As long as you are HONEST then....

      You could TELL YOURSELF but if it ISN'T TRUE then WERE YOU HONEST with YOURSELF?

     You could DISCOURAGE YOURSELF but that WOULDN'T make it HONESTLY HELPFUL to YOURSELF... WOULD IT?

      If you are HONEST about WHAT YOU HAVE then.... you will HONESTLY KNOW WHAT YOU ACTUALLY HAVE.

     If you are HONEST with EVERYONE then they will LEARN HOW HONEST you HONESTLY are.

     If you PRETEND IT ISN'T HAPPENING when it is HAPPENING then..... you will have to CONTINUE LIVING IT because IT WILL CONTINUALLY KEEP HAPPENING.

     As long as YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF then..... You WILL KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED TO CHANGE.

     DON'T LET ANYONE ELSE TELL YOU WHAT YOU NEED because......

     ONLY YOU HONESTLY KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU TRULY NEED.

     SO.... LISTEN TO YOURSELF AND ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF.