It won't grow if you don't plant it

Funny how the way things turn out sometimes is no where near what you had planned. Even if you had put a lot of effort and thought into your plan. Wherever you end up is where you are so you will have to make new plans accordingly. Like my plaque says "Grow where you are planted." So just dig your feet in wherever you are and make strong roots there so you can stand strong. If you just stand there kicking and complaining you are merely preventing any chance of roots growing. The sooner you accept it the sooner you will get your feet firmly planted as you make the plans necessary to grow wherever you are planted.