You know you are over it when you can laugh about it

When something negative is happening you sure aren't happy about it. While you are dealing with it you are so focused on it that you have tunnel vision. Which makes it nearly impossible to see anything else. After you figure out how you can tackle the problem, you begin to see everything else around you. You get back on track catching up on things that you ignored while you were focusing on what had happened. Once things get back to normal, you can JUST FLUSH IT and sit back and relax again. Although not right away, one day you will be able to look back at what had happened and smile. You will beam with pride on how well you handled what had happened. You will be able to laugh about it. And when you can laugh about it you know you are over it.