All you can do is LISTEN even when you REALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND

     Just because you have no way to actually take care of the circumstances they are facing you can HELP them by LISTENING.

     They may only need a MOMENT to LISTEN TO THEMSELVES as they TELL you their circumstances to be able to UNDERSTAND HOW THEY CAN FIX IT.

     They were just OVERWHELMED by the circumstances that they were facing and COULDN'T THINK CLEARLY enough to FIGURE IT OUT.

     But as they TOLD you they began to ACCEPT the circumstances and then they could JUST FLUSH IT out of their mind and then THEY FIGURED IT OUT.

     They just needed to SAY IT to be able to JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND would have ROOM to GET IN.

    Take the TIME TO LISTEN to them so they can be able to JUST FLUSH IT and THINK CLEARLY and they will FIGURE IT OUT on THEIR OWN.