You CAN'T HELP THEM they have to WANT TO HELP THEMSELVES

     Have you ever heard the phrase... You can LEAD a horse to WATER but You CAN'T MAKE THEM DRINK the WATER?

     IT'S The SAME for wanting a HUMAN TO DO what you KNOW is Best for them.

     If they DON'T SEE THAT IT'S WHAT THEY SHOULD DO, then THEY WON'T DO IT. 

     It's HARD to WARN someone that you LOVE to SAVE THEM from getting HURT, but THEY DO IT ANYWAY and get HURT.

     BUT....it WOULD BE MUCH HARDER to NOT HAVE WARNED THEM and then THEY GET HURT.

     Keep in mind that even though they may NOT HEED YOUR WARNING......HOW YOU SAY IT to them CAN DECIDE whether they OPEN THEIR EARS TO HEAR IT.

    BUT the TRUTH is that IF THEY DON'T WANT TO SAVE THEMSELVES then NOTHING YOU CAN SAY CAN SAVE THEM.

    You will NEVER REGRET TRYING to SAVE THEM but..... you WILL FOREVER REGRET IT IF YOU DIDN'T TELL THEM to POSSIBLY HAVE SAVED THEM and they GET HURT.