If THEY DON'T KNOW YOU by NOW.....then THEY NEVER WILL EVER KNOW YOU

      Have you ever WANDERED if you COULD CHANGE someone's PERSONAL OPINION OF YOU that YOU HAD KNOWN FOR YEARS?

     If THEY DON'T RESPECT YOU by NOW then you have to EXPECT that THEY WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU no matter what you do at anytime.

     You may THINK THAT YOU HAD EARNED IT yet in THEIR OPINION you SUDDENLY REALIZE YOU HADN'T EARNED ANYTHING AT ALL FROM THEM.

     If you were HONEST and RESPECTFUL TO THEM then and IN THE END you REALIZED that THEY HAD NO RESPECT FOR YOU then..... ACCEPT that THEY WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU.

     That DOESN'T MEAN that YOU DIDN'T EARN IT....It just means that YOU DID IT but.... IT WASN'T NOTICED BY THEM. 

      It's always NICE to BE ACKNOWLEDGED BY OTHERS but..... SOMETIMES YOU MAY BE THE ONLY ONE TO ACKNOWLEDGE YOURSELF for WHAT YOU HAVE DONE.

       YOU KNOW that YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE but YOU DO  KNOW what YOU DID and THAT IS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW.

       As long as YOU DID YOUR BEST then BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE.

      

     

Will you REGRET IT?

      If you ACT TOO QUICKLY you may MAKE A QUICK DECISION that you may REGRET MAKING.

      If you GUESS WITHOUT LEARNING what you NEED TO KNOW.....you may find that you might REGRET what you CHOSE to do.

     Because If you DO IT when you KNOW that you SHOULDN'T DO IT you just might REGRET that you CHOSE TO DO IT when you KNEW that you SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE IT.

     There are MANY ANSWERS IN LIFE but REMEMBER that what WORKS for OTHERS may be something that you will REGRET DOING FOR YOURSELF.

     There are USUALLY NO EASY ANSWERS or sometimes even ANSWERS that are even FAIR but.....if it is IMPORTANT then LEARN EVERYTHING so you can MAKE THE BEST DECISION for yourself.

      Everything is DIFFERENT in LIFE and sometimes It is EVEN UNFAIR but... Your LIFE IS YOUR LIFE.

      And since we each only have ONE LIFE TO LIVE.....DO WHAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU.

      DON'T DO ANYTHING that you will REGRET DOING... just do WHAT YOU CAN TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT THAT YOU CAN..... REGARDLESS of HOW HARD LIFE can be at times.

     LIFE IS LIFE And YOU WON'T REGRET DOING the BEST THAT YOU CAN DO to ENJOY every moment that YOU HAVE TO ENJOY.

    ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT.

You SHOULD ALWAYS PROTECT YOUR INNER CIRCLE

      You want to DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT but the TRUTH is.....If it is TOO GOOD to be TRUE then it PROBABLY ISN'T TRUE.

     You want to BELIEVE that you CAN BELIEVE THEM......yet the TRUTH is NOT EVERYONE CAN BE BELIEVED.

     You want to HAVE HOPE but...... sometimes that HOPEFULNESS just doesn't feel HOPEFUL ANYMORE.

     You THINK that your NEW ENCOUNTER will ALWAYS BE HONEST but the TRUTH is NOT MANY PEOPLE ARE TRULY HONEST at the END OF THE DAY.

     ALTHOUGH Your FAMILY AND LIFETIME FRIENDS are NOT ALWAYS PERFECT at least when YOU NEED THEM you KNOW YOU CAN COUNT ON THEIR LOYALTY.

     A NEW ENCOUNTER may SEEM FUN but DON'T GIVE UP on YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS just to HANG OUT WITH THEM.

    HAVING FUN when you are OLDER means YOU ALWAYS STICK TO YOUR FAMILY AND LONG TIME FRIENDS because they will always be YOUR FAMILY AND LIFELONG FRIENDS...... TODAY AND TOMORROW.

    ENJOY YOUR NEW ENCOUNTERS...... while YOU PROTECT YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS FOREVER.

    

You have to STOP AND TALK if you want to LEARN MORE about it.

      When I was younger I was TOTALLY BORED by the WEIRD CONVERSATIONS that went on between DIFFERENT ADULTS.

     You would come in to ASK an adult SOMETHING and the RANDOM TYPE of SUBJECTS would be UTTERLY BORING.

     I didn't really CARE ABOUT what they were TALKING ABOUT but I must say there were many WEIRD CONVERSATIONS at times.

    Nowadays FAMILIES seem to SPEND LESS TIME TOGETHER so those RANDOM THOUGHTS don't get TALKED ABOUT ANYMORE.

     In the GROCERY STORE I see MORE CONVERSATIONS between STRANGERS because it's a CHANCE TO JUST TALK.

     I have LEARNED MANY IMPORTANT RECIPES from PEOPLE I will probably NEVER SEE AGAIN but I Am TOTALLY ENJOYING A NEW RECIPE to try.

     Not EVERY FAMILY CAN get TIME TO GATHER AND TALK about SILLY STUFF that we CAN TRY but we ALL HAVE TO GO TO THE GROCERY STORE so..... LEARN what YOU CAN.... WHEREVER YOU CAN.

      When you are at a HARDWARE STORE you just might LEARN HOW TO FIX IT just by ASKING HOW TO FIX IT....NOT QUIETLY WANDERING and NEVER KNOW.

     

Just like KARATE KID you WILL LEARN from WORKING

     Have you NOTICED exactly HOW LONG a PERSON STARES at their phone?

     As I was LISTENING to a podcast they were talking about the NUMBER OF HOURS each PERSON was STARING at their PHONES JUST SCROLLING.

    Many times there are many things that LOOKING ON LINE will HELP YOU.

    The NUMBER OF YOUTUBE videos you had if YOU NEEDED one was PERFECT.

    But then the SOCIAL MEDIA accounts STARTED TAKING OVER most of OUR WAKENING HOURS of EACH DAY.

     It was NO LONGER a PART TIME HOBBY it became OUR ONLY FAIR MOMENT we each had EACH DAY.

    You DIDN'T WANT TO TALK to others IN PERSON ANYMORE.

    Suddenly you just wanted to SPEND every second SCROLLING STRANGERS and you COULD NO LONGER SEE THOSE around you ANYMORE.

     If you want HUMANITY TO CONTINUE then you MUST PHYSICALLY TALK TO OTHER HUMANS.

     START SPENDING time together JUST TALKING about NOTHING yet just like KARATE KID they will LEARN HOW TO REMAIN HUMAN AGAIN.

    WAX ON.... WAX OFF... PUSH UP....PUSH DOWN Is what it takes to SPREAD HUMANITY INTO SOCIETY AGAIN.

    

     

How YOU DRESS is PURELY UP TO YOU

      We were waiting on something so we started WATCHING PEOPLE while we waited.

     We NOTICED that mostly everyone was dressed CONSERVATIVELY.

      That was KINDA BORING because we were trying to AMUSE OURSELVES.

     It didn't take long for us to finally start seeing some very INTERESTING OUTFITS.

    We saw YOUNG people with COLORED HAIR and we saw OLDER people with COLORED HAIR.

    We decided to ENTERTAIN ourselves we would look for the most UNUSUAL COLORS of HAIR and UNUSUAL CLOTHING.

    The most COLORFUL HAIR was the DIFFERENT COLORS OF PURPLE in the CROWD.

     The most EXCITING OUTFITS were not only STRANGE COLORS but they were STRANGELY MADE OUTFITS TOO.

    No matter WHERE YOU GO or WHAT YOU DO there will be MANY INTERESTING PEOPLE to ENTERTAIN YOURSELF.

    WHEN I WAS YOUNG everyone DRESSED THE SAME but NOWADAYS there is MORE than ENOUGH DIFFERENCES for EACH OF US to ENJOY WEARING.

     The COLOR OF THEIR HAIR has NOTHING TO DO with WHO THEY ARE it is JUST FUN TO WEAR whatever YOU WANT TO  WEAR because you WANT TO.

Take what is RIGHT.... and IGNORE what is WRONG

     If you have a GOOD TIME then..... MAKE SURE you PLAN TO DO IT AGAIN one day.

     If it caused you PAIN then..... MAKE SURE you NEVER EVER DO IT AGAIN any time at all.

     If you KNOW it MAKES THEM HAPPY then..... you KNOW what you can do to MAKE THEM HAPPY.

    If you KNOW that it MAKES you NERVOUS then..... MAKE SURE that you NEVER EVER DO IT AGAIN.

    If you KNOW that it's ALL RIGHT then DO WHAT IS RIGHT because HAPPINESS is BETTER when you MAKE the RIGHT DECISION. 

     What WORKS FOR YOU just WORKS FOR YOU....no matter if it HELPS ANYONE ELSE OR NOT.

      Just because a ROAD LOOKS WORN OUT may just be A WORN OUT ROAD because it ONLY LEAD TO KNOW WHERE and everyone had to go BACK OVER IT to GET MOVING AGAIN.

     If you WANT TO BE PROUD.... be PROUD OF YOURSELF and DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOURSELF FIRST to be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE.

Is there ANYTHING that you could only WISH you could APOLOGIZE FOR?

      There are many LITTLE THINGS that YOU DID THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE that YOU WOULDN'T HAVE SAID if YOU COULD CHANGE IT but YOU CAN'T.

     You can FEEL the EXTREME INTENSITY when your DECISION that will then MAKE..... WILL AFFECT MORE PEOPLE THAN JUST YOURSELF.

     If YOU SAID YOU WOULD then ... YOU SHOULD ONLY IF YOU CAN because YOU SAID YOU WOULD...but STOP DOING MORE THAN YOU SHOULD just because THEY ASK YOU.

     Sometimes YOU WANT TO..... but the TRUTH IS that YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST.

      When I was YOUNGER I thought that I HAD TO HELP EVERY CHANCE I HAD but the TRUTH IS that if I WANT TO DO MY BEST then I have to TAKE CARE OF MYSELF FIRST.

      You KNOW LIKE THE FLIGHT ATTENDANT SAYS OUT LOUD in the AIRPLANE that YOU HAVE TO PUT YOUR OWN MASK ON FIRST to be ABLE TO HELP ANYONE ELSE.

     BE KIND TO YOURSELF so YOU CAN BE THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE.

What is worst ...a PRETEND INCIDENT or a REAL INCIDENT?

      When you WORRY about WHAT COULD HAPPEN you cause yourself TREMENDOUS PROBLEMS whether it REALLY HAPPENS TO YOU OR NOT.

      The STRESS you PUT YOURSELF THROUGH even if it ISN'T REAL or NOT...  CAUSES SEVERAL PHYSICAL as well as EMOTIONAL problems.

      When you FEEL YOURSELF start FEELING AGGRAVATED you FEEL the EXTREME INTENSITY on EVERY INCH of YOUR BODY.

     You FEEL your ANGER STRESSING EVERY INCH OF YOUR BODY.

     You FEEL SO ANGRY that you can SEE the PAIN START SWELLING DOWN YOUR NECK causing you to LOSE OXYGEN to YOUR BRAIN.

     If you FEEL YOURSELF getting ANGRY over THINGS that MAY NOT EVEN HAPPEN..... YOU NEED TO STOP and WAIT UNTIL SOMETHING HAPPENS before you get SICK.

     If you don't NEED TO WORRY......THEN DON'T.

     

      

      

 

     

You CAN because it HAPPENED to CAUSE IT

      Every Day is a NEW DAY as long as YOU ENJOY THE MOMENT you are in NOT WASTE IT thinking about ANOTHER DAY.

      There MAY BE many ways TO DO IT but the only thing that WORKS for you is what you WILL HAVE TO DO.

     It may SOUND GOOD but that DOESN'T MEAN that it IS SOMETHING for you to do.

     What works for SOMEONE ELSE may NOT WORK for you because IT JUST DOESN'T work for you.

     You may have WANTED IT but..... you GET WHAT YOU GET IN LIFE, that's JUST LIFE.

     What HAPPENS is what is MEANT TO HAPPEN to GET YOU Wear you were MEANT TO BE REGARDLESS of where YOU THOUGHT you COULD BE.

     WHEREVER YOU ARE PLANTED TODAY is WHERE YOU WILL BUILD YOUR FEET DEEP in the GROUND to GROW STRONGLY TO WEATHER OUT the LIFE STORMS.

    LIFE is LIFE and YESTERDAY is already gone and TOMORROW may never come but TODAY IS YOUR'S TO ENJOY while you are LIVING IT.