The way you look at it determines what you see.

At first glance you choose what to focus on. You won't see everything till you have time to step back and look some more. In a picture this analogy is easy to understand. But it is true also about life situations. You may hear or see a small part of what is going on but without knowing all the facts you form an opinion. You may never get a chance to change your opinion unless you learn the facts and see it from a different perspective. Be open to looking at it differently and you just may go from thinking that it was the worst thing that could have happened to seeing the good that makes it possibly the best thing that could have happened. If you narrow your view you will only see a narrow path.