Everyone DESERVES THE TRUTH even though the TRUTH CAN HURT

     You always want to BE TRUTHFUL with everyone even though THE TRUTH can BE PAINFUL.

     You CAN'T TELL THEM that IT SHOULDN'T HURT THEM if WHAT IS HAPPENING is HURTING THEM.

     You CAN TELL THEM that by BEING POSITIVE MEANS that NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS they CAN HAVE a POSITIVE OUTLOOK through their STRUGGLES.

     You CAN'T TELL THEM that someone WILL ALWAYS HELP THEM because THE TRUTH is there is NO GUARANTEE that ANYONE WILL HELP THEM.

      If YOU KNOW that YOU SHOULD WARN THEM then BE HONEST WITH THEM and WARN THEM even though YOUR WARNING may NOT BE what THEY WANT TO HEAR.

     Even though YOU KNOW that THEY WILL DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO, YOU HAVE AN OBLIGATION to at least BE HONEST WITH THEM.

     If YOU DON'T SAY WHAT YOU THINK YOU SHOULD SAY and one day YOU DON'T GET ANOTHER CHANCE TO SAY IT...... YOU WILL REGRET IT.

      Most of the OLDER PEOPLE you will  meet will TELL YOU that what THEY REGRET MOST is THE THINGS THEY DIDN'T DO OR DIDN'T SAY.

      If it is IMPORTANT TO YOU then YOU KNOW that it's IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO DO even though it WOULD BE EASIER if someone else was HELPING YOU.

     The TRUTH CAN HURT but the ONLY WAY for YOU to BE HONEST is by BEING HONEST even WHEN IT HURTS.