If you let it happen then it's guaranteed to happen

If you know it is coming but you don't get out of it's way, then you will definitely hit it head on. If you know that you need to go around the crater and you don't go around it then you know you will definitely fall in that crater. If you know it is not good for you then it should definitely be something you don't do. If you know it will happen and you let it happen then you are definitely making it happen. Choosing to do nothing is still a choice you make. Things happen in life, that is just life. But what you do about what happens to you throughout your life will definitely be the difference between a good outcome or a bad outcome. You can't always choose what you go through but you definitely can choose how you react to what happens to you throughout your life. So stop and think about how you are going to react before you react because once you react you definitely can't take it back.