MAKE A DECISION then ... STICK TO IT

      If you want them to KNOW THAT YOU MEAN IT then.... DON'T SAY IT UNLESS YOU MEAN IT.

     If you KNOW that CERTAIN FOODS UPSET YOUR STOMACH then..... DON'T EAT IT or you will have an UPSET STOMACH.

     If you KNOW that YOU SHOULDN'T then.... Make sure YOU DON'T DO IT.

     REMEMBER that just because OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING IT definitely DOESN'T MEAN that it is the RIGHT THING FOR YOU TO DO.

      YOUR Life is based on what YOU DO not based on what OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING.

      If THINGS NEED TO CHANGE then ...DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY so THINGS CAN CHANGE.

     If it is SOMETHING that YOU ARE AGAINST then.... MAKE SURE that NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS YOU WILL NEVER DO IT.

     YOUR LIFE is FULL OF CHOICES and EVERY CHOICE YOU MAKE MATTERS.

ASK YOURSELF and BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF

     You may have a LOT OF LOVE IN YOUR HEART but ASK YOURSELF if anyone else FEELS YOUR LOVE.

     You may KNOW THE RIGHT ANSWER but it WON'T HELP ANYONE if you NEVER TELL THEM THE ANSWER AT ALL.

    You may KNOW but....  WILL YOU ADMIT THAT YOU KNOW IT?

    If you KNOW THAT YOU SHOULDN'T then make sure that YOU DON'T or you will DEFINITELY REGRET DOING IT.

    THROUGHOUT LIFE you can LIE TO OTHERS during certain circumstances but if YOU EVER LIE TO YOURSELF then YOU DEFINITELY WILL HAVE MAJOR PROBLEMS.

    If you want to KNOW then ASK YOURSELF and NO MATTER WHAT THE ANSWER IS JUST BE HONEST so EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT.

   HONESTY is the ONLY WAY to ALWAYS STAY HONEST.

Trying to SHARE can be SHAMEFULLY IGNORED

      You may want to SHARE some GOOD ADVICE but UNFORTUNATELY that DOESN'T MEAN it WILL BE HEARD.

     You want to PREVENT them from FUMBLING but UNFORTUNATELY they may still FUMBLE AS THEY FALL.

     You want to SAVE them from FRUSTRATION but they can be TOTALLY FRUSTRATED as they STRUGGLE THROUGH IT.

     Sometimes the STRUGGLES they FACE may be PART OF THEIR GROWING PAINS to be the BEST PERSON they can be.

     UNFORTUNATELY LIFE IS A ROLLERCOASTER of EVENTS and sometimes those EXPERIENCES CAN BE PAINFUL yet TOTALLY NECESSARY to LEARN AS YOU GO.

     

     

You can SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES but that DOESN'T MEAN anyone will truly hear

      I REMEMBER when I was a YOUNG CHILD I saw them WARNING ME but I was NOT REALLY LISTENING to them.

    When you are YOUNG you have NO FEAR you just have TOTAL EXCITEMENT about everything that LIFE HAS TO OFFER.

    When I would FUMBLE on a RECENT ADVENTURE I would just LOOK FOR A NEW ADVENTURE that I can ENJOY DOING.

    BUT..... when you are OLDER and you want to SAVE SOMEONE YOU LOVE from FUMBLES you SEE THAT JUST LIKE YOURSELF at a YOUNG AGE.... they just DON'T LISTEN.

      You CANT PREVENT them from FUMBLING but you SURE CAN be there to HOLD THEM after they FUMBLE THROUGH THEIR LIVES.

     They DON'T WANT TO HEAR I told you NOT TO DO IT they just want you to HUG THEM and TELL THEM EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.

You are UNIQUE and everything that YOU Do is because YOU LIKE IT.....

      How things WORK for OTHERS has NOTHING TO DO with HOW IT will WORK for YOU.

      Because what WORKS for SOMEONE ELSE just MAY NOT WORK for YOU because we are ALL UNIQUELY DIFFERENT.

      What is IMPORTANT TO YOU may NOT be what is IMPORTANT TO THEM because we are all UNIQUE.

     Some PEOPLE like SPICY FOOD yet YOU PERSONALLY can HATE SPICY FOOD but still ENJOY going out to dinner together.

    I had been AVOIDING SWEETS but everywhere I went they SOLD SWEETS..... I JUST had to LEARN TO QUIT ORDERING anything SWEET.

     If it is IMPORTANT TO YOU.....THEN..... THAT IS WHAT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO DO.

    

Getting HAPPY means BEING HAPPY with YOURSELF

      You don't have to be a ROCK STAR to ENJOY SINGING....so SING and you will be able to ENJOY SINGING.

     You may not be a FAMOUS ARTIST but you sure are GOOD at MAKING things that are ARTFUL THINGS.

      Even though you may not be the WINNER.... you can still be PROUD of everything that you have done.

      If you SPEND every MOMENT you can ENJOYING every MOMENT that you can then you will be as HAPPY as YOU CAN BE.

      Your NEW DINNER may not LOOK like it does on the picture but you can be THANKFUL for COOKING an awesome TASTING DINNER BY YOURSELF.

      You may NOT DO IT EXACTLY as you had HOPED.... but you can sure BE PROUD of EVERYTHING that it took for you to DO IT.

      SELF ESTEEM is made by BEING PROUD OF YOURSELF.

Don't just Wait for it just ENJOY IT whenever you can ENJOY IT

     WE must be HONEST that Not EVERYTHING that WE WISH for ACTUALLY HAPPENS.

     But WE can STILL ENJOY EVERYTHING that DOES HAPPEN TO US.

     Not EVERYTHING that WE EARNED will WE GET TO ENJOY EVEN AFTER EARNING IT.

     But WE can STILL ENJOY the HARD WORK that WE PERSONALLY EARNED no matter WHAT HAPPENS.

     Not EVERYTHING that WE DO WILL ALWAYS BE NOTICED but that DOESN'T CHANGE WHAT WE HAVE DONE.

     As long as WE DO YOUR BEST then WE can HONESTLY SAY that WE DID THE BEST that WE COULD DO.

    And that is an AWESOME FEELING REGARDLESS of HOW THINGS ACTUALLY TURN OUT at the end of the day.

CHOOSE which THOUGHT will BRING YOU the BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME

      How YOU LOOK AT SOMETHING will DETERMINE WHAT YOU WILL THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

     If you LOOK for the NEGATIVE SIDE then you will SEE the NEGATIVE SIDE.

     If you LOOK for the POSITIVE SIDE then you will SEE the POSITIVE SIDES.

     Things may not always be EXACTLY like YOU HAD PLANNED but as long as you SEE the POSITIVE SIDES then you will be POSITIVE.

     If a NEGATIVE THOUGHT tries to GRAB YOUR ATTENTION.... make sure you JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.... so you can wait for the NEXT POSITIVE THOUGHT that comes along to THINK ABOUT.

     OUR MINDS have an ENDLESS STREAM of THOUGHTS that try to GRAB OUR ATTENTION but it is UP TO US TO CHOOSE THE POSITIVE ONES to THINK ABOUT.

    YOUR THOUGHTS are the REALITY that YOU WILL LIVE IN.... So CHOOSE WISELY.

JUST ACCEPT IT so you can MOVE FORWARD

      If you SPEND YEARS WORRYING then you will have WASTED YEARS of your time WORRYING ABOUT NOTHING at all.

     But IF IT DOES HAPPEN then you have to ACCEPT IT so you can FORGET ABOUT IT and GET MOVING AGAIN.

     What happened YESTERDAY has ALREADY HAPPENED and what is DONE IS DONE.

     And SINCE TOMORROW may NEVER COME TODAY is YOUR DAY to ENJOY WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT.

     UNTIL you LEARN TO MOVE PAST YOUR PAST IT then it can HOLD ON LIKE SANDBAGS making EVERY MOVE YOU MAKE HARDER to do.

     As YOU GET OLDER you BEGIN TO REALIZE that YOU WASTED a lot of TIME WORRYING about many things that in the END you ACTUALLY REALIZED it was a WASTE OF YOUR TIME.

      SO...... THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE remember to ACCEPT WHAT HAS HAPPENED and JUST FLUSH IT out of YOUR MIND so you will have ROOM FOR PEACE OF MIND to GET IN.

    

     

     

What YOU Say is important to YOUR OPINIONS

      You have to be CAREFUL to be POSITIVE in your WAY OF THINKING because WHAT YOU THINK has a lot to do with WHO YOU TURN INTO.

      If you KEEP REMINDING yourself that IT'S TOO HARD then you MAY NEVER TRY IT because it is IN YOUR OPINION is TOO HARD.

      You may NOT LIKE HEIGHTS but if WHAT YOU NEED takes GOING UP HIGH then REMIND YOURSELF that you can CLIMB UP to get it.

     You may have to CONVINCE YOURSELF that YOU CAN DO IT so YOU WILL BE ABLE to DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO in order to GET 'R DONE.

     WHO YOU CHOOSE TO SURROUND YOURSELF with will be the PEOPLE that INSPIRES YOU to EITHER DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO or they will INSPIRE YOU to DO NOTHING.

     If you WANT TO BE INSPIRED then make sure YOU HANG OUT with people WHO YOU ARE INSPIRED BY.

     If you want to SUCCEED then YOU WILL HAVE TO STAY INSPIRATIONAL no matter what CIRCUMSTANCES THAT YOU MUST FACE IN YOUR LIFE.