Instead of DWELLING ON IT you can GROW FROM IT

      No matter how many TIMES YOU THINK about it..... NOTHING will CHANGE WHAT HAS ALREADY HAPPENED.

      But IF IT HAPPENS then you have to ACCEPT IT and LEARN FROM IT then.... JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind and DON'T LET IT stay FRESH ON YOUR MIND.

      If YOU KEEP it FRESH ON YOUR MIND then it will ALWAYS CONTINUE TO WEIGH YOU DOWN and you will CARRY IT LIKE SANDBAGS throughout your LIFE'S JOURNEY.

     Just because it was MEANT TO HAPPEN ONCE to GET YOU where you NEEDED TO BE doesn't mean that it SHOULD CONTINUE HURTING YOU.

     JUST ACCEPT IT and LEARN FROM IT then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so YOU CAN ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT.

      What YOU LEARN may be PAINFUL but YOU have to GROW WHEREVER YOU ARE PLANTED and GROWING PAINS are SOMETIMES PAINFUL.

     WE EACH have just ONE LIFE TO LIVE and WE ALL NEED TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WE CAN while WE ARE LIVING IT.

      

      

      

    

Quietness is NEEDED to be able to THINK CLEARLY

      If YOU SEE A COVER of a book do YOU THINK that YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS ABOUT?

      Well you might SEE that by the TITLE and the PICTURE it LOOKS like it COULD Be about WILDERNESS but....if YOU READ it you will LEARN nothing about the WILDERNESS.

     Things at times SOUND LIKE A GOOD IDEA but the TRUTH is sometimes they are just TRICKING YOU so YOU WILL AGREE WITH IT then YOU FIND OUT TOO LATE that it ISN'T ANYTHING GOOD at all.

     There was a TIME in the GOOD OLD DAYS when YOUR WORD MEANT EVERYTHING but TODAY even WHEN THEY SAY IT they are PURPOSELY DECEIVING YOU because..... THEY CAN.

     TODAY YOU have to BE CAREFUL AND FOCUS ON WHAT YOU NEED to BE COMFORTABLE in MAKING THE RIGHT DECISIONS to GET what YOU NEED.

      TODAY YOU have to BE OPEN TO ACCEPTING that if YOU WANT to do it IT WILL BE HARD but YOUR HARD WORK is NECESSARY to GET EVERYTHING that YOU NEED.

     If YOU want to THINK CLEARLY then STOP FILLING YOUR MIND with USELESS THINGS that ARE THERE just to CONFUSE YOU FROM THINKING CLEARLY.

     FIND A QUIET PLACE to SIT DOWN and FOCUS so YOU CAN THINK CLEARLY and then YOU CAN MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION FOR YOURSELF.

      EVERY DECISION YOU MAKE MATTERS and YOU WILL FACE the CONSEQUENCES for EVERY DECISION THAT YOU MAKE so......STOP and THINK BEFORE YOU DECIDE.

       CHOOSING TO DO NOTHING is ALSO A CHOICE YOU MAKE so.....DO WHAT IS RIGHT ALL THE TIME.

      YOUR DECISION is YOUR DECISION so THINK CLEARLY ABOUT IT and CHOOSE WISELY.

     

     

Be CAREFUL that you AREN'T TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF

     It's HARD to KNOW if YOU ARE NEEDED or.....are YOU BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF because THEY KNOW YOU will SAY YES.

     Because sometimes PEOPLE ASK just because THEY HOPE YOU WILL DO IT so THEY WON'T HAVE TO.

     WE EACH have to DO EVERYTHING WE NEED FOR OURSELVES so that WE ARE DOING GOOD FOR OURSELVES.

     Now if you have EXTRA FOOD then PLEASE SHARE IT with PEOPLE WHO DON'T HAVE ANY..... and DON'T JUST WASTE IT SELFISHLY.

     But DON'T..... GIVE ALL YOUR TIME, ENERGY, AND MONEY TO LAZY PEOPLE so THEY CAN CONTINUALLY BE LAZY.

     If YOU want to SAVE MONEY for YOUR FUTURE you have to WATCH YOUR MONEY AND SAVE IT so YOU WILL HAVE IT LATER when YOU WILL NEED IT.

     Because the TRUTH IS YOU HAVE TO SAVE YOURSELF because NO ONE ELSE WILL BE THERE TO SAVE YOU.

     BEING KIND to EVERYONE YOU MEET takes BEING KIND TO THEM and sometimes a SMILE maybe ALL YOU HAVE TO SHARE WITH THEM. 

      

     

YOUR LAWN REQUIRES WORK and so does YOUR LIFE

     When you go outside to CUT YOUR GRASS you first have to pick up all the limbs and clutter so YOU CAN MOW IT.

    Once you get it MOWED you will ENJOY THE CLEAN CUT GRASS and the GRASS SMELL in the air makes you FEEL GOOD about all YOUR HARD WORK IT TOOK to DO IT.

     Throughout Life If you NOTICE that YOUR LAWN NEEDS WATER then YOU WATER IT as NEEDED.

     If you NOTICE that YOUR LAWN has WAY TOO MANY WEEDS then you have to go buy some CHEMICALS to GET RID OF THE WEEDS. 

    If YOU SEE TOO MANY ANTHILLS you have to go to the store and buy CHEMICALS TO GET RID OF THE ANTS.

     If YOU want to TAKE CARE OF YOUR LAWN then you will have to PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT IT NEEDS and DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to FIX IT.

     It's the SAME in YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.

      Pay ATTENTION to WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE and JUST DO IT. 

     EXCEPT that there are going to be GOOD DAYS and there are going to be BAD DAYS, that's JUST LIFE.

    And REGARDLESS of what STRUGGLES or ACCOMPLISHMENTS you FACE we all ONLY have ONE LIFE TO LIVE and WE HAVE TO ENJOY EVERY DAY WE HAVE TO ENJOY.

      

   

Have you ever NOTICED any MEMORIES at the FLEA MARKET?.

      As I was WATCHING an OLD family type show I SAW MANY THINGS that I had ALSO ENDURED IN MY LIFETIME.

     I also SAW MANY OLD DECORATIONS and FURNITURE that was POPULAR IN THE OLD DAYS.

     My husband SAW a PARTICULAR PLATES from his CHILDHOOD and we began to COLLECT a HUGE COLLECTION that we NOW USE FOR OUR HOLIDAY DINNERS.

     When we WANT TO REMEMBER OUR PAST we go to FLEA MARKETS to SEE WHAT RELATIVES and MEMORIES WE WILL SEE EACH TIME WE GO.

     YOU GOT to GO TO YOUR LOCAL FLEA MARKET and FIND THE MEMORIES and ENJOY THEM FOR A MOMENT.

     NOW DON'T BUY ALL OF IT..... JUST ENJOY IT and LEAVE IT THEIR.

     OR OTHERWISE YOUR HOUSE WOULD JUST BE A STORAGE UNIT instead of a COMFORTABLE COZY PLACE to LIVE COMFORTABLY.

    EYE CANDY is EYE CANDY that you ENJOY FOR A MOMENT then... JUST FLUSH IT.....and KEEP LOOKING for your NEXT EYE CANDY that YOU MIGHT FIND at the FLEA MARKET NEXT.

     

KINDNESS is..... BEING PEACEFUL

      If YOU ARE ANGERED then give yourself TIME TO ACCEPT IT because then you will THINK MORE PEACEFULLY.

     If you are OVERWHELMED give yourself TIME to THINK ABOUT IT so you can FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU can PEACEFULLY DO and ACCEPT WHAT YOU CAN DO.

     If you are CURIOUS about something then LOOK FOR THE HONEST ANSWERS so you will KNOW ALL ABOUT IT so you can make an HONEST DECISION.

     If you want PEOPLE TO ACCEPT YOUR OPINIONS then you will have to ALWAYS ACCEPT THEIR RIGHT TO HAVE THEIR OWN OPINIONS.

     If you want PEACEFUL COMMUNITIES than YOU will have to MAKE SURE EVERYONE in YOUR COMMUNITY WILL ALWAYS BE SAFE.

     If you want to BE KIND you have to DO SOMETHING THAT IS KIND.

     If you want to BE HONEST than make sure that WHAT YOU SAY IS ALWAYS HONEST.

     If you want to MAKE THE WORLD a BETTER PLACE then DO EVERYTHING THAT YOU CAN to MAKE IT A BETTER PLACE.

     The WORLD WON'T GET BETTER on its OWN we ALL must DO OUR PART to SPREAD HUMANITY to REPLACE THE INSANITY we SEE IN SOCIETY.

     

 

Even though you CANT FIX IT you CAN STILL....

     It's HARD to IMAGINE just HOW IT CAN BE FIXED YET..... YOU have to DO YOUR BEST to TRY and FIX IT.

     ONE PERSON CAN NOT DO IT ALL but YOU CAN FIND ENOUGH PEOPLE THAT IT WOULD TAKE who CAN GET TOGETHER TO GET IT DONE CORRECTLY.

     Even though you CAN'T UNDO ALL OF IT you CAN STILL DO WHAT YOU CAN DO to MAKE IT THE BEST THAT YOU CAN POSITIVELY GET IT.

      YOU may NOT be ABLE TO FIX IT ALL but..... YOU DEFINITELY SHOULDN'T MAKE ANYTHING HARDER ON OTHERS EITHER.....EVER.

      In the FAST PACED WORLD we live in we get SO BUSY that WE ARE TOO TIRED to STOP AND SMELL THE ROSES while they are BLOOMING.

      EVERYDAY we ALL NEED to STOP long enough to FEEL THE HAPPINESS of EVERY DAY and STOP to SMELL THE POSITIVITY IN EVERYDAY WE HAVE. 😇

     

     

     

As long as you are HONEST then....

      You could TELL YOURSELF but if it ISN'T TRUE then WERE YOU HONEST with YOURSELF?

     You could DISCOURAGE YOURSELF but that WOULDN'T make it HONESTLY HELPFUL to YOURSELF... WOULD IT?

      If you are HONEST about WHAT YOU HAVE then.... you will HONESTLY KNOW WHAT YOU ACTUALLY HAVE.

     If you are HONEST with EVERYONE then they will LEARN HOW HONEST you HONESTLY are.

     If you PRETEND IT ISN'T HAPPENING when it is HAPPENING then..... you will have to CONTINUE LIVING IT because IT WILL CONTINUALLY KEEP HAPPENING.

     As long as YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF then..... You WILL KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED TO CHANGE.

     DON'T LET ANYONE ELSE TELL YOU WHAT YOU NEED because......

     ONLY YOU HONESTLY KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU TRULY NEED.

     SO.... LISTEN TO YOURSELF AND ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF.

     

Our OPINIONS are DIFFERENT because we are ALL DIFFERENT

      Just because they are a VEGETARIAN doesn't mean that you both WON'T ENJOY EATING LUNCH TOGETHER.

     Just because you CHOOSE NOT TO DRIVE A TRUCK doesn't mean that TRUCKS ARE BAD....it just means that WHATEVER you will CHOOSE TO DRIVE will NOT BE A TRUCK.

    Just because you DON'T LIKE TO GET DRESSED UP DOESN'T MEAN that you WON'T GET DRESSED UP on special OCCASIONS.

     Just because you CHOOSE DIFFERENT THINGS TO DO DOESN'T MEAN that there WON'T BE SOME THINGS that YOU BOTH ENJOY.

   PERHAPS you have FORGOTTEN that WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT and because WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT that is WHY WE CHOOSE OUR OWN THINGS IN LIFE.

     If you WANT PEOPLE TO RESPECT YOUR DECISION then YOU WILL HAVE TO RESPECT that EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO THEIR OWN OPINIONS.

     YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS DON'T ALWAYS AGREE WITH EACH OTHER but LUCKILY YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ACCEPT EACH OTHER'S RIGHT to MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS.

     YOU BE YOU AND.... LET THEM BE THEM..... AND LET'S ALL ENJOY LIVING OUR LIVES HAPPILY BEING OUR OWN SELVES.

     

REALIZING that even though you want it DOESN'T MEAN that THEREFORE YOU GET IT

      As a YOUNG CHILD you BELIEVE EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE... yet one day you REALIZE that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE yet.....NOT EVERYTHING WORKS OUT EXACTLY like you thought.

     As you BECOME A GROWN UP you REALIZE that IT LOOKED EASY yet..... It is ACTUALLY ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE to ACTUALLY GET IT ACCOMPLISHED.

     When you become a MIDDLE-AGED PERSON you KNOW that EVERYTHING that you want will take a lot of HARD WORK to ACTUALLY GET IT.

     By the time you get OLDER you REALIZE that WHAT YOU GOT IS WHAT YOU GOT and you GOT TO TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING THAT YOU HAVE.

    START OFF at a YOUNG AGE to PREPARE FOR EVERYTHING that YOU WILL NEED when you GET OLDER and GET READY to be OLD..... while you are GETTING OLD.

     MAKE A PLAN and STICK TO THE PLAN so YOU CAN BE COMFORTABLE when you NEED TO BE READY FOR BEING A HAPPY OLDER PERSON.

     IT'S UP TO YOU to FIGURE OUT how to BE AS COMFORTABLE AS YOU CAN BE at EVERY AGE YOU ARE.... 

     BUT.....EVERY AGE IS A PREPARATION for WHAT YOUR TOMORROWS WILL BE FOR YOU.

     

     

Is a CARROT healthier for you if it is EATEN RAW OR COOKED?

      HOW you ASK THE QUESTION will DETERMINE WHAT ANSWER you will get.

      Sometimes as you SCROLL THROUGH GOOGLE to FIND AN ANSWER you may have to ASK THE QUESTION DIFFERENTLY to GET THE ANSWER YOU NEED TO KNOW.

     It's HARD TO KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO ASK to get the KIND OF ANSWER that ANSWERS YOUR EXACT QUESTION.

     SOME QUESTIONS take on COMPLEX CERTAINTIES to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS and you might NOT KNOW everything NECESSARY to ASK CORRECTLY.

     EACH OF OUR MINDS AND BODIES are DIFFERENT and HOW OUR MIND AND BODY REACTS will be DETERMINED BY MANY DIFFERENT THINGS.

    AND YES....FRESH CARROTS are HEALTHY EITHER WAY....so JUST EAT HEALTHY CARROTS.

    SOME PEOPLE FEEL GOOD sitting in the SUN yet SOME PEOPLE HATE sitting in the SUN.

    SOME PEOPLE DON'T THINK about EATING HEALTHY yet SOME OF US DO because we WANT TO BE AS HEALTHY AS we POSSIBLY CAN.

    YOU Ask the QUESTIONS that MATTER TO YOU and let THEM ASK whatever QUESTIONS they WANT TO ASK.

    WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT and there are SOME THINGS that we just DO DIFFERENTLY just because we are UNIQUELY DIFFERENT.

     And not EVERY QUESTION YOU MIGHT HAVE can an ANSWER BE FOUND.....NOT EVEN ON GOOGLE.

      Sometimes you just have to DO THE BEST THAT YOU CAN DO and HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT GOOD ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE.

     

     

Sometimes you THINK IT IS up to you but ...

     Have you ever STARTED A PROJECT that you THOUGHT for sure YOU COULD DO IT....yet AFTER TRYING IT you REALIZE THAT YOU CAN'T DO IT ALONE?

     YOU MAY have been the ONE EXPECTED TO START IT but YOU might REALIZE that YOU ARE JUST THE STARTER and THEN you will have to GIVE IT TO the PERSON who is SUPPOSED TO FINISH IT.

     YOU were NECESSARY TO GET THE BALL ROLLING but you DON'T have what IS NECESSARY TO FINISH IT to COMPLETION.

      YOU CAN be GREAT AT WRITING but YOU ARE NOT A GOOD ENTHUSIASTIC ENTREPRENEUR so.... LOOK FOR THE RIGHT SPEAKER to GET IT GOING.

     YOU CAN be GOOD at BEING ARTISTIC but there is A lot more things that NEED DONE besides ONLY ARTISTICALLY.

      BEFORE YOU GET STARTED you have to FIGURE OUT WHAT WILL NEED DONE... Then APPOINT the RIGHT PEOPLE TO GET EACH JOB DONE.

     AND SPREAD THE POSITIVE MESSAGE behind JUST FLUSH IT so people will have ROOM for PEACE OF MIND to GET IN. 

      

 

     

    

I THOUGHT about what people would REMEMBER but....

     Have you ever KNOWN someone that you THOUGHT had a HEART OF GOLD?

     Yet EVENTUALLY you SAW FOR YOURSELF that their KINDNESS was ONLY OCCASIONALLY.

     Have you ever DREAMED that in the end YOUR DREAM would come TRUE?

     Only to one day REALIZE that NOT EVERY DREAM CAN COME TRUE......

     Have you ever ASSUMED that GOODNESS is ALWAYS GUARANTEED?

     ONLY to sometimes REALIZE that you will FACE CHAOS throughout your LIFE'S JOURNEY... that's JUST LIFE.

     DON'T ALWAYS EXPECT that you WON'T have to WORK HARD because everything that you MIGHT WANT may take a lot of HARD WORK to GET IT.

     If it is IMPORTANT TO YOU then you will have to do WHATEVER IT TAKES if you EXPECT TO HAVE  ANY CHANCE TO GET IT.... because if YOU WANT IT then YOU WILL HAVE TO DO THE HARD WORK.

     If you WANT TO BE REMEMBERED as someone WHO IS KIND then YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE KIND so that KINDNESS is the ONLY THING THEY REMEMBER ABOUT YOU.

    YOUR MEMORIES are based on the MEMORIES YOU HAVE MADE with EVERYONE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE. 

    So you MIGHT THINK they REMEMBER YOU when you WERE HAPPY yet.... WHAT WILL THEY REMEMBER ABOUT YOU?

    JUST BE KIND TO EVERYONE YOU MEET because you have NO IDEA what THEY may be facing.