There's a big difference

There is a big difference between talking about the "problems you had" and talking about the "problems you have." It may seem like only a few letters difference in each phrase but there is a big difference. If you spend all your time and energy complaining about the "problems you have" then you are wasting your energy that you should be using to fix each problem as it comes so that you can relax while you talk about how you fixed the "problems that you had." Don't fill your mind with an overwhelming amount of stuff that needs done, just get up and get 'r done so that you can "Just Flush It" off your list and relax now that you fixed the "problems that you had."