Trying to keep things even can lead to buying more than you should.

   When my kids were young they definitely compared the amount of presents each of their siblings got.

   They would also notice what size of boxes the presents were in for each person.

   Although my grandkids don't keep track that way I seem to keep track of the number of packages I get each one of them.

   But the older they get the more expensive the gifts they like cost and although costly they are small in size.

   My grandkids range from under one to thirteen so I definitely can not stress about the sizes, the number of packages or the amount of money spent on each one of them.

   Trying to keep things exactly even isn't possible no matter how much I try so I ACCEPT that I just can't and that is okay.

   It was okay when my kids were little yet I stressed about it and it is okay with my grandkids I just stressed over it unnecessarily.

   If any of you spend time stressing over gifts you buy for OTHERS STOP STRESSING because the reason for the season is to be jolly spending time together.