I owe thanks to those who deceived me

As I sit and ponder to who I owe thanks for who I am today even I am surprised who comes to mind. Among the obvious ones that pop into my mind are those who did me wrong. At first I thought "no way they deceived me." Then I realized what my subconscious already knew. Had they not, I really wouldn't be where and who I am today. Go figure those that hurt you deeply at the time are a big part of how and why you had to dig deep inside you to find what you needed to be the best you can be and for that I agree, I am thankful.