Trying to JUST FLUSH IT as it keeps pouring in

Okay I usually try to not write about my personal business but I am livid right now about all the damages done by our tenant in a rental property we own. I lowered her rent because she said she had no money to eat on after paying rent. She was a single lady with a child. But my reward for kindness is thousands of dollars worth of damage. Now she expects her deposit back. Are you kidding me! She accepts no responsibility for any damages. Including the damage to cabinets due to water leak she never told us about. We fixed leak once first year she lived there. If she would have told us we would have fixed again. Closet door and shelves missing, medicine cabinet door missing, broken light covers, the list goes on and on. Yet she still thinks she deserves deposit back. I am shocked. Seriously? We could proceed to collect all the damages but are not unless she trys to fight for deposit. Just angers me, shocks me, disappoints me, that this is how our kindness to her is rewarded. We are fixing and selling our rental and would never advise anyone to have rental property. Because this is how they treat your property. Over and over I have to JUST FLUSH IT, as we start repairing the damages. Once the work is done and the house is sold I will be able to JUST FLUSH IT for good. But meanwhile I will not let her clog me up, I will JUST FLUSH IT as the negative thoughts about the situation comes up over and over again. Thank God I learned how to JUST FLUSH IT as it comes. To my tenant I wish you well and I believe this karma will bite you in the end. She cost us thousands of dollars and she doesn't care but I will not let her affect my peace of mind. It is not fair but it is what it is. And life goes on but my landlord days are over for good. I sure hope the house sells quickly. One thing for sure the owners are getting the kitchen newly renovated thanks to the Tennant. Unfortunately you can't get back all the money you put in to renovating.