Don't blame the MESSENGER

    Although you have an opinion you have to decide if you should even give your opinion.

   If you don't give them your opinion and things turn out bad you will REGRET not giving them your opinion.

   But you have to carefully decide because sometimes the message your opinion sends may not be what they want to hear.

  At the end of the day you don't want to have any regrets for anything that you DID OR DID NOT SAY 

   I have to remind my friends sometimes that I don't want to regret NOT saying something that may help them. 

   Making sure they see all sides of a decision is the best way to help them make the best decision for themselves.

   Of course there are times when it is simply NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS and you know it is best to not say anything at all.

   Weigh the pros and the cons before you give your opinion because you want to make the best decision.