PAYING ATTENTION means THINKING BEFORE YOU DECIDE

       Of course wherever you go you should ALWAYS RESPECT their RULES so things will remain RESPECTFUL to everyone there.

      But YOU MUST ALSO ALWAYS RESPECT YOUR BOUNDARIES so you will ALWAYS FEEL RESPECTED.

       When you are MAKING PLANS you have to PAY ATTENTION to WHAT IS EXPECTED of you and if YOU DON'T LIKE what is EXPECTED then DON'T GO.

      The only way to BE COMFORTABLE in YOUR OWN SKIN is to BE COMFORTABLE with WHAT YOU DO in the SKIN YOU ARE IN.

      YOUR CHOICES are YOUR CHOICES so BEFORE YOU DECIDE just STOP and THINK about WHAT YOUR ACTIONS will bring.

       Having FUN is FUN as long as what YOU DO FOR FUN won't CAUSE YOUR MIND to SCREAM to REMIND YOU that YOU WILL REGRET IT if YOU DO IT.

      Having FUN is great MEMORIES YOU WILL REMEMBER but there are many things that SOUND FUN but YOU KNOW that YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DO IT.

       So if YOU KNOW THEN DON'T so YOU can at least AVOID WHATEVER TERRIBLE MEMORIES it WOULD HAVE CAUSED YOU.

       Life is FULL OF CHOICES and as long as YOU THINK BEFORE YOU CHOOSE then YOU WILL DO THE BEST YOU COULD POSSIBLY DO. 

       UNFORTUNATELY sometimes we make the WRONG DECISION but OUR MISTAKES are HONEST MISTAKES that WE LEARN FROM with NO REGRETS because we did what WE THOUGHT was BEST FOR US.