You CHOOSE by WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO THINK ABOUT

      When you wake up each morning what is the first thing that you THINK ABOUT?

      Do you IMMEDIATELY THINK that you are LUCKY THAT YOU WOKE UP TODAY?

      If the MOMENT YOU WAKE UP you are THANKFUL then YOU WILL START OFF your day with a SMILE.

      If the MOMENT YOU WAKE UP you IMMEDIATELY THINK NEGATIVELY about WHAT YOU WISH YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO then YOU START YOUR DAY OFF NEGATIVELY. 

      And since YOUR THOUGHTS will DETERMINE exactly HOW YOU WILL FEEL EACH DAY then CHOOSE WISELY.

       EVERY MORNING when YOU WAKE UP....JUST STOP and BE THANKFUL that YOU LUCKILY WOKE UP TODAY. 

      ACCEPT the CHALLENGES that COME YOUR WAY EACH DAY and ALWAYS THINK BEFORE YOU REACT.

     Because at the END OF THE DAY YOU WILL BE PROUD OF YOURSELF for THINKING and ACTING APPROPRIATELY. 

      If a NEGATIVE THOUGHT pops up in your mind then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind before it EVER has a CHANCE to AFFECT YOU NEGATIVELY. 

      UNFORTUNATELY...We all have NEGATIVE THOUGHTS that try to GRAB OUR ATTENTION so if YOU THINK ABOUT IT then INSTANTLY that THOUGHT brings an AVALANCHE TO TRAP YOU.

      So when a NEGATIVE THOUGHT POPS UP.....JUST FLUSH IT so it DOESN'T have a NEGATIVE EFFECT ON YOU. 

      When our ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS in our mind has a POSITIVE THOUGHT THAT POPS UP then JUST GRAB IT and YOU WILL HAVE A POSITIVE DAY.

      ONLY YOU CHOOSE what YOU WILL THINK ABOUT and YOU will UNDERSTAND that WHAT YOU will SEE IN LIFE is BASED ON HOW YOU LOOK AT THINGS.

Are you going to BRING IT with you?

      Sometimes during your Life's Journey you know that there will be times when you NEED TO TAKE A BREAK and.....well you NEED TO TAKE A BREAK.

      You know the NEGATIVE THOUGHTS that you are trying TO GET AWAY FROM.... make sure you DON'T TAKE IT WITH YOU.

      If you GET AWAY to RELAX then you NEED to ACCEPT WHAT HAPPENED then..... JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind and RELAX.

      Just remember that sometimes in Life THINGS HAPPEN as PART OF YOUR JOURNEY and it was meant to HAPPEN so YOU COULD LEARN AS YOU GREW.

     It's hard to IMAGINE BEING THANKFUL for a NEGATIVE PROBLEMS but ONE DAY you will LOOK BACK and BE THANKFUL. 

     YOU WILL REALIZE that had it NOT HAPPENED then YOU WOULDN'T have BECOME THE BEST YOU THAT YOU ARE TODAY.

     WHO YOU ARE is WHO YOU CHOSE TO BE despite the JOURNEYS you had to face along the way.

If it DIDN'T HAPPEN then...

       We make our PLANS that we want to ACCOMPLISH by what WE THINK WE KNOW about it.

      The other day a friend and I spent WEEKS MAKING PLANS so that we COULD ENJOY a fun day out.

      We sat TOGETHER and took the INFORMATION that WE BOTH HAD about WHERE we were going and WE TOOK QUITE A WHILE to PLAN a great outing.

      We both had spent WEEKS GATHERING everything that was ON OUR LIST.

       Then FINALLY IT WAS TIME TO GO and WE KNEW that we had EVERYTHING WE PLANNED for the OUTING.

        Then WHEN WE GET THERE... let's just say WE PLANNED A TRIP TOGETHER but APPARENTLY WE HAD NO IDEA about WHERE WE WERE ACTUALLY going to spend the day at.

      BUT INSTEAD OF what WE THOUGHT we ACTUALLY DIDN'T HAVE WHAT WE NEEDED for our OUTONG.

       LUCKILY WE LOVE EACH OTHER and therefore all WE COULD DID WAS LAUGH about IT and ENJOY OUR TIME TOGETHER.

       Sometimes WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES and EVERYTIME WE DO WE can JUST LAUGH ABOUT IT and JUST FLUSH IT and MOVE ON to ENJOY OUR DAY.

      To ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE takes FLUSHING AWAY A BAD DAY. 🫪

Even those that have always been against it suddenly......

       When you are GUESSING that DOESN'T MAKE IT A FACT.... it's just YOUR GUESS.

       So if you want to make an INFORMED DECISION then GET ALL THE FACTS so that YOU WILL BE INFORMED. 

       Because without the FACTS all you are doing is MAKING AN UNINFORMED DECISION.

      I had BELIEVED something AS A FACT then found out YEARS LATER that what I THOUGHT WAS A FACT was actually TOTALLY DIFFERENT than the TRUTH.

      If YOU BELIEVE that it is TRUE than TO YOU IT'S TRUE even if it REALLY ISN'T TRUE AT ALL. 

      THE TRUTH MAY HURT but if YOU KNOW THE TRUTH then YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT as long as YOU GET THE FACTS.

      Telling someone AN HONEST NO will hurt them LESS because then THEY WILL KNOW TO ASK SOMEONE ELSE.

       BEFORE YOU FORM YOUR OPINION just GET ALL THE FACTS so that YOU DON'T STRESS about the DECISION YOU WILL MAKE. 

DON'T JUDGE ANYONE TOO HARSHLY.....because

       If you judge anyone TOO HARSHLY then you will make things HARDER FOR THEM.

      If you judge yourself TOO HARSHLY then you will make yourself TOO STRESSED to TRY IT AGAIN so that YOU CAN DO IT BETTER.

      If you JUDGE your FRIENDS TOO HARSHLY then you might make them CHOOSE TO IGNORE YOU because they DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED SO HARSHLY.

      When you want TO TEACH someone the BEST WAY TO DO IT then YOU SHOULD POLITELY EXPLAIN the REASONS WHY something SHOULD BE DONE DIFFERENTLY so THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. 

      But if YOU JUDGE THEM TOO HARSHLY then THEY WON'T LEARN ANYTHING except that the WAY YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IS UNCOMFORTABLE. 

       You may not UNDERSTAND just HOW HARSHLY YOUR JUDGEMENTS CAN BE so TAKE A MOMENT TO THINK BEFORE YOU SAY IT so that YOU ARE NOT SAYING ANYTHING TO YOURSELF OR ANYONE that is TOO PAINFUL TO HEAR.

Every time it comes.....ADJUST

      You may be running behind but as long as you are getting everything done then it is done on time.

      Obstacles happen throughout your LIFES JOURNEY but those are just Obstacles that you will move around. 

     When you begin to doubt yourself just remember all the Obstacles that you dealt with throughout your life that you dealt with already. 

      Adjusting is part of GROWING and when you LEARN TO GROW WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED then you will proudly stand firmly grounded.

Be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE and THEY CAN BE THEIR BEST SELF TOO

       Let's START OFF by saying that it is IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY so TAKE THAT THOUGHT and JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND.

      You just make sure that YOU ARE HAPPY with EVERY THOUGHT, EVERY WORD, EVERY ACTION, and EVERY INTERACTION that YOU MAKE that YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF.

      If YOU KEEP CHANGING to PLEASE ANYONE then YOU WILL NEVER BE THE TRUE YOU.

      Because YOU WILL NEVER GROW TO BE THE BEST YOU that YOU ARE.

      With all the ANGER and FAKENESS from those AROUND YOU and THROUGHOUT THE SOCIAL MEDIA..... I HOPE YOU CAN SEE that YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO REMAIN TRUE TO YOURSELF.

       If YOU HAVE SET BOUNDARIES then remember to NEVER CROSS YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES... PERIOD.

       Remember that WHO YOU CHOOSE to ASSOCIATE WITH is YOU CHOOSING the TYPES of CROWD YOU ARE COMFORTABLE AROUND. 

       And if YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE AROUND people WHO HAVE A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE then FIND NEW FRIENDS WHO POSITIVELY INSPIRES YOU. 

      If I DIDN'T CHOOSE to go to the store EARLIER IN THE MORNING then I WOULD BE CHOOSING to go in the AFTERNOON WHEN THEY ARE PACKED WITH PEOPLE. 

      There are BILLIONS OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD and yet there is ONLY ONE YOU and as long as YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF then YOU ARE AWESOME.