You can't change it but you can accept it

There is no way to deny the facts of a situation you may be facing. There is no doubt that it may be in fact a bad situation. But  you can accept the facts and realize you are not in control and you can't change the facts. When you accept it then you can make the best of whatever situation you are in. Take everything you have to work with and be creative with what you got. Everything happens for a reason even if we can't see any good reason at all.