You can't get over it if you keep it fresh on your mind

You are not going to be able to move past what has happened until you accept what has happened and JUST FLUSH IT. Things happen in life , that's just life. You will not always know why it happened or how it could have happened, it just is what it is. Remember the serenity prayer. God grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Like the church sign that inspired me said. "It's ok to sit on your pity-potty every now and again just be sure and FLUSH when you are done." We have all had negative things happen throughout our lifetime, that's just life. Some people know how to JUST FLUSH IT, and others choose to carry it like a sandbag making their life's journey harder. Learn how to JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind as it comes to be able to enjoy life while you are living it.