Where is your built in filter?

You never know what will pop up front and center in your mind. Our minds have an endless stream of thoughts that run through our mind. But not every thought that pops up is a positive one. Which is exactly why it shouldn't fly out of your mouth just as fast. We all have a filter to prevent it from flying out of our mouth. But nowadays they don't seem to use it. Recently a houseguest from the show Big Brother was shown clips of some of the hurtful things that he said and had been  recorded on the live stream. What most people say without thinking isn't recorded to see a clip of how hurtful their words were. Nor do you get to see the impact it has on the person you said them to , like on a TV show. They always say words can't hurt you, but that just isn't true. Unfortunately people that say negative comments to someone doesn't care if it hurts them. A lot of times they don't even remember, yet those they said it to never forget. If a negative thought pops up in your mind JUST FLUSH IT before it hurts you or anyone else. You can't control what pops up in your mind but you are in control of what flys out of your mouth.