WHAT YOU want WILL Take HARD WORK TO GET... Thats JUST LIFE

      You may HOPE FOR IT but are you willing to do whatever it will take to get it?

      You may TREASURE IT but will you be willing to do whatever it takes to have it to TREASURE IT?

     You may WISH YOU COULD but will you do what it will TAKE to be ABLE TO DO IT?

     If you WANT ANYTHING in LIFE you will have to DO THE HARD WORK it will take if YOU WANT TO HAVE IT.

     I have heard many people that are MIDDLE-AGED say that it ISN'T THEIR FAULT it is THEIR PARENTS FAULT.

     Now at MIDDLE-AGED and living ON YOUR OWN do you really THINK that it is THEIR PARENTS FAULT STILL TODAY?

     They COULD CHANGE IF THEY CHOSE to be ACCOUNTABLE for THEIR BEHAVIOR since they became an adult?

     BUT Blaming THEMSELVES means they have NO ONE BUT THEMSELVES TO BLAME.

     When you LEARN THAT YOUR LIFE is BASED ON YOUR WAY OF THINKING then YOU WILL LEARN that YOU CAN CHANGE ANYTHING if you PUT IN THE WORK to CHANGE IT.

      THINK about WHAT YOU WANT and ACCEPT that it will TAKE WORK and then....DO THE WORK.

 

     

CHANGING means YOU HAVE TO CHANGE

       Constantly talking about what HAPPENED ALREADY again and again is WASTING what COULD HAPPEN if you TOOK YOUR TIME to MAKE something special HAPPEN TODAY.

       KEEPING everything that HAPPENED YESTERDAY FRESH ON YOUR MIND will PREVENT YOU from having ROOM IN YOUR MIND to ACCOMPLISH what you want to HAPPEN TODAY.

      If you KEEP REMINDING yourself about things that HURT YOU then you will CONSTANTLY FEEL THE PAIN and it will KEEP HURTING YOU everytime YOU RELIVE IT.

       To GET PAST IT then you have to LEARN what you need and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN.

      When you DECLUTTER YOUR HOUSE you GET RID of the stuff you don't need so you can enjoy a CLUTTERFREE HOME.

      And to THINK CLEARLY then you need to take all the NEGATIVE THOUGHTS IN YOUR MIND and JUST FLUSH IT so you CAN have ROOM TO THINK CLEARLY.

      Your THOUGHTS are your REALITY and if you want PEACE OF MIND then take all the NEGATIVITY and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN. 🌻

Perhaps you might LEARN something if you TRY TO LEARN something

      When you MEET someone that you ADMIRE then you have to DECIDE if you SHOULD ASK THEM an IMPORTANT QUESTION that you hope they WOULD KNOW. 

      UNFORTUNATELY even though they MIGHT KNOW you might DECIDE to let them RELAX and find the answer a different way because they are there to RELAX.

      When you REALIZE WHAT YOU WANT then you have to take the time to FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.

      UNFORTUNATELY even though YOU WANT IT you just might FIND OUT that it may be something that you REALIZE is something that YOU CAN'T ACCOMPLISH. 

      We DREAM of many things throughout our lifetime but NOT EVERY DREAM is something that we CAN MAKE COME TRUE.

      But WITHOUT ANY DREAMS at all then YOU WON'T HAVE ANY DREAMS COME TRUE IF YOU NEVER DREAMED OF ANYTHING. 

       At different STAGES of your LIFE you might LEARN that what you THOUGHT that YOU WANTED isn't IMPORTANT TO YOU ANYMORE. 

      LEARN to ENJOY LEARNING something THAT IS NEW because LIFE IS ALWAYS CHANGING and YOU HAVE TO LEARN AS YOU GO. 

      NOT EVERYONE likes CHANGES but WHEN THINGS CHANGE then you have NO CHOICE but to CHANGE to KEEP UP. 

      And ANYTHING YOU DONT HAVE TO CHANGE THEN.... DON'T CHANGE IT UNLESS YOU DECIDE TO CHANGE 

     

If you WANT TO KNOW then LOOK ALL AROUND so you really KNOW

     When I am CONSIDERING something I first LOOK UP ALL THE FACTS that I can find so I can LEARN before I DECIDE.

     After I LOOK it up then I LOOK at it from EVERY ANGLE because if you only consider TEN PERCENT of it then you know that there is NINETY PERCENT that you NEED TO SEE before you DECIDE. 

     Because it would be like if you ONLY PUT ONE TIRE ON YOUR CAR you COULDN'T DRIVE because YOU NEED FOUR TIRES to be ABLE TO DRIVE.

     If you ONLY put on ONE SHOE then without a doubt WALKING WILL BE UNCOMFORTABLE so you need to FIND BOTH OF YOUR SHOES.

     ANYONE can GUESS but if they have NO IDEA then you are WASTING YOUR TIME because they CAN'T TELL YOU if they DON'T KNOW.

      You CAN'T DO IT and just say it is something other PEOPLE DO because just because other PEOPLE ARE DOING IT doesn't mean that it is the right thing for you to do.

      Before YOU DECIDE then STOP and LEARN WHAT YOU NEED TO before YOU DECIDE then NO MATTER HOW THINGS TURN OUT then YOU KNOW YOU DID THE BEST THAT YOU COULD. 

     At the end of the day will you be able to say that you are PROUD of the DECISIONS that YOU MADE TODAY?

     Every CHOICE YOU MAKE MATTERS so CHOOSE WISELY...... And remember that even making NO CHOICE IS A DECISION that YOU MADE.

    

Quit EXPECTING everything so you can FINALLY ENJOY what YOU DO HAVE

       If you WON'T BE HAPPY unless YOU HAVE EVERYTHING then you will NEVER BE HAPPY because you will NEVER HAVE EVERYTHING. 

      If you EXPECT to GET EVERYTHING that you ever DREAMED OF then you WON'T ENJOY what YOU LUCKILY DO HAVE because YOU WILL BE DISCOURAGED because you will NEVER GET EVERYTHING.

      Even RICH PEOPLE thought that having MONEY would MAKE THEM HAPPY but even SURROUNDED BY ALL THEIR STUFF they MAY STILL FEEL ALONE.

       Could you IMAGINE HOW YOU WOULD FEEL if you COULD BE PROUD of WHAT YOU DO HAVE?

      YOU COULD if you would take the TIME TO NOTICE WHAT YOU DO HAVE.

      Could you IMAGINE HOW LUCKY you are to HAVE EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEEDED?

      Well YOU CAN if YOU QUIT THINKING about what YOU DON'T HAVE then YOU WOULD be able to NOTICE WHAT YOU DO HAVE. 

      When you REALIZE that YOU ARE LUCKY to HAVE WHAT YOU NEED then YOU WILL REALIZE JUST HOW LUCKY YOU ARE for WHAT YOU DO HAVE. 

       The NEXT TIME that YOU GET UPSET about WHAT YOU DONT HAVE then STOP...... because NO ONE WILL EVER GET EVERYTHING that THEY EVER HOPED THEY WOULD because THAT'S JUST LIFE.

        YOUR GLASS might only be HALF FULL but it WILL QUENCH YOUR THIRST but if you REFUSE TO TAKE A DRINK then you will DIE OF THIRST SURROUNDED BY THE WATER YOU DO HAVE.

       So WHEN YOU ARE THIRSTY then TAKE A DRINK! 🥛

Things YOU LIKE TODAY may be things that.....

       The OLDER YOU GET the things that used to be WORTH the effort are things that YOU DON'T WANT TO WORK FOR now because THINGS HAVE CHANGED.

       The WISER YOU GET the more you REALIZE that the things YOU NEED are different because THINGS HAVE CHANGED.

       The more CREATIVE YOU GET the LESS YOU WILL NEED because YOU CAN FIGURE IT OUT because YOUR CREATIVITY means what you NEED NOW HAS CHANGED.

       When THINGS CHANGE then everything CHANGES at least a little because THINGS HAVE CHANGED. 

       When PEOPLE GROW then AS THEY GROW then THINGS CHANGE because THEY HAVE GROWN. 

       When you get OLDER then you often SEE people less often because just like your world HAS CHANGED their world has also CHANGED. 

       Which is WHY when YOU GET TOGETHER WITH EACH OTHER then ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT YOU HAVE TOGETHER because YOUR TIME TOGETHER IS RARE AND PRICELESS. ❤️ 

       

       

      

      

How many children and dogs are DISTRACTED because they are LOOKING FOR JESSICA?

       If you know WHY children and dogs are DISTRACTED because they are LOOKING FOR JESSICA then i know you are LAUGHING right now.

      As I am SCROLLING through tiktok the MINUTE a video about getting a SCREAMING child or a BARKING dog DISTRACTED to get them QUIET..... someone starts HOLLERING FOR JESSICA.

       And without a doubt the SCREAMING child OR BARKING dog SUDDENLY STOPS the MINUTE they start HOLLERING FOR JESSICA.

      They LOOK at the PERSON HOLLERING then they LOOK where that person is LOOKING AT is LOOKING and they are so INSTANTLY DISTRACTED and QUIETLY CALM.

     And throughout your life if you are FRUSTRATED about anything just REMEMBER TO DISTRACT YOURSELF and you will STOP BEING FRUSTRATED. 

     Our MINDS have an ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS running through it and if ANY THOUGHT MAKES YOU FEEL NEGATIVELY then..... 

     GET DISTRACTED by something else and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

    PEACE OF MIND is JUST A JESSICA AWAY!

LIMIT IT not FAIL because you EXPECTED TOO MUCH

    Every YEARLY Doctor visit INCLUDES a ONCE A YEAR BLOODWORK that your Doctor will examine.

     My sugar was high a couple of years ago so everytime it is TIME for my YEARLY Doctors appointment I CUT BACK on my sugar. 

     This year I started watching my sugar all year long preparing for my Doctors appointment. 

     When you NEED to SAVE MONEY you don't go WITHOUT STUFF you just LIMIT STUFF so you can SAVE SOME MONEY even it is LIMITED.

     When you first TRY to ride a bicycle you have to REALIZE that you WILL have a FEW WRECKS before you can actually LEARN how to ride it WITHOUT WRECKING.

     EVERYTIME someone STARTS a NEW BUSINESS THEY have to ACCEPT that because THEY are NEW to DOING IT then THEY will have to LEARN from the CHAOS that THEY will face ALONG THE WAY.

     Because YOUR LIFE'S JOURNEY is made up of YOUR LIFES JOURNEYS as YOU LEARN IT ALONG YOUR JOURNEY. 

     Even OUR MISTAKES WERE NECESSARY because they were PART OF THE PLAN to get you where you NEEDED TO BE.

     

    

     

Being sn ADULT is HARD AT TIMES but luckily we are also KIDS AT HEART!

       Even when you REALIZE that what you need to do will BE HARDER than you thought but if IT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU then no matter HOW HARD it is.... IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO DO.

       Even if to ACCOMPLISH IT there may be THINGS YOU WILL LOSE ALONG the way just remember if IT IS IMPORTANT for you to HAVE then WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO LOSE.... IT IS OBVIOUSLY NECESSARY.

        Part of GROWING UP means that some things YOU CAN'T DO ANYMORE because YOU ARE A GROWN UP NOW.

        But......the KID INSIDE YOU is STILL INSIDE of YOU just the ADULT IN YOU WILL have to DECIDE and let you KNOW when IT'S OKAY TO let the KID IN YOU COME OUT.

        HOPEFULLY one day YOU WILL BECOME A GRANDPARENT then after you get your WORK DONE then you can ENJOY PLAYING with your GRANDKIDS by LETTING THE KID IN YOU COME OUT TO PLAY WITH THEM anytime you see them.

       Whenever I go to the store to buy my GRANDCHILDREN ANY GIFTS I let THE KID IN ME DECIDE what would BE FUN to KNOW what FUN THINGS to PICK THEM.

         Being an ADULT definitely MAKES YOU have to DECIDE what YOU HAVE TO DO but it also ALLOWS YOU TO CHOOSE when IT'S TIME TO LET THE KID IN YOU come out TO PLAY.

        Just because YOU ARE OLD DOESN'T MEAN that there ISN'T A KID INSIDE OF YOU ALSO.

        

      

      

     

Can you DO something or SAY something that CAN MAKE SOMEONE SMILE EACH DAY?

      If you EVER want to MAKE a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to anyone then you will have to DO SOMETHING or SAY SOMETHING POSITIVE to MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to anyone. 

      If you want to INSPIRE someone then BE INSPIRATIONAL so your ACTIONS WILL INSPIRE someone.

      If you want to ENCOURAGE someone then you need to LET THEM HEAR YOUR ENCOURAGING WORDS so it CAN ENCOURAGE THEM. 

      If you OPEN THE DOOR so someone can walk through it then WITHOUT A DOUBT it WILL MAKE BOTH OF YOU SMILE.

      If you SAY SORRY when you are at a store as you accidentally cross the lines at the same time as another customer it WILL MAKE YOU BOTH SMILE as you both then can HAPPILY just continue through the store.

     EVERY DAY make sure at the END OF THE DAY to REMIND YOURSELF that PEACE ON EARTH is possible by bringing PEACE OF MIND to ONE PERSON AT A TIME. 

      KINDNESS MATTERS so BE KIND to EVERYONE YOU MEET so the WORLD will be a KINDER PLACE for us all to live. 

     At the end of the day will you be able to say that you made someone SMILE TODAY?

You will need to LEARN as you LEARN TO DO IT

        Life is definitely like a ROLLERCOASTER and there will be UPS and DOWNS as well as MESSES along the way.

        When you are doing something and you see that you MESSED IT UP then you definitely NEED TO STOP.....then FIND THE DIRECTIONS ON HOW TO DO IT so you CAN FIX IT.

        When you REALIZE that you are GOING THE WRONG DIRECTION then TURN AROUND and GET BACK ON TRACK.

        When you MAKE a MISTAKE during your lifetime then ADMIT that you MADE A MISTAKE and LEARN what you NEED TO then DO IT CORRECTLY. 

        There will be many CHALLENGES during your life's journey and well..... sometimes those CHALLENGES will be harder than you would have thought.

         But you CAN LEARN AS YOU GO and your EXPERIENCE as you CLIMB IT will ACTUALLY be YOUR HAPPIEST MOMENTS of YOUR LIFE.

       HARD WORK means you are a HARD WORKER and THAT MAKES YOU AWESOME.