Deal with the fruit salad

I have heard people say that you can't compare apples to oranges. Life is not always a "bowl of cherries" and your basket of life that you must live in harmony with is full of all kinds of fruits and nuts. You must compare how important each one is and figure out how to enjoy life dealing with the fruit salad that is your life. If it must remain a part of your life then you must figure out a way to make it work together with all the other parts that must remain in your life instead of ignoring it because that would be like adding one piece of rotten fruit to the mix which will cause the rest of the fruit to go bad.