Let THEM BE and YOU WILL SEE that FREES YOU TO BE YOU.

     If YOU KEEP TRYING to make THEM CHANGE then it will KEEP YOU EXHAUSTED and YOU WON'T GROW.

     YOU DON'T HAVE TO AGREE with everything THEY CHOOSE.... YOU just have to WORRY ABOUT WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO DO.

     WHAT MATTERS TO YOU is WHAT IS IMPORTANT for YOU so..... FOCUS on WHAT is MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU.

    If to YOU the BEST PART of CHRISTMAS ISN'T WHAT YOU BUY FOR OTHERS but it's ABOUT SPENDING TIME with PEOPLE THAT YOU LOVE then DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY BUYING things YOU CAN'T AFFORD.

      Just SPEND TIME MAKING THEIR FAVORITE FOODS and YOU AND THEM will both ENJOY EATING IT TOGETHER.

      The SILLY PRIZES that YOU end up BUYING for EVERYONE TO CHOOSE if THEY WIN the GAME is just the SILLY STUFF THEY WANTED but were EMBARRASSED TO BUY FOR THEMSELVES.

     And BOY HOW MUCH FUN it is to SEE LOTS OF TASTEFUL TREATS that YOU GET TO CHOOSE if YOU WIN THE GAME.

     It makes the YOUNG ONES AS WELL AS THE OLD ONES..... FIGHT HARD to WIN THE BEST TREAT WAITING FOR ANYONE WHO WINS.

     I KNOW last year I made sure I took a second to ASK THE CRAZY 8 BALL GIFT I had gotten for a GIFT a QUESTION BEFORE THEY TOOK IT HOME 

    And just LIKE WHEN I WAS A KID I COULDN'T WAIT to EXCITEDLY HEAR THE MESSAGE IT GAVE ME and I DIDN'T TELL ANYONE WHAT I ASKED IT.

    MAKE YOUR HOLIDAYS FULL OF FUN AND LET THE LAUGHTERS HUG US ALL.