What you are looking for will determine what you will find. How you see things will determine what you will see. If you look with your eyes wide open you will see things clearly and that will clearly be what you see. If your view is too narrow it will determine what you will be able to see. If you don't look for It then you won't find It. What are you looking for? When you find yourself dealing with so many negative issues you can find relief by focusing on finding even the smallest positive aspect. It will distract you while you are looking long enough to ease your stress and take a deep breath.