Get your act together

Getting your act together starts with "getting real" with yourself and the truth will hurt but it will be necessary. Since you alone will have to deal with the consequences for everything you say or do make sure you set standards and live by them no matter what anyone else around you is doing. If you know it's NOT going to help you become a better you then you better NOT do it. If you know it will lead you no where then turn away from it.