Should have bit your tongue

I wish you had a built in system that could keep your mouth shut not allowing you to "react" to a negative situation until you have had time to think about it. Because your first reaction to something negative is full of anger as you go in defense mode and once you say it out loud or in permanent cyberspace ink you can't take it back. Then you have the consequences of your actions on top of the original dilemma you were having to face. What you were going to have to deal with would have been hard enough if it angered you. But when you go off spewing your anger out then you can obviously see that the problems you created for yourself are far worse then it would have been if you would have just had taken the time to think about what your negative"reaction" would cause.