Once is enough

I'm sure many of you have noticed that when times get tough there may not be anyone there to catch you if you fall. The mess you may be facing may not be due to any fault of your own but you alone will have to deal with it. Don't make things harder on yourself by wasting your time, energy and emotions on convincing others nor yourself that it was not your fault, you already know that. You just need to figure out how to get out of the mess you may be facing because when the going gets tough the tough get going. Always remember....If it happens once shame on them. If it happens twice shame on you.