We all have to LEARN HOW TO find the LIGHTER MOMENTS to SHARE

     When someone ASK YOU how you are doing.... you have to DECIDE WHAT YOU want them to know.

     You don't have to give them THE ENTIRE LIST of OBSTACLES that you have had to FACE TODAY.

     They HONESTLY REALLY DON'T need to know nor do they care that you spilled your coffee TODAY.

    They HONESTLY REALLY DON'T need to know nor do they care that your puppy chewed up your favorite shoes TODAY.

   They are REALLY JUST ASKING to be POLITE and START a CONVERSATION with you.

    When they ASK How you are doing TODAY remember to STOP.... and THINK about WHICH MOMENT YOU WANT TO SHARE WITH THEM.

    YOU will have to SCAN WHAT YOU DID TODAY and CHOOSE to FOCUS ON a l LIGHTER MOMENT that you experienced TODAY to SHARE WITH THEM.

     This is what those around you that you love do and have been doing.... They CHOOSE TO only SHARE a LIGHTER MOMENT with you.

    You may THINK YOU KNOW what someone is GOING THROUGH but the TRUTH IS... YOU ONLY KNOW what they CHOSE TO PORTRAIT TO YOU.

   Which is WHY...... you should not judge anyone so harshly for what THEY CHOOSE TO DO because you really have NO IDEA WHY THEY CHOSE TO DO WHAT THEY DID.