

Every INTERACTION that YOU have is UP TO YOU

      When you walk in a busy doctor's office what KIND OF VIBES are YOU SHARING to the room?

     Remember that EVERYONE is there ONLY because THEY ARE SICK TOO so BE KIND and PATIENT WITH THEM. 

       When you COME HOME after a busy day at work what KIND OF VIBES are YOU SHARING when you GET HOME?

      Remember that YOUR FAMILY and PETS have been EXCITEDLY WAITING for you to come home from work. 

      When you are FRUSTRATED BY TRAFFIC when you do get where you are going DON'T bring in the FRUSTRATION WITH YOU.

     WHATEVER has happened has already happened.

     So ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN then ENJOY DOING whatever you are DOING in THE MOMENT YOU ARE IN NOW.

    Yesterday is already gone and tomorrow is not guaranteed but.... TODAY IS YOURS TO ENJOY.