Be true to yourself

    You know that you can not please everyone no matter what you do.

    You alone will have to live with the consequences for everything that you do so only do what you think is best for you to do.

   People tell you what they think that you should do but you have to be true to yourself and do what is best for you.

   You won't feel comfortable in the skin you are in unless you are comfortable with what you do in the skin you are in.

   Just because other people are doing it doesn't mean that it is the right thing for you to do.

   What works for someone else may not work for you.

   You can blame it on the moon but you are the only one to blame for everything that you personally do.

   If you keep changing to please OTHERS before you know it you won't even know who you truly are.

  You know what you should do and that is what you should do no matter what anyone else does or tells you to do. 

  Stay true to yourself and do you and let them do them because at the end of the day you want to be the BEST YOU that you can be.

Be open to learning

    You have to be willing to LISTEN if you want to HEAR what they have to say.

    You have to keep an OPEN MIND if you want to SEE something from a different point of view.

    You have to ACCEPT feed back and NOT get angry when they point out what you should have done differently, that is how they TEACH you.

    If you keep telling yourself you know everything you DON'T need to LISTEN to anyone, then you can't LEARN because you will CLOSE your ears and you won't be LISTENING.

    Be HONEST with yourself. 

   You DON'T know everything and you KNOW that you DON'T know everything so why are you walking around like a KNOW IT ALL refusing to LEARN?

    You can't LEARN what you need to unless you are OPEN to LEARNING.

    When you NEED to KNOW, admit that you DON'T KNOW so you can LEARN what you NEED to KNOW.

    KEEP an OPEN MIND on your Life's Journey and LEARN as you go.

Nothing will be different unless...

   If you don't like what you are doing then stop doing it.

   If you don't like where you are then figure out where you want to be and what you will have to do to get there.

   If you want things to be different than do things differently.

  Because we all know that if you keep doing things the same way than nothing will be different. 

  If you know it's time for a change then it doesn't matter what time it is.

  Remember the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

   If you want a fresh start in your life then don't bring the crap that was stinking up your past, JUST FLUSH IT.

  Yesterday is already gone and tomorrow may never come but today is yours to ENJOY.

  If you want things to be different than do things differently.

  If you want PEACE OF MIND you have to take the painful experiences from your past and JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to get in.

  It's up to you to do something differently if you want things to be different.

  

Not until the storm passes will you know

   When a major storm is approaching you make the necessary preparations to be prepared to whether out the Storm.

   During the Hurricane season you have a list of things that you need to purchase to make sure you have the supplies you will need.

  But sometimes Storms come rolling in without warning and you just have to wait out the Storm.

  In our personal life we also go through Seasons and sometimes there are Storms that come rolling in that we aren't prepared for. 

  But remember that Just like the Stormy Weather shall pass so too will the Storms in your personal Life will pass.

   We may not like getting wet when it rains but we know that we need the rain. 

  We may not like change in our personal life but you may see that a change may do you good. 

  

   

Mistakes are stepping stones

   Don't judge yourself or anyone else too harshly when they make a mistake.

  No one is perfect, we all make mistakes from time to time, we are all human.

   Mistakes are simply stepping stones to get you where you want to be.

   You can blame it on the moon if you want to, but you can't learn from your mistakes unless you admit that you made a mistake.

   But a mistake only happens once because if you repeat it then it is a habit that you need to break.

   You learn as you go through life and the lessons that you learn from mistakes are just growing pains.

  Every Life lesson you learn is just part of your Life's Journey.

  Mistakes are just stepping stones that are necessary to stay on track and keep you moving forward. 

  To ENJOY your Life's Journey you have to ENJOY LIFE while you are living it.

  Life is like a rollercoaster and there will be good days and bad days, that's just Life.

  ENJOY the ride!

   

Make up your mind and Just Do It

    Some DECISIONS you can easily make in JUST a split SECOND because there is nothing to THINK about.

    Some DECISIONS you have to THINK about what your actions would bring, to make sure you know what is best for you to do.

   And then there are some DECISIONS you will have to make that you have to JUST STOP and THINK about it Long and Hard before you decide.

   On your Life's Journey you will have to make many DECISIONS and there are consequences for every DECISION that you make.

   Your first DECISION has to be how much time you will need to make the best DECISION for yourself.

   If you like to wear only black clothes then you don't have to THINK about what color shirt you are going to choose.

   If you are choosing what to have for dinner you just need a minute to DECIDE what type of food you are in the mood for.

   But if you are DECIDING what is the best house for you, you need to STOP and THINK about it because you got to live there for quite a while.

  Now more than ever you really need to DECIDE what is best for you not let what anyone else THINKS you should do, DECIDE for you. 

   You know you BEST so obviously you KNOW what is BEST for you.

   If it makes you HAPPY then who cares what anyone else THINKS.

  If you keep changing who you are to please OTHERS before you know it you won't even know who you really are.

  

   

   

It's easy to be on your Best behavior when....

    It's easy to be positive when things are going in a positive direction.

   But how will you react to a negative situation?

   Remember when you are in a negative situation it is easy to be negative.

   But keep in mind that it is how you react to the negative situation that will determine if you will have a positive outcome or a negative outcome.

   It is not the negative situation that determines the outcome but how you react to it that determines the outcome.

  There will be obstacles that you will face on your Life's Journey, that's just Life.

    You will have to learn to go around them to keep moving.

   You may take a wrong turn and end up at a Dead end but you can turn around and go back and take a different direction.

  Things happen in Life both good and bad, that's just Life.

  Remember Anyone can make a mountain out of a mole Hill if they keep adding dirt.

  It's much easier to go around a mole Hill then it is to climb a mountain.