Would you rather swim alone in shallow water or swim in a big ocean surrounded by sharks?

You may feel lonely when you are swimming alone but it sure beats swimming in a big ocean surrounded by sharks. The more people you know the more issues you will have to deal with. It is easier to plan around a couple of people's schedules then trying to find a time that works for you and a bunch of people. It's not how many people you know but how well you know those you hang around with. I know the old saying is "The more the merrier" but most of the time, less is more. You enjoy each person for different reasons. Each one of them bring out a different side of you. In a group you feel like Sybil as each side of you tries to come out at the same time.