Are they LISTENING TO LEARN?

      A person might NOT BE ACTUALLY HONEST when they just WANT TO MAKE YOU SMILE.

      But there are TIMES when YOU SHOULD BE HONEST even if that HONESTY can be PAINFUL to them.

      When PEOPLE are young you DON'T NEED TO TELL them everything because SOME THINGS THEY SHOULDN'T KNOW.

     When YOU KNOW that YOU SHOULD BE HONEST with SOMEONE then MAKE SURE that YOU GIVE THEM AN HONEST ANSWER.

      When YOU KNOW that it is something that THEY SHOULDN'T KNOW then YOU SHOULDN'T TELL THEM.

      YOU WON'T ALWAYS make the RIGHT DECISION on YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY but AS LONG AS YOU DO what YOU THINK IS BEST then YOU DID YOUR BEST.

      YOU WOULD THINK that the OLDER YOU GET the MORE YOU WOULD KNOW TO SHARE with OTHERS but YOU KNOW MOST OF THE TIME....

     .....PEOPLE DON'T LISTEN AND LEARN they seem to WANT TO DO IT SO THEY CAN LEARN.

      But when they GET OLDER they WILL SEE just LIKE YOU HAVE LEARNED..... just HOW HARD IT IS to KNOW but NO ONE LEARNS FROM what YOU KNOW.

     LEARNING FROM OTHERS means YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF because YOU LEARNED FROM SOMEONE ELSE'S MISTAKES.

      

      

     

What are you THINKING ABOUT?

       I was very busy and somehow repeatedly a THOUGHT ABOUT NOTHING was GRABBING ALL OF MY ATTENTION. 

      I needed to FOCUS on WHAT I WAS DOING yet that THOUGHT ABOUT NOTHING was keeping MY MIND SO FULL that I COULDN'T FOCUS.

      I decided to STOP and take a QUICK BREAK then later I will GET FOCUSED AGAIN and GET WHAT I WANTED TO DO DONE.

      So I went to the bathroom then I got a drink and then as I TRIED TO GET FOCUSED that SAME THOUGHT POPPED UP FRONT AND CENTER in my mind and UNFORTUNATELY it was ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT.

      Then OUT OF THE BLUE..... that NEVER ENDING THOUGHT made me REALIZE that UNTIL I ACCOMPLISHED THAT TASK it was SUGGESTING then I WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE to DO IT OTHERWISE. 

      Now if I WOULD HAVE REALIZED THAT the FIRST TIME THAT THOUGHT POPPED UP IN MY MIND then I COULD HAVE SAVED A LOT OF WASTED TIME.

      Sometimes WHEN THOUGHTS POP UP IN YOUR MIND they are THOUGHTS THAT POP UP because THEY WERE MEANT TO HELP YOU.

      And sometimes it is just THOUGHTS THAT ARE DISTRACTING YOU from FOCUSING and you have to FIGURE OUT if those are the THOUGHTS that you have to IGNORE SO YOU CAN FOCUS.

     

The MINUTE that YOU GO into DEFENSE MODE is the MINUTE YOU CAN NO LONGER HEAR ANYMORE

      We don't always get THE FACTS because we go into DEFENSIVE MODE then WE CAN NO LONGER LISTEN TO GET THE FACTS.

      We all know that when WE BELIEVE IT IS TRUE then NO MATTER WHAT THE FACTS are if IT'S TRUE TO YOU then WHETHER IT IS TRUE OR NOT to you IT'S YOUR TRUTH.

      WHY? Because when we GO INTO DEFENSE MODE the DEFENSIVE REACTIONS WE MAKE are based on WHAT WE BELIEVE.

     And WHEN you are in DEFENSIVE MODE it means that NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS YOU CAN NO LONGER HEAR THEM. 

     So BEFORE YOU REACT.... just STOP ✋️ Because ONCE YOU REACT then..... 

     WE ALL HAVE CIRCUMSTANCES that we will have to face throughout our LIFE'S JOURNEY.

    But REMEMBER..... HOW YOU REACT to the CIRCUMSTANCES that YOU must face WILL ALWAYS DETERMINE THE OUTCOME so THINK BEFORE YOU REACT.

     

     

SPREAD HUMANITY SO HUMANITY WILL SPREAD

       Well I BELIEVE HUMANITY IS NEEDED and I am sure that EVERY HUMAN BEING no matter where they live is HOPEFUL because HUMANITY IS NECESSARY THERE TOO.

       SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION IS SLOWLY  DRAWING EVERYONE INTO BECOMING LESS HUMAN. 

        ASK EVERYONE from THE YOUNG ALL THE WAY TO those that are OLD they WILL ALL TELL YOU that HUMANS GOT LOST IN CYBERSPACE. 

      And a CYBERSPACE HUG is JUST A POKE and they NEED A REAL HUG TO BENEFIT FROM A REAL HUMAN HUG. 

      But to GET A REAL HUG then WE GOT TO GET TOGETHER so WE CAN GET ONE.

      INSTEAD of THINKING THAT IT IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME to HANGOUT let me tell you that to BE HUMAN YOU NEED TO BE TOGETHER WITH OTHER HUMANS.

       And the SILLY CONVERSATIONS that YOU HAVE WITH EACH OTHER will be the MEMORIES YOU WILL TREASURE that YOU WILL FEEL ON YOUR HUMANSIDE.

      SPREAD HUMANITY SO HUMANITY WILL SPREAD. 😃

      

I had FORGOTTEN then.....

      You may have been EXCITED about it yet....  TIME FLIES BY and sometimes.... YOU FORGET IT AGAIN.

      Have you ever REPEATEDLY FORGOT the same thing MORE THAN ONCE?

      I had HOPED to have EXTRA TIME but when you FORGET you end up having LESS TIME then you had HOPED FOR.

      LUCKILY I had MOST EVERYTHING READY so I was able to GET STARTED the MOMENT I REMEMBERED IT.

      And ALTHOUGH MORE TIME would have been better I ended up having PLENTY OF TIME TO ENJOY IT so I am HAPPY.

      SO when you MAKE PLANS then get as much done AHEAD of TIME so no matter what TIME you have the rest can be ready in a MOMENT OF TIME.

       Things don't have to BE PERFECT to ENJOY THEM. You just have to PLAN WELL and ENJOY EVERY MOMENT that YOU GET.

As you get OLDER you make a CHOICE to LISTEN MORE and SAY LESS

      Throughout your life you were EXCITED to SHARE ALL YOUR THOUGHTS and FUTURE PLANS.

     The OLDER you get you REALIZE that to LISTEN to OTHER PEOPLES THOUGHTS and PLANS is IMPORTANT so THEY CAN SHARE IT WITH SONEONE.

      You have SPENT DECADES TALKING ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS and you DON'T MAKE as MANY PLANS because YOU DID MOST OF THEM Throughout the last few decades.

      Just because YOU KNOW that putting TOO MANY MILES ON YOUR CAR makes it LAST A LOT LESS LONGER you just DON'T SUGGEST that to people younger to DRIVE LESS just for THAT REASON.

     Why? Because RUNNING AROUND TOO MUCH was IMPORTANT TO YOU TOO when you were YOUNGER.

     And now that you are OLDER YOU KNOW how HAPPY THOSE DAYS WERE and YOU TREASURE THOSE WILDER YOUNG TIMES.

      OF COURSE you just LISTEN as YOU THINK OF THOSE WILD TIMES YOU HAD and YOU DON'T TELL THEM WHAT YOU DID... YOU JUST LISTEN AND SMILE as YOU ENJOY YOUR MEMORIES FROM YOUR YOUNGER DAYS.

     KEEP YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES because WHEN YOU GET OLDER YOU WILL TREASURE THEM and you will be THANKFUL that they are YOUR SECRET MEMORIES that are BEST TO KEEP TO YOURSELF. 🥳

Don't forget that once YOU SAY IT then it is IN FACT WHAT YOU SAID

       When you get ANGRY then you should STOP TALKING and THINK BEFORE YOU SAY ONE WORD.

       Because ONCE YOU SAY IT OUTLOUD it is PERMANENTLY HEARD..... even if you WISH YOU HAD NOT SAID IT.

       Even when you FEEL LIKE you WANT to ANGRILY TELL THEM how WHAT THEY DID HAD HURT YOU.

      TRUST ME that YOUR ANGRY WORDS would have ONLY MADE THINGS HARDER FOR YOU. 

      If you STOP AND THINK about what you WANTED TO SAY you will REALIZE that YOU ARE GLAD YOU DIDN'T SAY IT. 

     Now HOW IT MADE YOU FEEL may make you CHANGE what you WILL OR WONT DO in the FUTURE.

      But for now just BE CAREFUL about what YOU CHOOSE TO SAY OUTLOUD.

      BEING KIND TO YOURSELF is the BEST THING YOU CAN DO IN ANY TYPE OF CIRCUMSTANCES that you HAVE TO DEAL with.

      At the end of the day the ONLY THING THAT MATTERS is if YOU ARE PROUD of HOW YOU HANDLED the CIRCUMSTANCES that YOU HAD TO FACE.