All you can do sometimes is watch them sabotage themselves

Have you ever known someone who constanly says they can't do it so therefore they never try. You know they can do it just like others do. It may not be what other's want to do nor do they know how to but because they have to they get up and figure out how to do it. You sabotage any chance of you doing it. In the end you will pay the consequences for not doing it. When your first thought is to say "I can't" stop before you say it out loud and think about that little ant that moved that rubber tree plant. Or think about the little engine who could as he changed I think I can to I know I can. When you know you can do it if you try then you will try for anything you want or need. Your thoughts make up your reality. You can't reach your dreams if you never dream.