Are you leading or following?

You have a choice whether you are going to lead yourself where you want be or aimlessly follow the wind. A fair weather friend will blow in to enjoy what you have then blow away with the wind when you have nothing left for them to enjoy. It is fun to live life without restrictions but without boundaries to guide you, you will end up lost and alone in Neverland.  The path that is the most worn may not be the best choice. It is worn down because those that went down it realized it was a dead end so they had to turn around and get back on track. The old saying goes "Grow where you are planted." Which means you need to decide where you want to be then get there and plant your feet firmly in the ground.