Why?

   I am very disappointed to see people do things that they know could hurt OTHERS. Why?

  When you watch the News it is full of tragic stories about people being hurt and even killed for no reason. Why?

 Unfortunately there is no answer if you have been hurt that will take away your pain.

  Somethings in life there just aren't any answers for, not even on Google.

   Remember if you don't have nothing nice to say to someone then just don't say anything at all. Why?

  Because they say WORDS don't hurt but they lied because WORDS do hurt.

   

You could feel the auora

When you walk in a room you immediately feel the supra in the air. Sometimes it feels light and airy but other times it feels dark and stuffy. Your mood is affected by the auora around you. It is also true that the supra you send off affects those around you. Keep that in mind as you go throughout your day. Share your joy with others but keep your anger and negative vibes from spewing on to others. We all have known someone who seems to always have a negative attitude about everything. Don't let them zap your joy. It may require you to avoid them so they don't infect you with their dreary auora.

You can't make it with only half of the recipe

A mis-understanding can create problems that never existed. Life is hard enough without making things harder on yourself. Make sure you understand things by getting all the facts you need. If you can't find facts to back it up then you have to assume that you misunderstood. You may have heard only part of it but to understand it you need to hear it all. It is better to ask and get all the information needed before you react. Its like hearing only half of a recipes ingredients and cooking it. That's not going to taste any good. It's best to get the entire recipe so you can enjoy it.

You could stop and give them hope

As I pulled into the store parking lot I could see a car with the trunk wide open with bags of items filling the parking space behind them. As I got out to go in I saw a spare tire and the tool to change it in the parking space beside it. But no one was around it. As I headed into the store I saw a lady sitting on the curb looking distraught. I knew I physically couldn't help her change it but I did stop to ask her had she called anyone to come help her. Thank goodness she had someone on the way. She had mentioned that they were supposed to move to Michigan that morning to start a new life. I couldn't get the look of sadness on her face and in her voice out of my mind while I shopped. At the checkout counter there was a rainbow of colored lollipops on a display. I felt the urge deep inside to buy her two of them for her long two day journey to hopefully make her smile. I handed her a twenty dollar bill and the two lollipops and told her everything would be OK. As I started to walk away with tears streaming down her face she reached out and hugged me. She told me thank you for the hope. I only wish I had more to give her because to hear her say I gave her hope was a huge gift she gave me.

To whom it may concern....

There is no one you can complain to when something goes wrong. In the old days companies didn't want their reputation ruined because it could ruin their business.  All the little mom and pop stores and even large store chains have been forced to close their doors. Which leaves less competition so they don't care about customer satisfaction because they are the only choice to shop at. If you do want a choice to shop where customers matter then support the small businesses so they can keep their doors open so there is competition to keep customers satisfied.

Get in the habit of doing it

Old habits are hard to break. To change an old habit you have to get in the habit of doing things differently. At first it will take a conscious effort but after a while it becomes a habit that you just subconsciously do. Athletes don't start out at the top of their game. They must practice and practice. A marathon runner has to build up their endurance before they can run 26 miles. Whatever you want in life you will have to work to get it. Doing something once isn't a habit it only becomes a habit of you get in the habit of doing it.

Free time is necessary but too much free time is not good for you

To maintain your over all well being you have to have a little free time to  relax and regroup. But too much free time can allow too much time for idle thinking that can let too many negative thoughts to pop up that can weigh you down. You need to find ways to occupy your free time. Finding hobbies that interest you will help keep you healthy. You probably already know that eating right and exercising is important to your health but don't forget that maintaining your thoughts is just as important for your overall well-being.