Every thing good and bad that happens leads you to where you will go in Life. And sometimes you have a tornado rip through it and it is hard to understand that even being uprooted and battered was necessary. It may just be the only way you could get where you were meant to be. Your actions during and after the storm will determine whether you grow where you have been planted. If you choose to stand there stomping your feet in anger because it happened you can't grow roots anywhere.