Every INTERACTION that YOU have is UP TO YOU

      When you walk in a busy doctor's office what KIND OF VIBES are YOU SHARING to the room?

     Remember that EVERYONE is there ONLY because THEY ARE SICK TOO so BE KIND and PATIENT WITH THEM. 

       When you COME HOME after a busy day at work what KIND OF VIBES are YOU SHARING when you GET HOME?

      Remember that YOUR FAMILY and PETS have been EXCITEDLY WAITING for you to come home from work. 

      When you are FRUSTRATED BY TRAFFIC when you do get where you are going DON'T bring in the FRUSTRATION WITH YOU.

     WHATEVER has happened has already happened.

     So ACCEPT IT then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN then ENJOY DOING whatever you are DOING in THE MOMENT YOU ARE IN NOW.

    Yesterday is already gone and tomorrow is not guaranteed but.... TODAY IS YOURS TO ENJOY. 

     

      

Sometimes the CHANGE may HELP you FIND YOURSELF

        You may NOT WANT THINGS TO CHANGE but during your LIFE'S JOURNEY there will be MANY CHANGES.

     You Need to ALWAYS BE THANKFUL for WHAT YOU DO HAVE as well as ACCEPTING YOUR CHALLENGES and ADJUST to ENJOY YOUR LIFE while YOU ARE LIVING IT.

       Always REMIND YOURSELF that WE ALL ONLY HAVE the TIME WE HAVE and therefore WE NEED TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT WE HAVE.

      When I LOOK BACK at all THE ADJUSTMENTS that I have made over the PAST FEW DECADES I NO LONGER really FEEL AT ALL LIKE THE OLD ME.

     But the TRUTH IS there are some CHANGES WE REALIZE LATER that WHAT WE THOUGHT WOULD HAPPEN ACTUALLY DIDNT HAPPEN the way WE THOUGHT IT WOULD.

     So IF THINGS HAVE TO CHANGE then FORGET WHAT USED TO WORK because IT WON'T WORK ANYMORE. 

     SO JUST ADJUST because the SOONER YOU ACCEPT THE CHANGE then THE SOONER YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO DO IT THE NEW WAY.

     Sometimes a CHANGE CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING and as long as YOU ADJUST AS YOU GO YOU CAN ENJOY WHATEVER THE CHANGE IS.

      To BE COMFORTABLE IN THE SKIN YOU ARE IN then YOU HAVE TO BE COMFORTABLE WITH WHAT YOU DO IN THE SKIN YOU ARE IN.

     

     

     

      

       

     

      

      

Are they LISTENING TO LEARN?

      A person might NOT BE ACTUALLY HONEST when they just WANT TO MAKE YOU SMILE.

      But there are TIMES when YOU SHOULD BE HONEST even if that HONESTY can be PAINFUL to them.

      When PEOPLE are young you DON'T NEED TO TELL them everything because SOME THINGS THEY SHOULDN'T KNOW.

     When YOU KNOW that YOU SHOULD BE HONEST with SOMEONE then MAKE SURE that YOU GIVE THEM AN HONEST ANSWER.

      When YOU KNOW that it is something that THEY SHOULDN'T KNOW then YOU SHOULDN'T TELL THEM.

      YOU WON'T ALWAYS make the RIGHT DECISION on YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY but AS LONG AS YOU DO what YOU THINK IS BEST then YOU DID YOUR BEST.

      YOU WOULD THINK that the OLDER YOU GET the MORE YOU WOULD KNOW TO SHARE with OTHERS but YOU KNOW MOST OF THE TIME....

     .....PEOPLE DON'T LISTEN AND LEARN they seem to WANT TO DO IT SO THEY CAN LEARN.

      But when they GET OLDER they WILL SEE just LIKE YOU HAVE LEARNED..... just HOW HARD IT IS to KNOW but NO ONE LEARNS FROM what YOU KNOW.

     LEARNING FROM OTHERS means YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF because YOU LEARNED FROM SOMEONE ELSE'S MISTAKES.

      

      

     

What are you THINKING ABOUT?

       I was very busy and somehow repeatedly a THOUGHT ABOUT NOTHING was GRABBING ALL OF MY ATTENTION. 

      I needed to FOCUS on WHAT I WAS DOING yet that THOUGHT ABOUT NOTHING was keeping MY MIND SO FULL that I COULDN'T FOCUS.

      I decided to STOP and take a QUICK BREAK then later I will GET FOCUSED AGAIN and GET WHAT I WANTED TO DO DONE.

      So I went to the bathroom then I got a drink and then as I TRIED TO GET FOCUSED that SAME THOUGHT POPPED UP FRONT AND CENTER in my mind and UNFORTUNATELY it was ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT.

      Then OUT OF THE BLUE..... that NEVER ENDING THOUGHT made me REALIZE that UNTIL I ACCOMPLISHED THAT TASK it was SUGGESTING then I WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE to DO IT OTHERWISE. 

      Now if I WOULD HAVE REALIZED THAT the FIRST TIME THAT THOUGHT POPPED UP IN MY MIND then I COULD HAVE SAVED A LOT OF WASTED TIME.

      Sometimes WHEN THOUGHTS POP UP IN YOUR MIND they are THOUGHTS THAT POP UP because THEY WERE MEANT TO HELP YOU.

      And sometimes it is just THOUGHTS THAT ARE DISTRACTING YOU from FOCUSING and you have to FIGURE OUT if those are the THOUGHTS that you have to IGNORE SO YOU CAN FOCUS.

     

The MINUTE that YOU GO into DEFENSE MODE is the MINUTE YOU CAN NO LONGER HEAR ANYMORE

      We don't always get THE FACTS because we go into DEFENSIVE MODE then WE CAN NO LONGER LISTEN TO GET THE FACTS.

      We all know that when WE BELIEVE IT IS TRUE then NO MATTER WHAT THE FACTS are if IT'S TRUE TO YOU then WHETHER IT IS TRUE OR NOT to you IT'S YOUR TRUTH.

      WHY? Because when we GO INTO DEFENSE MODE the DEFENSIVE REACTIONS WE MAKE are based on WHAT WE BELIEVE.

     And WHEN you are in DEFENSIVE MODE it means that NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS YOU CAN NO LONGER HEAR THEM. 

     So BEFORE YOU REACT.... just STOP ✋️ Because ONCE YOU REACT then..... 

     WE ALL HAVE CIRCUMSTANCES that we will have to face throughout our LIFE'S JOURNEY.

    But REMEMBER..... HOW YOU REACT to the CIRCUMSTANCES that YOU must face WILL ALWAYS DETERMINE THE OUTCOME so THINK BEFORE YOU REACT.

     

     

SPREAD HUMANITY SO HUMANITY WILL SPREAD

       Well I BELIEVE HUMANITY IS NEEDED and I am sure that EVERY HUMAN BEING no matter where they live is HOPEFUL because HUMANITY IS NECESSARY THERE TOO.

       SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION IS SLOWLY  DRAWING EVERYONE INTO BECOMING LESS HUMAN. 

        ASK EVERYONE from THE YOUNG ALL THE WAY TO those that are OLD they WILL ALL TELL YOU that HUMANS GOT LOST IN CYBERSPACE. 

      And a CYBERSPACE HUG is JUST A POKE and they NEED A REAL HUG TO BENEFIT FROM A REAL HUMAN HUG. 

      But to GET A REAL HUG then WE GOT TO GET TOGETHER so WE CAN GET ONE.

      INSTEAD of THINKING THAT IT IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME to HANGOUT let me tell you that to BE HUMAN YOU NEED TO BE TOGETHER WITH OTHER HUMANS.

       And the SILLY CONVERSATIONS that YOU HAVE WITH EACH OTHER will be the MEMORIES YOU WILL TREASURE that YOU WILL FEEL ON YOUR HUMANSIDE.

      SPREAD HUMANITY SO HUMANITY WILL SPREAD. 😃

      

I had FORGOTTEN then.....

      You may have been EXCITED about it yet....  TIME FLIES BY and sometimes.... YOU FORGET IT AGAIN.

      Have you ever REPEATEDLY FORGOT the same thing MORE THAN ONCE?

      I had HOPED to have EXTRA TIME but when you FORGET you end up having LESS TIME then you had HOPED FOR.

      LUCKILY I had MOST EVERYTHING READY so I was able to GET STARTED the MOMENT I REMEMBERED IT.

      And ALTHOUGH MORE TIME would have been better I ended up having PLENTY OF TIME TO ENJOY IT so I am HAPPY.

      SO when you MAKE PLANS then get as much done AHEAD of TIME so no matter what TIME you have the rest can be ready in a MOMENT OF TIME.

       Things don't have to BE PERFECT to ENJOY THEM. You just have to PLAN WELL and ENJOY EVERY MOMENT that YOU GET.

As you get OLDER you make a CHOICE to LISTEN MORE and SAY LESS

      Throughout your life you were EXCITED to SHARE ALL YOUR THOUGHTS and FUTURE PLANS.

     The OLDER you get you REALIZE that to LISTEN to OTHER PEOPLES THOUGHTS and PLANS is IMPORTANT so THEY CAN SHARE IT WITH SONEONE.

      You have SPENT DECADES TALKING ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS and you DON'T MAKE as MANY PLANS because YOU DID MOST OF THEM Throughout the last few decades.

      Just because YOU KNOW that putting TOO MANY MILES ON YOUR CAR makes it LAST A LOT LESS LONGER you just DON'T SUGGEST that to people younger to DRIVE LESS just for THAT REASON.

     Why? Because RUNNING AROUND TOO MUCH was IMPORTANT TO YOU TOO when you were YOUNGER.

     And now that you are OLDER YOU KNOW how HAPPY THOSE DAYS WERE and YOU TREASURE THOSE WILDER YOUNG TIMES.

      OF COURSE you just LISTEN as YOU THINK OF THOSE WILD TIMES YOU HAD and YOU DON'T TELL THEM WHAT YOU DID... YOU JUST LISTEN AND SMILE as YOU ENJOY YOUR MEMORIES FROM YOUR YOUNGER DAYS.

     KEEP YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES because WHEN YOU GET OLDER YOU WILL TREASURE THEM and you will be THANKFUL that they are YOUR SECRET MEMORIES that are BEST TO KEEP TO YOURSELF. 🥳

Don't forget that once YOU SAY IT then it is IN FACT WHAT YOU SAID

       When you get ANGRY then you should STOP TALKING and THINK BEFORE YOU SAY ONE WORD.

       Because ONCE YOU SAY IT OUTLOUD it is PERMANENTLY HEARD..... even if you WISH YOU HAD NOT SAID IT.

       Even when you FEEL LIKE you WANT to ANGRILY TELL THEM how WHAT THEY DID HAD HURT YOU.

      TRUST ME that YOUR ANGRY WORDS would have ONLY MADE THINGS HARDER FOR YOU. 

      If you STOP AND THINK about what you WANTED TO SAY you will REALIZE that YOU ARE GLAD YOU DIDN'T SAY IT. 

     Now HOW IT MADE YOU FEEL may make you CHANGE what you WILL OR WONT DO in the FUTURE.

      But for now just BE CAREFUL about what YOU CHOOSE TO SAY OUTLOUD.

      BEING KIND TO YOURSELF is the BEST THING YOU CAN DO IN ANY TYPE OF CIRCUMSTANCES that you HAVE TO DEAL with.

      At the end of the day the ONLY THING THAT MATTERS is if YOU ARE PROUD of HOW YOU HANDLED the CIRCUMSTANCES that YOU HAD TO FACE.

     

     

Will YOU be HAPPY FOR YOURSELF if YOU COULD BE HONEST about BEING YOURSELF?

      Your family and your friends may be good at SKATING and you MIGHT WANT TO SKATE but the TRUTH IS that YOU TRIED IT BUT YOU REALIZED THAT YOU CAN'T SKATE. 

     Your friends DONT ALWAYS CHOOSE TO DO EVERYTHING that YOU LIKE but there are many other things that YOU DO LIKE DOING WITH THEM.

    DO you like scary RIDES at an AMUSEMENT PARK?

     If YOU DON'T THEN it is BEST to TELL YOUR FRIENDS that YOU will HOLD ON TO THEIR PHONES while THEY RIDE that ROLLERCOASTER WITHOUT YOU.

      If your friends like scary ROLLERCOASTERS that DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO RIDE A ROLLERCOASTER because YOU KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE riding on a ROLLERCOASTER. 

      I had a friend that FELT SO MUCH PRESSURE about SAYING NO I AM AFRAID OF ROLLERCOASTERS that SHE MISSED GOING TO THE PARK WITH THEM.

     There was MANY THING'S besides ROLLERCOASTERS that SHE COULD HAVE ENJOYED WITH HER FRIENDS, if she would have went.

       If YOU KEEP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE to PLEASE OTHERS then YOU WILL FORGET WHO YOU TRULY ARE. 

      If YOU KEEP DISTANCE because YOU HIDE YOURSELF FROM OTHERS then YOU WILL HAVE A LONELY LIFE because WE ARE ALL UNIQUE and YOUR UNIQUENESS is WHY THEY LIKE YOU. 

     We all ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE and WE NEED TO BE OURSELVES AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WE HAVE and IF YOU HATE ROLLERCOASTERS than DON'T RIDE ONE.

     

     

A TEAMMATE is an IMPORTANT PART OF THE TEAM

      When you BUILD A HOUSE you NEED MORE THEN an ARCHITECT that DRAWS A PICTURE of exactly the size of every wall.

       HOW MANY TYPES OF BUSINESSES do you THINK IT WOULD TAKE to completely BUILD A HOUSE?

      When you BUILD A BUSINESS it will TAKE more than you DECIDING WHAT BUSINESS you want to INVEST YOUR TIME AND MONEY INTO.

       TAKE THE TIME to LEARN EVERYTHING that you WILL NEED to MAKE THE BUSINESS that you want to SUCCEED if you WANT TO have A CHANCE TO SUCCEED. 

       But ONCE you CHOOSE THE STANDARDS THAT YOU WILL LIVE BY DURING YOUR BUSINESS or YOUR PERSONAL LIFE then STICK TO YOUR STANDARDS NO MATTER WHAT ANY TEAMMATE MAY SAY.

       BECAUSE at THE END OF THE DAY the ONLY THING THAT MATTERS PERSONALLY OR PROFESSIONALLY is whether YOU ARE PROUD OF EVERYTHING THAT YOU CHOSE TO DO OR NOT TO DO EACH DAY.

      In LIFE whenever it TAKES A TEAM to GET IT DONE then remember that EVEN A BOSS HAS TO BE A GOOD TEAMMATE for the TEAM TO SUCCEED.  

      And if ONE DAY YOU REALIZE that YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN DO SOMETHING because it takes only ONE TEAMMATE ALONE then ACCEPT IT AND GET UP AND GET 'R DONE.

      

       

        

      

Having A CHANCE is AT LEAST A CHANCE

      Lots of PEOPLE TRY even WHEN everyone KNOWS that there will be ONLY ONE WINNER.

      Lots of PEOPLE MIGHT THINK ABOUT IT yet they DON'T REACT ON IT.

      But EVENTUALLY SOMEONE ELSE DOES REACT QUICKLY and THEY ACCOMPLISH IT and ARE SUCCESSFUL AT DOING IT.

     The TRUTH IS that OPPORTUNITIES YOU MISS OUT ON ARE NEVER LOST they are JUST TAKEN BY SOMEONE ELSE. 

    SOME PEOPLE ASK WHY something HAPPENS...

     SOME PEOPLE ASK HOW something COULD HAVE HAPPENED....

      SOME PEOPLE MAKE THINGS HAPPEN....

      WHICH ONE ARE YOU?

      IF YOU GOT A CHANCE THEN TAKE IT because IF YOU DON'T then YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET IT.

     

JUST BECAUSE means....ADJUST AS NECESSARY.

      You may NOT LIKE THE ANSWER but whether YOU LIKE IT OR NOT it STILL MEANS it is STILL THE TRUTHFUL ANSWER. 

      Which MEANS YOU HAVE TO ADJUST so YOU CAN ACCEPT THE ANSWER and JUST DO IT. 

      When the ROAD YOU ARE ON IS UNDER CONSTRUCTION then whether YOU LIKE IT OR NOT the journey YOU ARE ON WILL TAKE LONGER TO DRIVE ON.

     So YOU HAVE TO ADJUST and LEAVE EARLIER so YOU WILL HAVE TIME for a LONGER RIDE because YOU KNOW CONSTRUCTION MEANS LONGER RIDES.

     PRICES ARE HIGHER so it MEANS YOU HAVE TO ADJUST and SHOP SMARTER and STOCK UP when things GO ON SALE.

     JUST BECAUSE things CHANGE MEANS....YOU HAVE TO ADJUST so YOU CAN KEEP UP with all the CHANGES whether YOU WANTED ANYTHING TO CHANGE OR NOT.

     LIFE IS FULL OF CHANGES but to ENJOY LIFE YOU HAVE TO GO WITH THE FLOW ON YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY and ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF IT.

     REMEMBER that YOU CAN'T GET TOO COMFORTABLE IN LIFE because LIFE IS ALWAYS CHANGING so ADJUST AS YOU GO.