"New Years Resolution"

Throw out more than trash!
As you clean up the debris after Christmas getting rid of the things you don't need be sure and throw out all the painful experiences from your past so you can relax and enjoy life as you watch the New Year roll in. Make it a resolution to stop letting what has happened in your past stink up your future too! It's a New Year and the New You will be ready to make 2012 bring in some cheer. Happy New Year!

Minimize the damage

There is no way to explain why people do things to hurt other people. But it is even harder to explain why anyone would keep it fresh on their mind so they get hurt by it over and over again. It is not only the words and actions done to you by others that will rock your World it is the damage you will do thinking about it over and over again that will destroy you. Let it go "Just Flush It" out of your mind to minimize the damage.

Peace in America

We must take action now before it's too late. How many more tragedies will it take to see the violence is getting out of control. Kids are not safe in their own yards. Store parking lots are not even safe for adults. Even in your own home the danger is felt. Stress causes high blood pressure, strain on your organs, and brings on heart attacks. It causes your immune system to fail, migraines, and stomach ulcers. Find peace of mind so that you are healthy enough to fight for peace right here in America.

We all should feel it inside

As I listened to Susan Boyle's new song It says everything that we all should feel inside, it is so inspiring. My favorite lines were...."I'm free. I am who I was born to be." Let go of the stress that is weighing you down. Break free from your past and be who were meant to be. Let this Holiday season set you free from your worries filling you with love and joy allowing you to be who you were born to be.

Brighten up their Holiday

I recently learned that Christmas time was the highest rate for suicides. Wow I thought it was a time of year when everyone just oozed with a happy joy. A time when families and friends gather and love, kindness and the aroma of cooking filled the air. If you know someone who feels alienated by his family or doesn't have a family reach out and let them feel the joy that Christmas should bring. Bake them something special and take the time to make their Holiday bright.

Help them stand on their own

This economy has uprooted many families from their homes and sent them aimlessly wandering around searching for employment and a place to lay their head at night. There are no grand illusions of a palace just a place they can call home. If they land in your town please help them so they can stand loud and proud on their own two feet and they will be able to grow where they are planted. You reap what you sow in life and seeds of kindness can go a long way if you will plant them in your town.

Don't celebrate with higher bills

The love and joy of Christmas moves us to be kind to even those who we might otherwise see as unapproachable. The scrooges in life are even touched by the Christmas cheer. Although they still remain grouchy you can still approach them without their angry sneer. Make the most of the season and the benefits will be friendships and bonds that will grow stronger throughout the New Year. Let your heart guide you this holiday season not your credit balances and you will still be celebrating when the New Year rolls in not higher bills.

Don't let it define you

Don't let what has happened in your past keep you from enjoying today.
Don't let what someone has said to you or done to you keep you from being who you want to be today.
Don't let your mistakes define you, they were lessons learned that will help you someday.
Don't let a minor setback stop you from seeing the "big picture" that you will sit back and enjoy someday.
Don't let your mind be so full of bad memories that you have no room for good ones.
Don't let your past stink up your future too,"Just Flush It" out of your mind.

Over and over again

People walk around in anger trying to defend themselves only to destroy themselves in the process. Don't let what someone says or does make you so angry that it consumes you and destroys the very core of who you are from the inside out. It is not only the words and actions done to you that will rock your world but the damage you do thinking about it over and over again, putting yourself through it letting the anger guide your every move over and over again. It is not happening now to you, you are doing it to yourself over and over again. Let it go "Just Flush It" out of your mind.

Stick together like glue

The Family Bond use to be so strong that it was the glue that held it's members sane. It was a lifeline that kept it's members from personally falling too far. It kept each member from feeling like were totally alone in this World. In today's society there is no Family Bond, no Family Loyalty and in some cases there isn't even any Family Connections. There wouldn't be so much insanity in society if we would stick together like glue with our families.

Fear of retaliation

There was a time when people were ashamed of the very thought of doing something wrong to another human being and it kept them from doing it. Nowadays people feel no shame nor pay any consequences for their bad behavior therefore they have no built-in moral code of conduct that they live by. The terrorist attitude by which has kept people silenced for fear of retaliation rules the hearts and minds right here in America not just in the Middle East. We must stand up for what is right now before the bad outnumber the good like in the Middle East.

Your personal opinion

If you asked ten people their opinion on something they would all be different, they will give an answer based on their "point of view." If you change your opinion as they answer one by one you won't know what your opinion is by the time you are done. If you asked them together as a group at the same time their variety of answers would only give you things to consider but you will have to open your eyes to the fact that to every question there are many answers and not one is more important than your personal opinion that you will have after you consider all the facts. Your "point of view" is your opinion that will shape your reality.

Recognize that everybody is different

Respect goes a long way. If you do not respect the rights of others then you will react disrespectfully. If they have no respect for you then they will treat you disrespectfully. If you respect each other then it doesn't matter what your differences are you respect them simply because you recognize that everybody is different. You don't have to like someone or everything they do to respect them. If we all were the same we would have nothing different to talk about.