You might want to take a moment to step back and think about it first. What you feel the instant something happens to you may not be how you feel after you have had a moment to think about it. Our first reaction to something that has hurt us is usually not a reaction that is in our best interest. So it is in your best interest to stop and think about it first so you don't react in a way that will only hurt you some more. After you have had time to think about it I am sure you will be glad you did. Sometimes you just need to back off for a moment.