You could have known them for years yet not know them.

   You may think you know what is best for someone but you don't know everything about them, so you have no idea what is best for them.

  You should learn more about someone not base your opinion solely on what you heard about them.

  You could have gone through the same challenge as someone else yet it affects each of you differently.

  You could be very close to someone for your entire lives yet not know how they feel about everything. 

  You base what you think would be best for them based on WHO YOU THINK THEY ARE or what you heard about them. But who they REALLY ARE is why you have no idea what is best for them.

  Don't let anyone decide what you will do because you and you alone will have to live with the consequences for everything you do.

   

   

Be yourself so you don't lose yourself.

   If you keep changing to please others before you know it you won't know who you really are.

   Just because other people are doing it doesn't make it right.

  If you wouldn't want it to happen to you then don't let it happen to anyone else.

   Your decisions should be made by only you because you alone will have to pay the consequences for what you do.

  If it doesn't feel like the right thing to do, then heed the warning and don't do it.

  You won't be comfortable in the skin you are in unless you are comfortable with what you do in the skin you are in.

  Do the right thing because it is the right thing to do. 

  

We don't all learn things the same way

 As I am scrolling through the endless internet to gather information I can get even more confused by all the different angles that I see.

  I can start off thinking I only need a certain fact to form an opinion.

  But then I end up more confused as I start going down all the different rabbit holes reading to gather information.

  The answer you get depends on which answer you believe. 

  It may seem like there is only one obvious answer but obviously it depends on who you ask.

  Ten people could see the same thing and see ten different things.

  Ten people could hear the same thing yet interpret what they heard differently.

  And each one of them can be right.

  What you see is what you see. It is your point of view.

  What they see is what they see. It is their point of view.

  It is a true fact that their point of view is based on what they see. If you don't see it that way then your point of view will in fact be different.

  The answer could be right in front of your face but you don't see it because you aren't looking for it. 

  If you don't like what you see then look at it from a different point of view.

  

How you look at it determines how you feel about it.

   Only if you look for a way for you to have a positive outcome, will you find a way to have a positive outcome.

   Only if you see that your glass is half full will you appreciate that your glass is half full.

   Only if you admit that you made a mistake can you learn from your mistakes.

   Only if you get up and get started will you accomplish anything.

   What you see is determined by how you look at it.

   How you feel about it is determined by what you see.

   You can't have a positive outcome if you don't have a positive outlook. And you can only have a positive outlook if you look for the positive until you see it.

  Look at it differently so you can see it differently. 

   Your point of view is based on HOW you choose to look at it.

  

Why would you Carry it on your journey?

   When you start your day each morning there will be a stream of thoughts that come flooding in.

   Write a list on paper. Because if you keep them on a MENTAL LIST you won't have ROOM in your MIND for new ideas to flourish.

  As you read your list keep in mind that if it is something that you have NO control over, then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

  If it doesn't really matter, then JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

   If it is something you can quickly resolve then JUST DO IT, so you can cross it off your list and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind. 

  When you feel overwhelmed then TAKE A BREAK before you have a BREAKDOWN.

  If it is weighing HEAVY ON YOUR MIND then it is weighing you down. 

  Remember if you want to have PEACE OF MIND you have to JUST FLUSH IT OUT OF YOUR MIND SO PEACE OF MIND HAS ROOM TO GET IN.

  Our minds have an ENDLESS stream of thoughts which requires you to JUST FLUSH IT as it comes.

 You can't stop it from popping up again but you can JUST FLUSH IT when it pops up again.

  PEACE OF MIND is just a FLUSH away but you have to JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND has ROOM to get in.

  

A fact is not a fact if it is just a thought.

   Just because you think it is true doesn't mean it's a FACT, it's just a random thought.

  Just because someone tells you it is true doesn't mean that it is true, the FACT is it's just their opinion.

  Just because you did everything that you thought was necessary doesn't mean that you are guaranteed anything.

  The FACT is that no matter what you think it doesn't make it a FACT.

  A thought is merely an UNEDUCATED GUESS, PERIOD.

  Someone else's opinion is merely their opinion NOT A FACT.

  If it is IMPORTANT to you then it is IMPORTANT that you get all the FACTS.

  It is what it is not whatever you think it is. To make the best decision for yourself you have to get all the FACTS.

  

You can't focus on "THE BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME"

   Dreaming about "THE BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME" is different than Only FOCUSING on the "BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME."

  If you don't FOCUS on practicing what you need to do to have a GOOD OUTCOME, you won't get good ENOUGH at it to be able to even do it GOOD AT ALL.

  It may sound easy to do but until you try it, you won't know just how much work it will take to do it.

  Just FOCUS on how to do it so that you can practice doing it until you get good at doing it. 

  The only way to be "THE BEST" is to FOCUS on what you do so you can do YOUR BEST.

  You won't know until you try if it is even possible.

   But one thing is for sure. If you don't FOCUS and practice and do the best you can, it definitely WON'T bring you the "BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME."