CHANGE may HAVE TO HAPPEN so YOU DECIDE what is BEST FOR YOU

      When things happen in your Life both from the POSITIVE TIMES and the NEGATIVE TIMES it MAKES YOU CHANGE.

      If something NEGATIVE HAPPENS then you have to FIND A WAY to MAKE SURE IT NEVER EVER HAPPENS AGAIN.....PERIOD.

      So you have to FIGURE OUT HOW it happened and DECIDE TO CHANGE things so that at least THAT NEGATIVE thing NEVER HAPPENS AGAIN. 

     If you have to GIVE SOMETHING UP then GIVE IT UP.

      If you have to CHANGE YOUR HABITS then CHANGE YOUR HABITS.

     If you have to GET RID OF NEGATIVE PEOPLE in your LIFE then GET RID OF THEM or if it is FAMILY MEMBER then VISIT THEM LESS and FIND POSITIVE PEOPLE to be around. 

     WHO YOU CHOOSE to ASSOCIATE WITH will DETERMINE the MINDSET AROUND YOU that DETERMINES WHO YOU are CHOOSING TO BE.

     WHO YOU BECOME is based on WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE.

      If you KNOW it is COLD OUTSIDE then DRESS WARMLY so YOU WILL STAY WARM.

      If you KNOW it will be a SUNNY DAY then WEAR SUNGLASSES when you GO OUTSIDE TODAY. 

      If things FEEL WRONG TO YOU then YOU KNOW that IT IS WRONG FOR WHO YOU ARE so let that be THE ONLY REASON that YOU NEED TO NOT DO IT nor ALLOW IT AROUND YOU.

     CHANGE is NOT EASY but IT IS NECESSARY if THINGS ARE GOING TO POSITIVELY CHANGE.

     And if it is TIME FOR A CHANGE in YOUR LIFE then THINK LONG AND HARD about WHAT EXACTLY NEEDS TO CHANGE and then CHANGE and ENJOY YOUR LIFE while YOU ARE LIVING IT.