There is NO magic wand

You can't just wait for what you need. There is no magic wand that you can wave. Knowledge, Awareness and Free Will are powerful tools that are at your disposal but it is up to you to utilize them. There is no magic pill that will take away all of Life's troubles and there will always be issues on your life's journey. As you learn to deal with each issue you will have personal growth. It takes all the triumphs that are a part of life's journey and all the hard work to get you where you need to be and grow up to be the best you can be.