When you are waiting to see only the brightest star you over look the other well placed stars like the little dipper. When you search for only the faults of others you won't see the good things about them. When you look for trouble you will find it. You can only see what you look for. If you only think about the negative moments from your past you won't get a chance to remember any of the good memories. Things in life happen but how you look at them will determine what see. Look for the good things in a situation and that is what you will find.