DON'T JUDGE ANYONE TOO HARSHLY.....because

       If you judge anyone TOO HARSHLY then you will make things HARDER FOR THEM.

      If you judge yourself TOO HARSHLY then you will make yourself TOO STRESSED to TRY IT AGAIN so that YOU CAN DO IT BETTER.

      If you JUDGE your FRIENDS TOO HARSHLY then you might make them CHOOSE TO IGNORE YOU because they DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED SO HARSHLY.

      When you want TO TEACH someone the BEST WAY TO DO IT then YOU SHOULD POLITELY EXPLAIN the REASONS WHY something SHOULD BE DONE DIFFERENTLY so THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. 

      But if YOU JUDGE THEM TOO HARSHLY then THEY WON'T LEARN ANYTHING except that the WAY YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IS UNCOMFORTABLE. 

       You may not UNDERSTAND just HOW HARSHLY YOUR JUDGEMENTS CAN BE so TAKE A MOMENT TO THINK BEFORE YOU SAY IT so that YOU ARE NOT SAYING ANYTHING TO YOURSELF OR ANYONE that is TOO PAINFUL TO HEAR.

Every time it comes.....ADJUST

      You may be running behind but as long as you are getting everything done then it is done on time.

      Obstacles happen throughout your LIFES JOURNEY but those are just Obstacles that you will move around. 

     When you begin to doubt yourself just remember all the Obstacles that you dealt with throughout your life that you dealt with already. 

      Adjusting is part of GROWING and when you LEARN TO GROW WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED then you will proudly stand firmly grounded.

Be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE and THEY CAN BE THEIR BEST SELF TOO

       Let's START OFF by saying that it is IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY so TAKE THAT THOUGHT and JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND.

      You just make sure that YOU ARE HAPPY with EVERY THOUGHT, EVERY WORD, EVERY ACTION, and EVERY INTERACTION that YOU MAKE that YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF.

      If YOU KEEP CHANGING to PLEASE ANYONE then YOU WILL NEVER BE THE TRUE YOU.

      Because YOU WILL NEVER GROW TO BE THE BEST YOU that YOU ARE.

      With all the ANGER and FAKENESS from those AROUND YOU and THROUGHOUT THE SOCIAL MEDIA..... I HOPE YOU CAN SEE that YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO REMAIN TRUE TO YOURSELF.

       If YOU HAVE SET BOUNDARIES then remember to NEVER CROSS YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES... PERIOD.

       Remember that WHO YOU CHOOSE to ASSOCIATE WITH is YOU CHOOSING the TYPES of CROWD YOU ARE COMFORTABLE AROUND. 

       And if YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE AROUND people WHO HAVE A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE then FIND NEW FRIENDS WHO POSITIVELY INSPIRES YOU. 

      If I DIDN'T CHOOSE to go to the store EARLIER IN THE MORNING then I WOULD BE CHOOSING to go in the AFTERNOON WHEN THEY ARE PACKED WITH PEOPLE. 

      There are BILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD and yet there is ONLY ONE YOU and as long as YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF then YOU ARE AWESOME.

      

If you THINK it is TRUE then is it really TRUE?

      If you tell yourself that YOU CAN'T DO IT then the TRUTH is that YOU WON'T DO IT because YOU WILL NEVER TRY TO DO IT.

     After you CONVINCE YOURSELF that it is TOO HARD FOR YOU then YOU ALREADY CONVINCED YOURSELF so YOU WON'T EVER TRY IT.

      You may be AFRAID OF HEIGHTS yet if YOU TRY DOING some things that are DONE THAT ARE HIGH then YOU MAY ENJOY DOING THEM.

      If you want to ENJOY YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY then it means that there may be times that you need to TRY THINGS even if YOU THINK IT IS TOO HARD.

     There are MANY THINGS that YOU WILL FINALLY TRY that then YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU DON'T LIKE DOING THEM.

     But TRYING IT GIVES YOU THE TRUTH about whether YOU CAN OR YOU CAN'T DO IT.

      And the TRUTH MAKES YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO KNOW THE WHOLE TRUTH not a FALSE GUESS.

     DON'T GUESS just TRY IT so YOU WILL KNOW then forever YOU CAN KNOW THE TRUTH.

Having troubles means.....

      No matter how hard you plan something you have to ACCEPT that things don't always go as you had planned.

       But you can regroup and make things work out differently but first you have to STOP being ANGRY about how things have changed.

       Because until YOUR ANGER IS GONE then YOU CAN'T REGROUP because you are TOO ANGRY to THINK about how to ACCEPT IT so you can ENJOY IT DIFFERENTLY.

       I had to ACCEPT that we can still have FUN we have to JUST FLUSH IT out of our mind so we can PLAN a new ADVENTURE. 

      But when you can FEEL THE ANGER SO DEEP INSIDE YOU then....STOP THINKING ABOUT IT UNTIL YOUR ANGER IS GONE.

     If the ANGER is GONE then USE YOUR IMAGINATION and MAKE A NEW PLAN that YOU KNOW WILL BE JUST AS MUCH FUN TO DO.

      ANGER UNFORTUNATELY makes you ANGRY TO BE AROUND so ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT and EVERYONE will FORGET ABOUT IT and ENJOY YOUR NEW PLANS TOGETHER. 

Better to be SAFE not SORRY

      I really wanted it but at that price I would FEEL BAD about paying that much so.....I will CHOOSE to wait until it is ON SALE to buy it. 

     I wanted the kids to have FUN DOING IT but I decided that there was TOO MANY CHANCES that it would be DANGEROUS so....I  found something FUN that they could do. 

     I can UNDERSTAND how much FUN RIDING a ELECTRIC BIKE could be but going SO FAST for a young person is DANGEROUS so.....I decided buying a COOL BIKE for them was SAFER. 

     Some people can SEE THE FUN but it doesn't STOP THEM from doing it even after you tell them HOW DANGEROUS it COULD BE. 

      Sometimes my GRANDCHILDREN think I am always WORRIED about the DANGER WITHOUT SEEING THE FUN PART OF ANYTHING. 

      But what they DON'T KNOW is being OLD ENOUGH to have SEEN THE DANGERS happening during the DECADES it kinda makes you REALIZE that although it ISN'T ALWAYS DANGEROUS there is sometimes where it was DANGEROUS OCCASIONALLY. 

      Just take a MOMENT to LOOK AT THE POSSIBLE DANGERS before you CHOOSE TO DO IT because it is better to be SAFE NOT SORRY.

     But while you are doing it ENJOY IT because YOU GOT TO ALSO ENJOY YOUR LIFE WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT. 

     There are MANY THINGS that I did when I was YOUNG and I HAD FUN but my BODY STILL REMEMBERS a few times when I GOT HURT and I DECIDED that I WOULD NEVER DO THOSE THINGS A SECOND TIME.

      NO MATTER how many times someone tells you that YOU SHOULDN'T DO IT you MAY NOT UNDERSTAND what they MEANT UNTIL YOU WERE DOING IT and YOU SUDDENLY UNDERSTOOD what THEY MEANT.

    LIFE is like a ROLLERCOASTER and a ROLLERCOASTER may be FUN they are ALSO A LITTLE SCARY. 🎢

      

Don't STRESS over IT..... JUST FLUSH IT

      Sometimes when you are cooking dinner and one of the things you were trying to cook wasn't edible just DON'T STRESS about it because the rest of the food you cooked tasted awesome.

     Sometimes during your exciting weekend there may be a couple things that were not as exciting as you thought it would be but DON'T STRESS about it the rest of your weekend had plenty of HAPPY TIMES.

     You may have worked hard to get everything that you needed but DON'T STRESS if you forgot something because it is going to be a great time because of everything else you did get.

     Not everyone will ENJOY EVERY MOMENT of it but everyone will ENJOY MANY MOMENTS of it.

     There are many things in your LIFE'S JOURNEY that DON'T HAPPEN like you PLANNED but DON'T STRESS about the negative things because OVER ALL you have had an AMAZING LIFE'S JOURNEY. 

     When you catch the FLU you feel sick but DON'T STRESS about it because eventually you will RECOVER FROM THE FLU.

      You may be upset at the COST OF YOUR CAR REPAIR but DON'T STRESS about it because you should be THANKFUL that you will have a car to drive because some people DON'T. 

     Recently I was feeling STRESSED about being STRESSED over stupid things so I STOPPED and ACCEPTED IT then I decided to JUST FLUSH IT out of my mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 

      If you want PEACE OF MIND then you have to FIND IT by LEARNING how to JUST FLUSH IT  so you DON'T HAVE TO STRESS about it.