You can't see if your eyes are closed

As your eyes are opened with a new "point of view" about your old way of thinking you will wander how on Earth you could have even thought of it in that way. With your eyes wide opened your ears will then open up so you can hear all the details that your new "point of view" uncovers. Someone can tell you their "point of view" but unless you can see it for yourself what they say will not be heard. It's true like the old saying says "A picture is worth a thousand words." Once your mind can "see it" then it will give you the open mind necessary to see clearly what your old way of thinking kept you from seeing. First get them to open their eyes to get their ears open so they can hear you.