Your emotions may keep you from seeing the real facts. You may be too emotional to see it. That doesn't mean it isn't obvious to see. It means you can't see it.
Your emotions can make you blind.
I know that you have heard that love can make you blind. But did you know that every emotion can make you blind?
When you are experiencing life you don't see everything you just are consumed by thoughts that evoke emotions that can keep you from caring about looking for the facts.
You mistake your emotions for facts. Have you ever got angry about something only to find out the facts behind it and realize that there was nothing to be angry about?
Have you ever just jumped into an idea without having all the facts? Only to realize that you should have waited until you had the facts because you sure would have done things differently.
When something happens that instantly evokes an emotion in you, stop before you react. Once you get the facts you will know exactly how you should react to have the best outcome.
The fact is that without all the facts you have no idea what you should do or how you truly should feel about it.
If you believe it is true then that will be your reality whether it is really true or not.
Don't let your emotions guide you, get the facts that can lead you in the right direction.