Did you just ASK me if I was HOT?

     I don't care WHERE YOU LIVE.....it is EXTREMELY HOT TODAY!

     Every SEASON IS FELT but TODAY, ACTUALLY FOR A WEEK, it's BREAKING RECORDS for BEING HOT!

     We were dealing with some MINOR ISSUES with our AIR CONDITIONER that we were LUCKILY AND THANKFULLY ABLE to FIX IT. 

     Could you IMAGINE having your AIR CONDITIONER STOP WORKING in the MIDDLE OF THESE HEAT WARNINGS?

     We have DECIDED to MAKE SURE we ALWAYS GET A YEARLY CLEANING ON OUR AIR CONDITIONER.

     SO that way WE will ALWAYS have an AIR CONDITIONER that is at least READY as it CAN BE for THE SUMMER HEAT WAVES.

     If you DON'T NEED TO GO OUT.... THEN DON'T..... because it TRULY IS TOO HOT TO BE OUT IN.

     And to the person that just ASKED ME if I was HOT.....YES I AM. 

The ONLY DIFFERENCE may just be......

      You have to THINK ABOUT whether it is something you SHOULD DO.... BEFORE YOU DO IT.

     Otherwise you just might REGRET DOING IT because..... ONCE YOU DO IT....then it IS Already DONE.

     Have you ever REMEMBERED SAYING to YOURSELF that you SHOULDN'T DO IT then..... you STUPIDLY DO IT?

     Your BUILT-IN WARNING SYSTEM is trying to WARN YOU NOT TO DO IT....but there are sometimes when you DON'T LISTEN TO THE WARNING.

     If you ONLY NEED A HALF of IT then DON'T FORCE YOURSELF to OVERDUE YOURSELF by WASTING YOUR TIME UNNECESSARILY WORKING HARDER than you ACTUALLY SHOULD.

     BEING HAPPY takes BEING HAPPY HAVING WHAT YOU NEED and having the TIME TO ENJOY IT.

     There WILL ALWAYS BE NEWER AND BRIGHTER THINGS but if YOU HAVE TO SPEND ALL YOUR TIME EARNING THE MONEY TO PAY FOR IT then....

     You ARE TOO TIRED TO ENJOY ANYTHING THAT YOU HAVE because YOU ARE NEVER HOME TO RELAX AND ENJOY IT AT ALL.

     The SIMPLE LIFE is ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT THAT YOU CAN WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE TO ENJOY ALL THE SIMPLE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE.

Would you DO IT AGAIN TODAY?

      When you are YOUNG you JUST DO IT without taking a SECOND to THINK about WHY YOU SHOULDN'T DO IT.

      When you are YOUNG you LOOK for EXCITING THINGS TO DO without even THINKING about the POSSIBLE DANGERS it COULD cause you.

     Now that I am OLDER I CERTAINLY KNOW that there are MANY THINGS that I DID when I was YOUNGER that I DEFINITELY WOULDN'T DO IT TODAY.

      As I was THINKING about some of the SILLY THINGS that I DID BACK THEN I ASK MYSELF..... WOULD you DO THAT TODAY?

     When I SEE the YOUNGER ONES around ME getting ready to DO SOMETHING that I THINK THEY SHOULDN'T....I CAN'T HELP MYSELF from TELLING them WHY THEY SHOULDN'T DO IT.

      I KNOW I SHOULD JUST LET THEM HAVE FUN while they are YOUNG and THEY TOTALLY IGNORE MY ADVICE and DO IT ANYWAY but HONESTLY I JUST HAVE to at least WARN THEM. 

     When my body hurts I remember just WHEN I HURT myself when I was YOUNGER.

     And YES I was TOLD by some ELDERLY RELATIVES NOT TO DO IT ...but I DID IT and well.... that is WHY MY BODY HURTS STILL TODAY because I DIDN'T LISTEN.

      Now I am that ELDERLY PERSON JUST TRYING to SAVE the YOUNGER ONES from DOING STUFF they DEFINITELY WOULDN'T DO IF THEY WERE ASKED THAT QUESTION WHEN THEY ARE OLDER.

      

     

Just DECIDE WHAT is NECESSARY FIRST then....

    Making a LIST TOO LONG TO DO is ONLY SETTING YOURSELF UP for FAILURE because NO ONE COULD GET ALL of that amount of things done in a SINGLE DAY.

    START by writing what is MOST IMPORTANT FIRST at the TOP of WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IMMEDIATELY LIST.

    THEN JUST SCRIBBLE ALL YOU WANT as many things YOU HOPE YOU WILL EVENTUALLY GET DONE ON YOUR.... A MAYBE ONE DAY YOU WILL LIST.

     DOING YOUR MOST IMPORTANT things FIRST IN THE MORNING will give you the OTHER 80% of YOUR DAY TO DO or.... DON'T DO ANY of YOUR MAYBE LIST.

     At the end of the day Whatever you DON'T GET DONE you can EITHER....  JUST FLUSH IT because you REALIZE IT ISN'T IMPORTANT or....

    YOU CAN THEN MAKE IT ONE OF YOUR NEEDS DONE IMMEDIATELY LIST NEXT TIME or....

     YOU can make it a GET IT DONE EVENTUALLY MAYBE LIST.

     But ALL DAY LONG YOU WILL BE THANKFUL that YOU DID EVERYTHING YOU NEEDED DONE FIRST THING THIS MORNING.

     And AT THE END OF THE DAY as long as YOU DID WHAT WAS MOST IMPORTANT..... YOU WILL BE PROUD OF YOURSELF no matter how many things are still on your MAYBE LIST.

     

Their OPINION is DIFFERENT.....and YOUR OPINION is DIFFERENT....then be okay that we THINK DIFFERENTLY

      You can EACH SEE THE SAME THING yet EACH OF YOU CAN SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.

      That DOESN'T MEAN that THEY DIDN'T SEE IT ...It just MEANS THAT YOU DIDN'T SEE what THEY SAW. 

      YOUR OPINION is based on WHAT YOU SEE and THEIR OPINION is based on WHAT THEY SEE.

     They may LOOK GOOD IN BLUE yet they DON'T LIKE THE COLOR BLUE.

      Now if they were MY FRIEND I would on a HOLIDAY BUY THEM A COOL BLUE SHIRT and HOPE THEY MIGHT TRY WEARING IT....and ACCEPT IT IF THEY WON'T.

     Some of my BEST FRIENDS were TOTALLY DIFFERENT then me but I sure LOVE HANGING OUT WITH THEM. 

     Many COUPLES MEET UP with PEOPLE who are TOTALLY DIFFERENT THAN THEM and they ENJOY LIFE TOGETHER BEAUTIFULLY.

       Many WORKING GROUPS are GROUPS who are DIFFERENT because it TAKES A TEAM to DO IT.

      OUR UNIQUENESS is what MAKES US EACH UNIQUELY COOL.😎

      DON'T FORGET TO BE YOURSELF and LET THEM BE FREE to BE THEMSELVES and LET EVERYONE ENJOY BEING FREE.

     

      

     

It's best if you ACCEPT IT because IT IS WHAT IT IS...

     It's HARD TO FORGIVE someone when you REFUSE TO BELIEVE THAT they ACTUALLY COULD HAVE DONE IT.

     Even though you DIDN'T EXPECT IT..... that doesn't change the FACT THAT THEY DID IT.

     When you MEET someone NEW you DON'T KNOW EXACTLY WHO they TRULY ARE.... but..... EVENTUALLY they will SHOW YOU WHO they TRULY ARE.

     A GOOD WEATHER FRIEND is only there to ENJOY THAT MOMENT then..... They RUN AWAY to FIND A NEW ADVENTURE with the NEXT FRIEND they MEET.

     An OLD FRIEND is HARD TO FIND but once you HAVE A GOOD FRIEND YOU NEED TO BE THANKFUL that you have a GOOD FRIEND.

     When you are YOUNGER you have TIME to MEET GOOD FRIENDS but when you get OLDER you will DEFINITELY TREASURE YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MORE THAN EVER.

     DON'T let a FAIR WEATHER FRIEND come between YOU AND YOUR LIFETIME FRIENDS AND FAMILY.... Because it WON'T BE LONG before that FAIR WEATHER FRIEND Gets BORED AND MOVES ON.

     

Your MIND SET will make you WHO YOU ARE

     If you only LOOK for WHAT WENT WRONG then you will probably MISS OUT on WHAT WENT RIGHT TODAY.

     Your OBSERVATIONS will be WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS TRUE..... rather it is EVEN TRUE AT ALL.

    If in YOUR MIND it IS WHAT YOU THINK IT IS then you REALIZE JUST HOW IMPORTANT YOUR WAY OF THINKING really DECIDES YOUR REALITY.

    At the BEGINNING OF EACH DAY you NEED to PLAN on WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO ACCOMLISHING TODAY.

      Because YOU NEED TO THINK POSITIVELY so you can HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE EVERY DAY.

     HOW YOU LOOK at it is WHAT YOU WILL SEE so.....THINK about EVERYTHING THAT IS POSITIVE THAT YOU CAN SEE.

    LIFE is full of LIFE that YOU CAN ENJOY..... It's just UP TO YOU TO SEE EVERYTHING AND ENJOY IT.🍄

     

     

     

     

BIGGER THINGS can bring on BIGGER PROBLEMS

      They might have a BIGGER HOUSE but that means they will also have MORE PROBLEMS throughout time than a SMALL HOUSE will eventually have.

     And they will also have a lot MORE HOUSE they will have TO CLEAN too.

      They might drive a EXPENSIVE CAR but they will also pay HIGHER INSURANCE for that EXPENSIVE CAR.

     They might be USED TO BUYING WHATEVER they want but they know DEEP DOWN that MONEY ALONE will not BUY THEM HAPPINESS.

      Your FRIENDS when you are BROKE are there because you are FRIENDS but a RICH PERSON has to WANDER if their FRIENDS are ONLY THERE because they are RICH.

     When you are RICH and FAMOUS you have PAPARAZZI waiting to TAKE YOUR PICTURE so you CAN'T GO ANYWHERE unless you are DRESSED UP FOR PICTURES on a magazine.

     When you are POOR you can go out COMFORTABLY ANYTIME because NO ONE CARES what you are WEARING.

     So BEING POOR has its ADVANTAGES as well as it's DISADVANTAGES just like BEING RICH also has some DISADVANTAGES as well as it's ADVANTAGES.

      EVERY LIFE whether you are RICH OR POOR has some GOOD DAYS and some BAD DAYS, that's JUST PART OF LIFE.🍄

How many TIMES have you had to say.... I wish I COULD but TODAY I am just NOT ABLE TO?

      When you have to WORK you really DON'T have enough ENERGY nor TIME to be able to do everything but you CAN ENJOY what YOU CAN DO.

      When you are FEELING not so HEALTHY you DO ONLY what you ABSOLUTELY NEED so you can REST and GET BETTER.

      When you are YOUNG and you are BROKE you have to THINK before you SPEND YOUR MONEY because you NEED YOUR MONEY.

      When you LIVE FAR AWAY from your FAMILY and your FRIENDS it makes it HARD TO BE ABLE TO PHYSICALLY SEE them.

     You may NOT ALWAYS be able to DO IT just because AT ANY TIME there can be MANY REASONS WHY YOU JUST CAN'T DO IT.

     If you CAN then WHILE YOU CAN then YOU SHOULD..... because before you know it ONE DAY it  might NOT BE ABLE FOR YOU TO GET IT DONE.

      Which is WHY you CAN'T put EVERYTHING on your BUCKET LIST because CERTAIN THINGS have that just NEEDS TO BE DONE WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG.

      And REMEMBER that what you THINK WILL HAPPEN may NOT EVER HAPPEN so ENJOY YOUR LIFE while you are LIVING IT.

      We NEVER KNOW exactly WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN LIFE but we CAN ALWAYS ENJOY DOING THE BEST WE CAN with WHAT WE DO HAVE.

      We ONLY have the TIME WE HAVE so ENJOY EVERY MINUTE OF THE TIME YOU HAVE.🍄

      

    

     

If it DOESN'T WORK then...

      If it is something that CAN BE FIXED then do whatever you have to do and JUST FIX IT.

      But if it is TOTALLY BROKEN then you should ACCEPT that It is BROKEN and THROW IT AWAY because it is BROKEN.

     Whether it is something PHYSICALLY or something EMOTIONALLY....If it is HURTFUL TO YOU then STOP and IMMEDIATELY GET RID OF IT.

     If it is SOMEONE or SOMETHING CAUSING YOU  CHAOS and STRESS then GET AWAY FROM IT so it CAN'T KEEP STRESSING YOU OUT ANYMORE.

     If you have TRIED MANY TIMES to FIX IT yet it still DOESN'T WORK then you can STOP TRYING and at least YOU CAN SAY that YOU TRIED IT but YOU JUST CAN'T DO IT.

     You may NOT ALWAYS REACH your PLAN in LIFE but as long as YOU DO THE BEST that YOU COULD... YOU WILL ALWAYS BE PROUD OF YOURSELF.

      REMEMBER that even OUR MISTAKES are PART OF OUR PLAN to MAKE US WHO WE ARE... we just  DIDN'T KNOW that IT WAS A PART OF OUR PLAN.

      

     

 

Being OLDER you realize.....

     When you are YOUNG you don't EXPLORE being AWARE of anything NEGATIVE about TRYING NEW THINGS.

     When you get a DESIRE to go BE ADVENTUROUS you don't THINK about how CONDITIONALLY DANGEROUS it could POSSIBLY BE.

     When you are OLDER you REMEMBER a few moments throughout your life that you had HEARD of NEGATIVE INCIDENTS HAPPENING to people.

      Trying to say well out of the MILLIONS of TIMES people TRIED it something BAD did HAPPEN so THEREFORE you SHOULDN'T do it... sounds stupid.

     But when you get OLDER because you are OLDER.....YOU at least take a MOMENT to EXPRESS the POSSIBILITY so at least YOU TOLD them that it COULD POSSIBLY BE DANGEROUS.

     Then QUIETLY YOU REMEMBER some of the CRAZY THINGS YOU DID when YOU WERE YOUNG that YOU LUCKILY SURVIVED.

      EVERY STAGE OF LIFE is LIVED ONE STAGE AT A TIME and WHAT YOU WOULD HAVE DONE if YOU WERE YOUNG is TOTALLY DIFFERENT from WHAT YOU WILL CHOOSE TO DO WHEN YOU ARE OLDER.

      

To KNOW what you have takes LOOKING at what you HAVE

      Just because you THINK it WILL....DOES NOT mean it WILL HAPPEN just because you THOUGHT it WOULD.

      The SOONER you ACCEPT that not everything TURNS OUT like you THOUGHT it WOULD..... the SOONER you will ACCEPT THINGS as they TRULY ARE.

     To GROW where you ARE takes being HONEST about what you ACTUALLY HAVE so YOU CAN GROW WHERE and HOW YOU CAN with WHAT YOU ACTUALLY DO HAVE.

     PRETENDING you have MORE than you ACTUALLY have will NOT GIVE YOU what you WILL NEED to have WHAT YOU NEED.

     BEFORE YOU GET STARTED you have to at first STOP long enough to SEE WHERE YOU ARE and WHAT YOU HAVE TO WORK WITH so YOU CAN MAKE A PLAN OF ACTION.

     If YOU ARE NOT HONEST WITH YOURSELF.... YOU WILL REGRET IT.... eventually so.... STOP and be HONEST WITH YOURSELF.

      To KNOW WHAT YOU NEED.... you just got to LOOK FOR WHAT YOU HAVE so you KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO GET TO DO IT.

      If you Need to do it then.... figure out HOW to do it and then you can Just do it.

     

     

WHAT will you keep FRESH on your mind?

      If you WANT to FORGET ABOUT IT then.... STOP KEEPING IT FRESH on your mind so you CAN FORGET ABOUT IT.

     If you WANT to ALWAYS REMEMBER IT then.... you MUST ALWAYS REMIND YOURSELF about it so YOU CAN ALWAYS REMEMBER IT.

     Your THOUGHTS that you KEEP FRESH ON YOUR MIND are the REALITY that YOU WILL LIVE IN.

    WHO you CHOOSE to HANG AROUND WITH has a lot to DO WITH WHO YOU BECOME.

     If you WANT to SURROUND YOURSELF with people WHO ARE POSITIVE PEOPLE you will STAY IN A POSITIVE MOOD.

     If you CHOOSE to HANG AROUND with people WHO ARE NEGATIVE you WILL REMAIN IN A NEGATIVE MOOD.

     If you were going through something NEGATIVE WHO SHOULD YOU CHOOSE TO HANG OUT WITH?

    WOULD THEY HELP YOU stay in a NEGATIVE ATTITUDE or WOULD THEY HELP YOU find something POSITIVE ATTITUDE ABOUT IT?

     YOUR CHOICE of WHO YOU CHOOSE TO HANG AROUND will DETERMINE whether you will END UP SATISFIED at the end or ANGRY at HOW things TURNED OUT in the end.

     It's NOT just WHAT YOU HAVE TO FACE that DETERMINES YOUR OUTCOME but HOW YOU REACT TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO FACE is what will DETERMINE YOUR OUTCOME.

     LIFE is full of TWISTS AND TURNS as well as UPS AND DOWNS but that's JUST LIFE and..... HOW YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE It is purely UP TO YOU.

      Which is WHY you need to CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY.... even if it means in the end that you just DON'T HAVE MANY FRIENDS because a TRUE POSITIVE FRIEND is HARD TO FIND.