It may not be what you want but it isn't your choice to make

    You may not have chosen to do it but it doesn't matter because it wasn't your choice to make.

    It may be the opposite of what you would do but it is not your decision to decide.

   You may not like it but they do.

   You may not agree but you don't have to agree with it.

   You may think they are making a mistake but so what, it's up to them to do whatever they want to do.

   Basically it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. 

   You will have to deal with the consequences that their decision brings you, that's just LIFE. 

   It's their and THEIR decision alone to choose, period.

   It may be hard to be happy with their choices but it is their choice to make.

   You do what you want to do and they will do what they want to do. 

  That is called the FREEDOM to do what you want to do.