Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Facts help you from having regrets

When you realize that your preconceived notion about something was not actually the true facts the fact is you judged without knowing. I wander how often this preconceived notion is based on being led to believe or the lack of seeing any reason to get the facts before we judge and react without thinking it was necessary to get all the facts. The fact is though once you have reacted you can't take it back even after you realize your actions will now be a fact that have consequences that you will now be judged by. Get the facts before you react so you can react to what you know is a fact so you won't regret your judgment.

Monday, January 13, 2014

You can drive to memory lane

We all have memories that are stored away and just the sight of an object can pull them up. As I walked through the Flea Market I stumbled upon the ugliest gaudy lamp like the one that my Aunt had owned. As I walked towards it all these sights of memories of time past spent with her came vividly popping into my mind. Just across the aisle was the Holiday dishes that we grew up eating on. Oh the smile on my face as so many happy memories popped up one after another. Although you might not buy anything at a Flea Market it is still worth the drive to just walk around and take a trip down memory lane.

Friday, January 10, 2014

It can take half a century

It is a shame that you don't recognize what is really important in Life till you are nearly a half century old. It would be a little better if you were guaranteed to live another half a century to enjoy what is really important. But not even tomorrow is guaranteed. But.... You can enjoy every moment of every day you do have enjoying what is really important. The younger you learn it the more time you will get to enjoy it.

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Defense Mode turns into Attack Mode

When we walk around in anger always in Defense Mode we tend to attack with full force at those around us when simply agreeing to disagree is a more fitting response. Even if the circumstances that we face require us to be on guard and we feel attacked perhaps we need to let off a little steam instead of launching an attack with such force doing damage that was simply not necessary. The reality is if you walk around in an Angry Defense Mode just waiting for someone, expecting someone to dare make you feel attacked it won't be long before you will hear it and attack. In an instant you go from Defense Mode to attack Mode.

Monday, January 6, 2014

Always do what feels right

There are times in life when the only thing you can say is "I did what I thought I should do." Even though you worked hard to do what you thought was right in the end there are times when all you may get out of it is tired. Don't let that keep you from always doing what you feel is the right thing to do. Everything that happens in life happens for a reason and if what you do is done for all the right reasons and the right way then in the end whatever happens will be only able to have happened because you did what you felt was right. It may not be what you wanted but it is what you needed.

Friday, January 3, 2014

You are free to choose your own hairstyle

Just because you don't see it doesn't mean that they couldn't have seen it. You may not believe it is possible but that doesn't mean it can't possibly be done. It may not be what you like but others may like it. The way you do something may not be the way others do it. You may like long hair while there are others who like short hair. You may not eat Chinese food but there are thousands of Chinese restaurants. You are who you are and you are free to do whatever you want to just like other people should be free to do whatever they want without being told who they should be.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

"Just Flush It" to enjoy the New Year

A skunks smell is worse than his bite but I still don't want him to have a chance to bite me. It's the same for Humans if they stink up your Life get away from them before where it will lead you will bite you in the butt in the end. Today is a New Year and it can be a New Start to a New Life if you will leave all the crap behind that was holding you back last year. Otherwise it will just be the same old crap just a different year. Make 2014 bring you "Peace of Mind" by making sure that you Flush Away what was clogging you up so "Just Flush It" so "Peace of Mind" will have room to get in. Happy New Year.