Have you ever said that you would never do that, but you find yourself doing it?

   There are many things that you said you would never do. Yet under certain circumstances you may have to do it.

  Until you are actually faced with a situation you don't really know how you would react to the situation.

  You can guess what other people should do about something but you really don't know them nor the circumstances they are facing to know how they should react.

  What works for someone else does not mean it works for everyone.

  Don't judge them based on who you think they should be.

  Don't judge what they do based on what you think they should do.

  To be the best they can be they have to do what is best for themselves.

  To be the best they can be they have to do the best they can.

  Don't judge anyone NOR yourself so harshly either. REMEMBER NO ONE is perfect.