Friday, January 16, 2026

Make YOUR CHOICE then BE SAFE if YOU DO IT

      You have YOUR OPINIONS and also OTHER PEOPLE have THEIR OPINIONS.

      You may be a lot like EACH OTHER yet WHAT YOU SEE can be TOTALLY DIFFERENT than WHAT THEY SEE.

      What WORKS FOR YOU may NOT WORK FOR ANYONE ELSE.

      And what WORKS FOR THEM has NOTHING TO DO with WHAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR YOU.

      As a FRIEND or a RELATIVE YOU want to SHARE YOUR OPINION but DON'T EXPECT them TO DO WHATEVER YOU TELL THEM TO DO.

     Just SHARE YOUR OPINION so that YOU will ALWAYS KNOW that YOU TOLD THEM.

      AND ALWAYS BE THERE to SUPPORT them if THEY GET HURT DOING IT.....NOT BE THERE to tell them SEE I TOLD YOU NOT TO DO IT.

     BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF that there was MANY TIMES when SOMEONE TOLD YOU NOT TO DO IT yet.....  YOU DID IT ANYWAY.

      BUT...... If SOMEONE WARNS YOU ABOUT DOING IT......AT LEAST TAKE A MOMENT to CONSIDER WHY THEY SAID IT TO YOU.

       Most of the time THEY ONLY TELL YOU because THEY LOVE YOU and THEY WANT TO PROTECT YOU.

      I an a GRANDMA and I KNOW my GRANDKIDS think I JUST SIMPLY WORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING.

     WHEN YOU ARE OLD there have been DECADES OF TIME that YOU EVENTUALLY SEE LOTS OF PEOPLE GET HURT DOING THINGS that a YOUNGER PERSON HASN'T SEEN YET.

     BUT YOU HAVE TO ADMIT that when YOU WERE YOUNGER YOU DID PLENTY OF THINGS that YOU WERE TOLD that YOU SHOULDN'T DO.

      JUST TAKE A MOMENT OF YOUR TIME and DECIDE if YOU REALLY WILL BE SAFE DOING IT..... BEFORE YOU EVER DO ANYTHING. 

    What YOU DO is UP TO YOU and YOU WILL ALWAYS PAY THE CONSEQUENCES FOR EVERYTHING THAT YOU CHOOSE TO SAY OR DO.

      


Wednesday, January 14, 2026

How can we get anyone to learn from.....

   There will be many WORDS OF WISDOM we will want to SHARE throughout our LIFE'S JOURNEY but will ANYONE REALLY LISTEN?

    If you TRY TO SHARE your experience people look at you as if they are LISTENING but you are NOT SURE if they are really LISTENING.

     Whether you KNOW they will LISTEN you AUTOMATICALLY feel like you should at least SAY IT just in case they MIGHT HEAR IT.

     Truth is if YOU DON'T SAY IT to them then YOU WILL REGRET IT if THEY DID IT and YOU DIDN'T TELL THEM that THEY SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE IT.

     So even though they PROBABLY WON'T LISTEN just SAY IT so you will at least KNOW that YOU TOLD THEM.

     You may NOT KNOW but if YOUR WORDS make a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to ANYONE they can ONLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE if YOU SAY THEM OUT LOUD.



     

  

Monday, January 12, 2026

GETTING IT means DOING what you GOT TO DO to GET IT

        If you want to BUILD IT then you must first STOP..... and figure out what you will NEED TO BUILD IT.

       If you want to COOK IT then you must STOP..... and figure out what you will NEED TO COOK IT.

      If you want to CHANGE IT then you must STOP..... and figure out what you NEED TO DO DIFFERENTLY so THINGS CAN CHANGE.

     If you want to DO SOMETHING to GET IT DONE then STOP..... and DO WHAT YOU GOT TO DO to GET IT DONE.

      If YOU DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO then YOU CAN STOP STRESSING about it because IT WILL BE DONE ALREADY so you can JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

      LIFE is a JOURNEY and YOU LEARN AS YOU GO.

Friday, January 9, 2026

WEATHER is WHAT IT IS so ENJOY THE WEATHER or AVOID IT

      You can MAKE PLANS for a VACATION for NEXT YEAR but by NEXT YEAR you MAY THINK DIFFERENTLY.

     You can MAKE PLANS while YOU THINK the TEMPERATURE WILL BE PERFECT yet we all know that MOST WEATHER WATCHERS are USUALLY WRONG.

     If you MAKE PLANS TO GRILL OUT you ALSO need to MAKE PLANS for what you will do if it is raining outside that day.

     If you BUY TICKETS to FLY SOMEWHERE make sure you SAVE YOUR PATIENCE because sometimes RESERVATIONS GET DELAYED.

     If you SCHEDULE PLANS WITH OTHERS make sure EVERYONE WORKS TOGETHER so that YOUR PLANS WORK FOR EVERYONE.

     LIFE is like a ROLLERCOASTER and ROLLERCOASTERS are FULL of CHAOTIC MOMENTS but it is WORTH THE RIDE. 😀

Wednesday, January 7, 2026

STOP ...LOOK BEFORE YOU REACT

      Your FIRST THOUGHT may NOT SHOW YOU exactly what YOU SHOULD DO.

      Your FIRST THOUGHT may be TOTALLY DIFFERENT if YOU KNEW EVERYTHING.

     Your FIRST THOUGHT may make YOU THINK that YOU SHOULD but if YOU REALLY KNEW THE FACTS then YOU MIGHT REALIZE that YOU ACTUALLY SHOULDN'T.

     TEN PEOPLE could SEE the SAME THING yet they COULD SEE DIFFERENT THINGS.

     That DOESN'T mean that SOME OF THEM WERE WRONG.....It just means that THEY EACH LOOKED AT IT and THEY EACH JUST SAW DIFFERENT THINGS.

      If YOU LOOK for TROUBLE then YOU KNOW THAT YOU WILL FIND IT.

      If YOU LOOK FOR a POSITIVE PART then YOU KNOW THAT YOU WILL FIND POSITIVE THINGS.

      LIFE is HOW YOU LOOK AT IT so KEEP LOOKING UNTIL YOU FIND the POSITIVE PARTS DURING YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY and YOU WILL FIND IT.

     AND..... when YOU SEE TROUBLE COMING then MOVE OUT OF THE WAY so YOU WON'T HIT THE TROUBLE HEAD ON.


      

Monday, January 5, 2026

If YOU DON'T LIKE IT then......

      Just because YOU DON'T LIKE IT has NOTHING to do with whether SOMEONE ELSE WILL LIKE IT.

      Just because YOU DON'T LIKE the TASTE of the FOOD has NOTHING to do whether it is a SPECIAL FOOD that OTHERS LOVE TO EAT.

      Just because YOU ARE NOT OUTGOING has NOTHING to do with PEOPLE WHO LOVE GOING OUT.

      LUCKILY.....WE ALL are FREE to DO WHATEVER WE CAN DO.....If WE CHOOSE TO.

      NOW..... that DOESN'T MEAN that YOU CAN ALWAYS DO WHAT YOU WANT but it DOES MEAN that YOU CAN DO IT if YOU CAN.

      And if it is SOMETHING YOU LOOK FORWARD TO DOING then JUST DO IT while YOU ARE STILL YOUNG ENOUGH TO DO IT.

       Because YOU WILL REGRET what YOU NEVER TRIED TO DO WHILE YOU CAN DO IT even though YOU REALLY WANTED TO DO IT.

       EVERYTHING YOU WILL REGRET DOING is EVERYTHING that YOU HAD PLANNED ON DOING so..... JUST DO IT.

      It's YOUR LIFE and WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE so ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT WE HAVE.

Friday, January 2, 2026

LOOKING IT UP keeps it in a WHAT HAVE I EVER LOOKED FOR FILE

      HAVE YOU EVER LOOKED something UP then you get ASKED TO SEE something LIKE IT on your GAMES, AI, GOOGLE and RELATED TYPE SUBJECTS over and over on the INTERNET?

      BEFORE YOU LOOK IT UP..... MAKE SURE that YOU WANT TO ALWAYS FOREVER KNOW THAT YOU LOOKED IT UP?

       YOUR ALGORITHM FOLLOWS YOU FOR EVER and it will always SUGGEST IT so that YOU KNOW IT REMEMBERS THAT YOU LOOKED AT something LIKE IT.

     I LOOKED UP different WAYS to make a TURKEY for WEEKS BEFORE THANKSGIVING and I STILL SEE RECIPES EVERYWHERE I go on the INTERNET.

     NOW I am CURIOUS if they will SHOW ME RECIPES ALL THE WAY THRU THANKSGIVING NEXT YEAR so I will have the receipt?

     EVERYTHING YOU DO THROUGHOUT CYBERSPACE INK IS PERMANENT INK. SO BEFORE YOU hit SEND remember that it's in PERMANENT INK.

    BUT..... ASKING HOW TO BECOME A MILLIONAIRE DOESN'T MAKE YOU A MILLIONAIRE. HAHAHA 🍀