I know you have heard the phrase.....
You can't JUDGE a book by its cover. Things are not always what they appear to be.
You shouldn't JUDGE others because you have no idea why they are who they are to understand why they choose to do what they do.
You may think that they are making a mistake and maybe they are. But give people the right to make mistakes.
We need to accept that anyone including ourselves won't always make the right decisions.
Keep in mind that our failures are a necessary step to being successful. It's growing pains.
And if you JUDGE too harshly you can stunt the growth.