If it DIDN'T HAPPEN then...

       We make our PLANS that we want to ACCOMPLISH by what WE THINK WE KNOW about it.

      The other day a friend and I spent WEEKS MAKING PLANS so that we COULD ENJOY a fun day out.

      We sat TOGETHER and took the INFORMATION that WE BOTH HAD about WHERE we were going and WE TOOK QUITE A WHILE to PLAN a great outing.

      We both had spent WEEKS GATHERING everything that was ON OUR LIST.

       Then FINALLY IT WAS TIME TO GO and WE KNEW that we had EVERYTHING WE PLANNED for the OUTING.

        Then WHEN WE GET THERE... let's just say WE PLANNED A TRIP TOGETHER but APPARENTLY WE HAD NO IDEA about WHERE WE WERE ACTUALLY going to spend the day at.

      BUT INSTEAD OF what WE THOUGHT we ACTUALLY DIDN'T HAVE WHAT WE NEEDED for our OUTONG.

       LUCKILY WE LOVE EACH OTHER and therefore all WE COULD DID WAS LAUGH about IT and ENJOY OUR TIME TOGETHER.

       Sometimes WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES and EVERYTIME WE DO WE can JUST LAUGH ABOUT IT and JUST FLUSH IT and MOVE ON to ENJOY OUR DAY.

      To ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE takes FLUSHING AWAY A BAD DAY. 🫪

Even those that have always been against it suddenly......

       When you are GUESSING that DOESN'T MAKE IT A FACT.... it's just YOUR GUESS.

       So if you want to make an INFORMED DECISION then GET ALL THE FACTS so that YOU WILL BE INFORMED. 

       Because without the FACTS all you are doing is MAKING AN UNINFORMED DECISION.

      I had BELIEVED something AS A FACT then found out YEARS LATER that what I THOUGHT WAS A FACT was actually TOTALLY DIFFERENT than the TRUTH.

      If YOU BELIEVE that it is TRUE than TO YOU IT'S TRUE even if it REALLY ISN'T TRUE AT ALL. 

      THE TRUTH MAY HURT but if YOU KNOW THE TRUTH then YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT as long as YOU GET THE FACTS.

      Telling someone AN HONEST NO will hurt them LESS because then THEY WILL KNOW TO ASK SOMEONE ELSE.

       BEFORE YOU FORM YOUR OPINION just GET ALL THE FACTS so that YOU DON'T STRESS about the DECISION YOU WILL MAKE. 

DON'T JUDGE ANYONE TOO HARSHLY.....because

       If you judge anyone TOO HARSHLY then you will make things HARDER FOR THEM.

      If you judge yourself TOO HARSHLY then you will make yourself TOO STRESSED to TRY IT AGAIN so that YOU CAN DO IT BETTER.

      If you JUDGE your FRIENDS TOO HARSHLY then you might make them CHOOSE TO IGNORE YOU because they DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED SO HARSHLY.

      When you want TO TEACH someone the BEST WAY TO DO IT then YOU SHOULD POLITELY EXPLAIN the REASONS WHY something SHOULD BE DONE DIFFERENTLY so THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. 

      But if YOU JUDGE THEM TOO HARSHLY then THEY WON'T LEARN ANYTHING except that the WAY YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IS UNCOMFORTABLE. 

       You may not UNDERSTAND just HOW HARSHLY YOUR JUDGEMENTS CAN BE so TAKE A MOMENT TO THINK BEFORE YOU SAY IT so that YOU ARE NOT SAYING ANYTHING TO YOURSELF OR ANYONE that is TOO PAINFUL TO HEAR.

Every time it comes.....ADJUST

      You may be running behind but as long as you are getting everything done then it is done on time.

      Obstacles happen throughout your LIFES JOURNEY but those are just Obstacles that you will move around. 

     When you begin to doubt yourself just remember all the Obstacles that you dealt with throughout your life that you dealt with already. 

      Adjusting is part of GROWING and when you LEARN TO GROW WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED then you will proudly stand firmly grounded.

Be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE and THEY CAN BE THEIR BEST SELF TOO

       Let's START OFF by saying that it is IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY so TAKE THAT THOUGHT and JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND.

      You just make sure that YOU ARE HAPPY with EVERY THOUGHT, EVERY WORD, EVERY ACTION, and EVERY INTERACTION that YOU MAKE that YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF.

      If YOU KEEP CHANGING to PLEASE ANYONE then YOU WILL NEVER BE THE TRUE YOU.

      Because YOU WILL NEVER GROW TO BE THE BEST YOU that YOU ARE.

      With all the ANGER and FAKENESS from those AROUND YOU and THROUGHOUT THE SOCIAL MEDIA..... I HOPE YOU CAN SEE that YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO REMAIN TRUE TO YOURSELF.

       If YOU HAVE SET BOUNDARIES then remember to NEVER CROSS YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES... PERIOD.

       Remember that WHO YOU CHOOSE to ASSOCIATE WITH is YOU CHOOSING the TYPES of CROWD YOU ARE COMFORTABLE AROUND. 

       And if YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE AROUND people WHO HAVE A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE then FIND NEW FRIENDS WHO POSITIVELY INSPIRES YOU. 

      If I DIDN'T CHOOSE to go to the store EARLIER IN THE MORNING then I WOULD BE CHOOSING to go in the AFTERNOON WHEN THEY ARE PACKED WITH PEOPLE. 

      There are BILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD and yet there is ONLY ONE YOU and as long as YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF then YOU ARE AWESOME.

      

If you THINK it is TRUE then is it really TRUE?

      If you tell yourself that YOU CAN'T DO IT then the TRUTH is that YOU WON'T DO IT because YOU WILL NEVER TRY TO DO IT.

     After you CONVINCE YOURSELF that it is TOO HARD FOR YOU then YOU ALREADY CONVINCED YOURSELF so YOU WON'T EVER TRY IT.

      You may be AFRAID OF HEIGHTS yet if YOU TRY DOING some things that are DONE THAT ARE HIGH then YOU MAY ENJOY DOING THEM.

      If you want to ENJOY YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY then it means that there may be times that you need to TRY THINGS even if YOU THINK IT IS TOO HARD.

     There are MANY THINGS that YOU WILL FINALLY TRY that then YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU DON'T LIKE DOING THEM.

     But TRYING IT GIVES YOU THE TRUTH about whether YOU CAN OR YOU CAN'T DO IT.

      And the TRUTH MAKES YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO KNOW THE WHOLE TRUTH not a FALSE GUESS.

     DON'T GUESS just TRY IT so YOU WILL KNOW then forever YOU CAN KNOW THE TRUTH.

Having troubles means.....

      No matter how hard you plan something you have to ACCEPT that things don't always go as you had planned.

       But you can regroup and make things work out differently but first you have to STOP being ANGRY about how things have changed.

       Because until YOUR ANGER IS GONE then YOU CAN'T REGROUP because you are TOO ANGRY to THINK about how to ACCEPT IT so you can ENJOY IT DIFFERENTLY.

       I had to ACCEPT that we can still have FUN we have to JUST FLUSH IT out of our mind so we can PLAN a new ADVENTURE. 

      But when you can FEEL THE ANGER SO DEEP INSIDE YOU then....STOP THINKING ABOUT IT UNTIL YOUR ANGER IS GONE.

     If the ANGER is GONE then USE YOUR IMAGINATION and MAKE A NEW PLAN that YOU KNOW WILL BE JUST AS MUCH FUN TO DO.

      ANGER UNFORTUNATELY makes you ANGRY TO BE AROUND so ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT and EVERYONE will FORGET ABOUT IT and ENJOY YOUR NEW PLANS TOGETHER.